Why the fuck would anyone go to Hartford? Its far as hell and has a really high crime rate. The women aren't cute and the bars are shit, the only thing there is the Law School which is pretty good for a state law school.
Greenwich is ok but its definitely one of those areas I worry about getting pulled over in because I'm black and I don't drive an 80k car.

 

When I was in Greenwich, CT I was riding shotgun with a friend who had the resources. I just brought the appetite, lol. I had an asset manager client who was constantly up there chasing pension funds. Hartford is just where some buddies from PR have family.

 

Just remembered Hartford has all those insurance companies and they pay incredibly well but you have to be willing to live in that shit hole or commute pretty far but a good CPA can make 90 to 100k easy out there.

 

But you're right, it was pretty grimy.

 

Question

I am sitting here contemplating following through with this date tonight.

Between my last post and now we probably have had one too many conversations...... and I fear he has given me TOO MUCH INFORMATION and asked the dreaded question of, "do you want a photo of my cock?" He said he thinks I may not continue seeing him if he doesn't impress me with what he thinks is his best asset.... say what now...... I replied with "That doesn't impress me that you would consider that."

WHY people WHY........ DO I not go?

 

It might be fun. How old is he?

 

He is 39. but really???????

 

damn and still pulling that stunt? lol

 

I would not go through with the date. You're just getting to know him and he's hit you with the dick pic? I don't see anything serious with him

 

I know... geezuz, I told him very clearly what i am looking for, and that I want to get to know him as the man he is without being clouded by just sex sex sex. Heck thats all good and stuff, but I am not the girl who gives that up so easy. A little old fashioned in a way... Court me first dude..... geez

 

I believe you are right, which is why I am not wanting to go.

He told me to just "forget" he asked me.

 

Sigh. Guess it's good to know this now and not later

 

Just rife with possibilities for misinterpretation.

Seriously though, that is a bit quick, no?

 

What does courting mean to you?
My girl pulled the same line. You over 30 broads crack me up lol

 

Bleh...such a turn off. To me it sends the message that he really just wants sex. Plus it's disrespectful IMO...as if this lil ol ww is just into the strong, sexy bm for his dick. Dick pics (or just the offer of) says a lot about someone who's trying to date you.

For me, the men who don't get sexual in our early conversations always seem to get farther in their attempts to date me. Maybe I overthink this topic or maybe I've just been surprised by one too many dick pics lol, but it always rubs me the wrong way. Makes me feel like they view me as just something to fuck.

Now I want to know if you went!!

 

People are stupid. Give him a second chance and go, just be 'aware'. Nobody here knows the entirety of the conversations that you've had with him. Maybe you've already covered all of the intellectual bases and he just wanted to FF to the next step in the getting to know you process?

Or, maybe he truly feels that his best asset, in which case... congratulations on finding a human dildo.

 

PD3000 everyone PD3000

Take a bow sir

 

we've covered all our intellectual bases....


time to move onto the dick pics

 

Dang CB... I agree w others in that the guy is a bit "one track minded" if you will..or at least would seem so. Big turn off for me, personally. Not even one date...sort of sets expectations in my humble opinion. Unspoken motive.

I'm sorry to say, I would probably not go...