I'll keep my eyes peeled for more on this topic and keep you posted if I come across anything. In other news, my son is getting lippy (no, not the forum member, lol) and disrespectful and the period of time each visit that I need to deprogram him from his mother's behavior is taking longer. I hope this isn't adolescence...
No doubt that adolescence has a lot to do with it since he's at that age now. Ages 11-14 were the worst years with my son, and there were times his mouth and attitude made me want to snap his neck. Damn puberty. lol It will get worse for a while, but it does eventually get better. Puberty kicking in and dealing with the stressful influence of his narcissistic mother are a rough combination, so try to be patient. Hang in there, dad. :freehug:
I'll leave an Instant Message (too long to detail here) outlining the last bit of nonsense. Thanks for the encouragement.
Ore ~ I have a similar issue w my 16 yr old son. His dad behaves like a total jerk at times and treats others like he is above them. When my son is with his father, he shares that same mentality and I can hear and see those ugly traits in my son. He often talks down to me in such a way that I am his equal or like I'm not making the right decisions when it comes to his little sister. He talks to me in a way that he would never dream of talking to his father. I am constantly deprogramming him and it causes quite a stress on our relationship. Hard raising a strong willed teenage boy. Just keep pushing forward and do your best to love your son. Be a strong mentor and try not to allow the frustration with his mom to damage your relationship with your son.
I wonder if goodlove has a job and, if so, what exactly it is? I can't imagine that it has anything to do with properly worded written communication.
lol lol mofo wake up thinking about me , at breakfast thinking about me, at lunch thinking about me, at dinner thinking about me, and go to bed thinking about me. lol. lol. im in that head building my house.
After two weeks of delays, I'm finally out of the army. Back in Cali muthafucka!! Peace the fuck out Honolulu!
Welcome back man, be sure and check out Coronado Beach on a Sunday if you're already in SD. It's a real laid back energy down there even with the jarheads and San Diego State fratboy bullshit in PB, I think you'll like it.
Thanks man. I'm going back to school. Thanks for the heads up man. I'll avoid heavy party places because I'm done with that shit.
