My stance on this is the same as it's been during all three (very lengthy) conversations we've had surrounding pregnancy. Pregnancy doesn't just happen because protection isn't used. I've gotten pregnant ON BIRTH CONTROL, so it happens regardless of how protected you think you are. I agree with TDK. Man and woman participate in the same exact act. But for some reason women hold 100% of the power in determining whether they, and the man, become parents. That's not right no matter how you try to spin it. I believe men should have a choice (just like women do) in when they become parents. An unintended pregnancy can be devastating and it's absurd that men have no say in the decision to keep or terminate that pregnancy. To answer your question, if TDK was my bf and I became pregnant we'd have to have a serious discussion about our future. If he was adamant that he wasn't ready to b a father, I'd have to decide if I was ready to do it alone. And if the answer to that was no, I'd have to consider a termination. Not an easy decision but I'll never, ever force fatherhood on a man. It's that simple for me. My body, my decision, ultimately my responsibility.
lol...let me lower it so even u get it....if u want thevpussy then u have accept the shit thqt goes with it
my stance has been the same from beginning to end....both are responsible. if he is adamant about not having a kid...he has decisions too. condom vasectomy or jack off. just like women there are bc. nothing is 100%. is life fair....no. i said that before. if she decides to have the kid ...suck it up. both are responsible. gis point under any circumstance hes shouldnt be held responsible at all for his actions. to say for a man to be held respobsible for the child ge help produce (like it or not) doesnt mean the woman is off the hook.
I understand your point. We just see things wildly differently and that's ok. Forcing someone to parent when they're not ready isn't smart, man or woman. I've seen patients do everything right...on BC, using condoms, condom breaks they come in for EC <24 hours after upi...still end up pregnant. Life isn't fair but knowing I have options in case of a "worst case scrnario" makes things a lot easier. It'll be awesome if men get to feel that security blanket at some point.
Right there she gets to decide. If she decides, no outside input, how is another party held responsible for her decision? You have really weird logic. Bottom line for you men should just do as told huh.
This skin thing is absolutely no joke my dude. They really aren't fond of our kind it appears. Even out here in NYC, IR mecca, I don't see that many Asians with anything other than white and Asian men. But I do see a lot of bm with ww, in fact most of my friends who use to clown me in hs are with white women now. Guess they got hip and made the power switch lol
i dig what hes saying about not wanting kids but u shouldnt trust anybody in not getting preggy. hell i got put in positions like that plenty but at the end of the day....i have to look at myself in putting myself in that position. no one forced u to lay with that man or woman.
u have weird logic....u are saying all the responsibility is on the woman in not getting preggy. u have said that before. i say no....shes responsible and u.
Next life...Im all yours Petty'll still be making smart comments from the sideline in that lifetime too I'm sure lol. I want like 100 babies though so you should start saving now
