Home boy gl gonna go against you just because, to argue this point is phucking retarded,, will let you lol,,
a now i want u to go back and really read what he stated. bm leaving bw to take care of the kids. as i told u before bm not taking responsibility for their kids... also we are talking about do wm catch it from white community for dating black. they do. u never ever would comment on that vid of a white preacher in church preaching not to narry black. why?
Oh you better believe wm still get shit for it. It's one thing if they are playing and doing the testing the exotic waters (of all sorts of race/ethnicities) It's a different story when it comes to marriage and having children. An awful lot of wm are VERY concerned about their image and marry accordingly.
Much of that was decades ago. You don't hear nearly as much about ww getting shit on for dating IR nowadays. Not saying it doesn't happen in some families but be honest...ww get cut from a will, bm get lynched. He can you honestly sit there and sympathize with ww in that scenario? Rhetorical question...we'll always agree to disagree on this.
oh lawd have mercy. when i say cut out of the will that figuratively and literally. meaning ww will get chastised for dating black. you guys not too long ago showed white girls with black boys catching hell for taking a pic with them in a prom pic. just in the last ten years there were friction on integrated proms. are u serious? we are not taljing about who has it worse. we are acknowledging that ww and bw catch it in IR.
Which is a crime here people from just about every background are susceptible to friction for dating another religion, ethnicity or race Deal with it u jerkoffs
I get your point. I'm quick to lose sympathy for whiners so ww can typically miss me with their "loss of inheritance" sob story. There is so much freedom that comes with white privilege, I have a hard time feeling sorry for (or even acknowledging the "injustice" against) princesses that lose a couple dollars for dating bm. I don't consider that "catching it" when talking about struggles with dating ir. Kudos to you tho for acknowledging that particular white woman "struggle". You're more open minded than I am when it comes to this topic.
lol. being cut off from the family is no joke. people will disown their kids for dating IR. its not a cavalier thing to do. think on it. u date a dude and it goes south. then what? no family to go home to if u need em. thats some foul stuff to have on your back. not all white families are open to dating IR. so i dont chastise so quick . its not black and white...no pun intended
I get that not all families are open to ir dating and I know some women have to choose between their family and their love. I guess I'm of the mindset that if my family didn't accept my SO due to the color of their skin then fuck them. We are adults and tough decisions are a part of life. If we choose love over racist family members, we have to live with that decision even if the relationship fails. Don't get me wrong, I love my family, but if they're hell bent on remaining ignorant racists I wouldn't give two thoughts about cutting them off. That's not the type of people I want around me and mine. That's just me tho. I've never been one to care what others think or rely on them for my own existence so if I felt I was better off (healthier) without certain people in my life then that's a change I'm comfortable making. I recognize I'm a lot thicker skinned than some tho so maybe it's just me.
you have to be thick skinned. i always say to dudes....it not all about u. meaning dont overly get upset if a ww wont date u....it could be a slew of reasons. if she tells u im game with but my fam this and that...then be cool for a sec. i believe she is checking u to see if this is longterm. for some women black or white...once they get established....they will say fu## it. im doing what i want. some others ....just dont care and do them
Any family willing to disown you over the skin color of the person you love doesn't nor ever loved you. Anything that flimsy ain't love. Seriously think about it. If I were gay there are people in my Jamaican family who would never look at me again but those people don't really love me they just deal with me because I'm blood. My mom my siblings and certain cousins would welcome me with open arms. So what exactly would one be losing by weeding out fair weather "family"
My thoughts exactly. And even in the case of wm "catching hell" they aren't disowned or physically harmed to anywhere the degree bm or ww are. Wm and aw pairings are the number one IR by far, bm/ww come at a distant second. No one gives a rat ass who wm date. People may talk shit but there is next to no social impact. No denial of jobs no cutting out of families or wills almost no physical incidents.
That's complete bullshit. I'm not going to cry a river for white men and anything they have had to deal with, but they definitely have lost jobs, been cut from families, etc. for choosing to be with a black woman. And you can bet that usually they choose NOT to and/or try to keep her on the side while marrying the white woman. There's more social impact than you may realize. It's just more behind the doors. And plenty of white women were beaten for being with black men. I don't think it's about comparing who's had it worse or dealt with more. As far as goodloves idea that ww should be given some slack if she's hesitant to date a black man due to family/societal pressures....that I'm not going for at all. I know fully that some deal with it, but so what. If they really want to be with someone, then they aren't going to let that stop them. There are those who say such things just as a way out. Let me tell you, I dealt in the adoption arena for many years and that's where you really get to see racial hierarchy at it's worst. People are very very quick to say how they aren't "open to transracial" adoption because of all the backlash they would get from their family and community.
