Lol welcome to equality at its best And I never said I have the right to pressure anyone. Just playing the other side of this. Do we really need a hundred posts saying the same thing where everyone joins in on the circle jerk of agreement.
That's the most important time to play devil's advocate is when the topic is this serious. Right and wrong is rarely black and white. Is it wrong to rape? Well no duh of course it is. But classifying what it means to be pushy to understand the nuances that we consider to be healthy human interaction merits a talk. Just like you said earlier in the context of a well established relationship no may warrant reading body language and tone because there are instances when it doesn't mean no. I already see where this is all going. We're going to scale day gendered interactions to its bare minimum where misunderstandings rarely happen which will be good in the long run.
Welp.... If I ever go to a party, pass out and wake up in a dark alley with my pants around my ankles, at least darren wilson will know whom to start the investigation with
You're not doing anyone a favor by taking something so simple and trying to make it more complex than necessary. It can't be an insult when you act in such a manner and I cannot tolerate that sort of persistent behavior when people gave a clear answer.
What investigation? You do remember you're black right? Lol I do wonder how well they handle male rape cases especially if the perp is another man
People gave a clear opinion. I'm entitled to have one as well. Don't resort to insults just because someone doest agree with your pov. It's childish and unnecessary.
Like that will be an acceptable excuse whenever your significant other cheats on you. 'But hon, he talked me into giving up the pussy!!':| The concept is wrong because for an adult the reality doesn't exist. At least for human beings, sex isn't an involuntary act.
Oh...you know.....with hundreds of laughs, jokes and endless verbal assaults on your remaining manhood ...that's provided you're actually willing to admit to people..especially another man, that you were raped by a guy We never grow up and see humor in the darkest shit
lawd. now what a great man must you be, if you think you are in need "talking/pressuring/insert anything you like" someone into sex huh? i know there are more then enough women out there who will happy and willingly agree into a flyby fuck n leave. so where is the deeper sense in making a big issue out of/or pushing those cases where women, for what ever reason, do not agree? if you are not willing, to just share affection (this is what "just kissing and cuddling" means, to those who dont know, needless to add that should be part of a relationship or even a love/sex affair), take time to have the significant other feel comfy enough to have sex or wait for that day, just accept a no as a sign of respect without justification given, pls- just go ahead and look for the easy ones or pay for your shit to get beaten off.
Yeah its weird the bs notions people hold onto as if they'd react the same way if it were their brother son father or uncle.
Exactly - RUN do NOT walk from these chicks!!! My son encountered something like this recently. He was with his gf for 6 years. They broke up a year ago. He starts dating a bit. Goes out with this girl she's flirty touchy feely throughout the night, he goes to kiss her at the end of the night and she pulls away. He stops says good night goes on his way. She then blows up FB about how he's lame, not a REAL man, and doesn't know what he's doing because he didn't keep trying. He's saying he doesn't get her. I said RUNNNNN. She was then trying to contact him like crazy, he didn't respond. You do NOT need to be messing with that shit!! These are mixed up little girls who need to grow up. RUNNNN. AGAIN, it can be debated and discussed all you want. You may even find people to say what you want to hear on the matter, but the bottom line is it's not going to help your azz any when you are sitting in jail facing rape charges. NOT worth it. No is no all day every day. And if you REALLY think it's not, then you need to be getting yourself some mental help and not be messing with anyone else.
Correction: The consensus gave a clear statement of fact and yet, you continue to drag the conversation on as though there's something deeper in it, which there clearly isn't. People had to help you dig out the hole by changing what you implied just to make you less asinine. Again, no insults were thrown. Just plain observation. It's easier to just to exercise simplicity, especially when it comes to things pertaining to sexual encounters or reading cues on that manner.
What's wrong with jail? More money is spent on jails, prisons and their inhabitants than say, the homeless, so..... If you can put up with being labeled a rapist and dodging dick after dark, it beats the brakes off living in the street where no one spends a dime on you
Dude my observation is you seem to have a mild obsession with me to the point where you to lengths to take time to scold me for having a different opinion. An opinion other posters have brought up yet you zero in on me. Why? If you find my posts and opinions unpleasant why engage in such a way that makes you sound frustrated and angry. We don't have to engage it's ok. No hard feelings just ignore each other.
