Social Media hails Baltimore Mom who caught her Son Rioting

Loki said:
Certainly agree that the bold par above happens Ra, but this is where CHARACTER and a strong sense of self comes in. These are the things that parents can play a BIG part in terms of instilling these values in their kids. For me I was/am still lucky enough to have two great parents in a loving marriage, who taught my brother and I strong morals and values and to always use our heads no matter how strong the peer pressure.

But as a boy, what really kept me on the straight path, was knowing the love and support I had always received from both and not wanting to disappoint either one of them, in addition to a HEALTHY dose of fear and respect for what my pops would do to me if I ever did something crazy stupid. IMO boys especially need that STRONG male role model in their life who walks the walk as well as talking the talk.
Click to expand...


I hear you. I had a similar upbringing as well. However I've also seen a few friends who had the exact same upbringing at one time or another temporarily get caught up in things they shouldn't have and knew perfectly well they shouldn't have because fitting in with certain other people was a little bit more pressing than fear of theirs parents or just to rebel for the sake of rebelling. Not saying that's something that should ever be excused if/when it does happen, just that it does happen.
 
Ra said:
I hear you. I had a similar upbringing as well. However I've also seen a few friends who had the exact same upbringing at one time or another temporarily get caught up in things they shouldn't have and knew perfectly well they shouldn't have because fitting in with certain other people was a little bit more pressing than fear of theirs parents or just to rebel for the sake of rebelling. Not saying that's something that should ever be excused if/when it does happen, just that it does happen.
Click to expand...

:smt023:smt023:smt023:smt023
 
pettyofficerj said:
This really should be about Freddie, his family and what they want because they're the actual victims, but who cares when there are cars to be flipped and churches to burn

If the families of the people killed by cops aren't rioting, why the fuck is anyone else?
Click to expand...
Amen. Did you see Ray Lewis's vid message?
http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/7161584


Stizzy said:
So Lips, if you saw that same woman and son at your local grocery store given a calm settled environment, you'd still applaud her? I assure you others wouldn't.
Click to expand...

Why would any mom do that if things were in a calm environment. Circumstsnces count, yeah?
 
I just saw a Dr. Drew clip about this and they were talking about how it's clear this isn't the first time this mom has hit her son upside the head. Also how detrimental this "type of parenting" can be (especially to young black males).

She is a single mom to 6 kids. There was all sorts of analysis going on and conversation about how it's all about (black) children (specifically boys) are growing up with without a male role model in the home.

I'm trying to find the video on it now. It just aired so it may be a bit too early.
 
pettyofficerj said:
This really should be about Freddie, his family and what they want because they're the actual victims, but who cares when there are cars to be flipped and churches to burn

If the families of the people killed by cops aren't rioting, why the fuck is anyone else?
Click to expand...

Because it's not about them and you I think you know that. People are no doubt upset about that man being killed but even more so fed frustrated and scared by never being heard and treated like garbage. Freddie isn't the root cause of this just another symptom.
 
KinCA said:
I just saw a Dr. Drew clip about this and they were talking about how it's clear this isn't the first time this mom has hit her son upside the head. Also how detrimental this "type of parenting" can be (especially to young black males).

She is a single mom to 6 kids. There was all sorts of analysis going on and conversation about how it's all about (black) children (specifically boys) are growing up with without a male role model in the home.

I'm trying to find the video on it now. It just aired so it may be a bit too early.
Click to expand...

Wow Loki called it
 
KinCA said:
I just saw a Dr. Drew clip about this and they were talking about how it's clear this isn't the first time this mom has hit her son upside the head. Also how detrimental this "type of parenting" can be (especially to young black males).

She is a single mom to 6 kids. There was all sorts of analysis going on and conversation about how it's all about (black) children (specifically boys) are growing up with without a male role model in the home.

I'm trying to find the video on it now. It just aired so it may be a bit too early.
Click to expand...

The Dark King said:
Wow Loki called it
Click to expand...

Well that didn't take long now did it

The convo shifted right from police brutality to bad parenting within the black community

God bless america
 
Stizzy said:
So Lips, if you saw that same woman and son at your local grocery store given a calm settled environment, you'd still applaud her? I assure you others wouldn't.
Click to expand...

I live in the hood...I see lots of BW raising kids on their own...one of my neighbors son is in jail and it would not be an exaggeration to say she sleeps better at night knowing he isn't out running the streets

Now you take into consideration all the young black males that have been shot by police recently and you see your son on TV with a hoodie and mask rioting...are you going to go drag his ass out of harms way or just get another beer and watch until he is dead or arrested
 
lippy said:
I live in the hood...I see lots of BW raising kids on their own...one of my neighbors son is in jail and it would not be an exaggeration to say she sleeps better at night knowing he isn't out running the streets

Now you take into consideration all the young black males that have been shot by police recently and you see your son on TV with a hoodie and mask rioting...are you going to go drag his ass out of harms way or just get another beer and watch until he is dead or arrested
Click to expand...

Well the mama said she didn't want her son to end up like Freddie so.........
 
lippy said:
I live in the hood...I see lots of BW raising kids on their own...one of my neighbors son is in jail and it would not be an exaggeration to say she sleeps better at night knowing he isn't out running the streets

Now you take into consideration all the young black males that have been shot by police recently and you see your son on TV with a hoodie and mask rioting...are you going to go drag his ass out of harms way or just get another beer and watch until he is dead or arrested
Click to expand...

The only thing I'm saying is: people are justifying this lady hitting her son because of the situation. Let her hit him in public any other day and its child abuse. It's a great example of how this country has "double standards".
 
Stizzy said:
The only thing I'm saying is: people are justifying this lady hitting her son because of the situation. Let her hit him in public any other day and its child abuse. It's a great example of how this country has "double standards".
Click to expand...

Smacking your son over the head because he spilled a glass of water is abuse

Smacking your son because you don't want him to end up dead during complete anarchy isn't
 
Stizzy said:
The only thing I'm saying is: people are justifying this lady hitting her son because of the situation. Let her hit him in public any other day and its child abuse. It's a great example of how this country has "double standards".
Click to expand...

Also an example of how this country wants to see black men/male children treated. The conversation would be totally different if it were his father or it was a white kid with his white mom.
 
The Dark King said:
Also an example of how this country wants to see black men/male children treated. The conversation would be totally different if it were his father or it was a white kid with his white mom.
Click to expand...

:smt043:smt043:smt043:smt043

Like I said...been there done that... To this day if my son is parked in an area that I consider gang territory here in Denver I will be all over his ass until he leaves and he is 20...still lives at home..my house my rules...

You are delusional living up in your gated community...
 
Stizzy said:
The only thing I'm saying is: people are justifying this lady hitting her son because of the situation. Let her hit him in public any other day and its child abuse. It's a great example of how this country has "double standards".
Click to expand...

If the kid was younger yes...
 
lippy said:
:smt043:smt043:smt043:smt043

Like I said...been there done that... To this day if my son is parked in an area that I consider gang territory here in Denver I will be all over his ass until he leaves and he is 20...still lives at home..my house my rules...

You are delusional living up in your gated community...
Click to expand...

Like I said the spin would be very different. Have you not caught onto the two Americas scheme yet
 
Stizzy said:
So Lips, if you saw that same woman and son at your local grocery store given a calm settled environment, you'd still applaud her? I assure you others wouldn't.
Click to expand...
sorry stiz but have to disagree.i wouldve spanked that butt.

there are multiple probs in the hood and one is how to discipline a kid.

i cant recall a time i had to spank my child/daughter . i raised my voice and put her on punishment but thats it.

in this situation......have mercy on her soul if her butt was out there not as a news reporter

people need to know there are ways to keep a kid in check w/o spanking
 
goodlove said:
sorry stiz but have to disagree.i wouldve spanked that butt.

there are multiple probs in the hood and one is how to discipline a kid.

i cant recall a time i had to spank my child/daughter . i raised my voice and put her on punishment but thats it.

in this situation......have mercy on her soul if her butt was out there not as a news reporter

people need to know there are ways to keep a kid in check w/o spanking
Click to expand...
What are you disagreeing with? I don't spare the rod. My only point was the double standards in this country. Personally, I could care less what she did.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom