I am concerned with this constant devaluing of men as if by the very nature of being male we're expected to just take whatever bullshit someone throws at us. If we are trying to shape a progressive society how about NO ONE goes around hitting anybody?
Why play this shame game of ha ha you got your ass beat by a woman?
Either women are our equals or they're not. And just like any other law abiding male I expect women not to hit me. What's wrong with that?

 

Why you cant say that about a man that's getting his ass beat by a woman? How come he can't man the fuck up and choose better? lol

 

Most sane women are too afraid to come at their man with violence in a relationship.

I just never had an female no matter how angry try to fight me.
Well, not since the 3th grade.:smt062

What I don't understand is if your chick is whupping your ass on the regular, why as a man don't you leave out the front door???

I've known a lot of dudes in my life and I've known a few whose women had a temper, but their main worry was if this bitch flipped they might have to KNOCK HER OUT.

They weren't scared of getting their butt kicked.lol


Male victims of abuse might happen to some cats out here, but the majority of physical abuse in any relationship is a man slapping around a female.




Solange lost her damn little mind and was raging in this video, but at no point was she a threat to the men in that elevator nor was she in any kind of control of the situation.:smt119

If my woman was this crazy I'd dump her.
Most men would be right there with me.

A violent woman will get your ass locked up faster than hitting a cop.

No thanks.





If you see yourself above, there's some shit you need to work on.:butthead:



Poor Kris Humphries!!! Bet he didn't even know he was the victim of domestic abuse on live TV!!!
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So the rules are different for men than women because men are bigger?

 

Right? Don't make sense at all. Either we're equals or we're not no half assing it.

 

Exactly.

To me he is saying "its ok for a woman to hit a man"

Also to bilbo "what does being dumped has to do with being abused"

 

If a man hits my sister or god help him my mom, he is going to see just how equal we are when he gets his chance to do the same to me.

Not saying that at all. Post#16 go back and read.

 

Yes. Size matters.

We'll never be equal in every sense of the word because certain variables that can provide an advantage (like size) are of our control.

 

LOL. This all day

 

So because a woman is smaller its not abuse when she hits him

So because shes the mother she should get a pass and u should pick a woman u can beat up

 

Not saying that. Men have rights under the law and if you would like to put your baby's mother in jail then that's on you. It's your right. You have to live with your own decisions and I have no problem with that.

It's also my right to laugh at you for getting your ass kicked by a woman. I can support your rights under the law and still have a personal opinion that's contrary to your decision.

 

I won't say 100% of the time it's "not abuse" but honestly I've been grossly outsized in nearly all of my relationships and while I never have and never will hit a man, if I ever did put my hands on my guy...how much damage can I honestly cause?? My guy can 100% subdue me with one hand (he's proven it every time we're play fighting lol) so if I come out swinging, any damage done would be the result of him allowing me to do it. He truly holds all the power. Size matters.

 

Hitting someone is still abuse

 

I didnt say u dont have the rite to laugh but so u are saying its stupid to put her in jail for hitting u or whatever? Are u saying a man should knock her out if she hits u?

 

Abuse is ongoing. Anything ongoing is allowed. Allowing yourself to be a victim can only garner my sympathy for so long.

I know that's not a popular opinion but it is what it is.

 

Ha! Ha! Just now seeing that you edited your post. I don't need to beat up women. Handling her is a mental thing, but if she gets violent I can still handle her without beating her ass. Most of that would still be mental.

I grew up protecting myself from real threats so I know the difference when I see it. If the situation is bad I can leave safely without feeling like my life is in danger.

 

I agree with in that men and women should see the signs of craziness (soc) and bolt.

My fone is lagging like crazy

 

Yeah u can grab a hold of her but u are till running a risk of going to jail. U know that.

 

Yeah ok........

I have avoided a lot of trouble by knowing how to handle police. Obviously that's a mental thing. People go to jail for bullshit all the time......whatever. The only thing I really see a problem with is police brutality.

Bottom line is that if one of you call the cops that should be the end of the relationship......forever. Trust is #1. If you can't trust her she is useless to you.

If a woman calls the cops on me I will personally sign a document stating that the relationship is over forever and give it to the police on the spot. I realize that's unnecessary, but that's how strongly I feel about not having drama in my life.

 

We are saying the same thing. If she showing u signs of craziness then its time to go.

If u have to call the cops then its time to go. But it is abuse if a woman put her hands on u just like a dude does