30+ and i've never had a girlfriend--

for that im going to go on a limb and say hes telling the truth.
there are some Real bros here. north and andrebobba to name a few who can hip u to some game. if that is what u are asking rihht?
Hypestyle said:
http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f21/laments-of-a-41-year-old-virgin-1299289/

[FONT=&quot]1 Are you pushing 40 now with no luck yet?
I can star in my own Steve Carell movie.[/FONT]
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2 OP -- be honest out here in the anonymity of cyberspace... Why do YOU think you've never had a girlfriend?[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Severe Social Anxiety; depression; getting treated as a nerd as a kid; having to get used to Detroit with no social circle (not my hometown); initially dropping out of college at 19 and feeling deeply ashamed/inadequate; not finally finishing college until 3 years ago; never earning enough money to move out on my own;

3 Are you sure you're not trolling?
If truth-telling is trolling…[/FONT]
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4 Do you have some hormonal problem?
Err… I’m going with no. (definition?)[/FONT]
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5 Are you still a virgin?
See #1.[/FONT]
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6 Do you whack it?
Man, what do you think? :rolleyes:[/FONT]
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7 When you whack it are your fantasies about women?
Always.[/FONT]
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8 Have you been to hookers? .
Never. Let’s face it, 99% of professionals don’t look like music-video chicks or famous actresses, etc. Detroit isn’t northern Nevada. There’s no bunny ranch. Then there’s money $$$ issues, police/undercover issues, robbery/setup issues, “get-in-get-out-I’m-on-the-clock” issues, fear of “damn, I had to pay for it” post-hookup regrets, etc. I'd rather not be bothered with all of that.
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[FONT=&quot]..Strip clubs?[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Yes, but only a select number of times (less than 10?). I’ve only once had the nerve to go by myself; usually it’s only when a male cousin visits from out of town. I’m always nervous about potentially overspending.[/FONT]
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Hypestyle said:
http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f21/laments-of-a-41-year-old-virgin-1299289/

[FONT=&quot]1 Are you pushing 40 now with no luck yet?
I can star in my own Steve Carell movie.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
2 OP -- be honest out here in the anonymity of cyberspace... Why do YOU think you've never had a girlfriend?[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Severe Social Anxiety; depression; getting treated as a nerd as a kid; having to get used to Detroit with no social circle (not my hometown); initially dropping out of college at 19 and feeling deeply ashamed/inadequate; not finally finishing college until 3 years ago; never earning enough money to move out on my own;

3 Are you sure you're not trolling?
If truth-telling is trolling…[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
4 Do you have some hormonal problem?
Err… I’m going with no. (definition?)[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
5 Are you still a virgin?
See #1.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
6 Do you whack it?
Man, what do you think? :rolleyes:[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
7 When you whack it are your fantasies about women?
Always.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
8 Have you been to hookers? .
Never. Let’s face it, 99% of professionals don’t look like music-video chicks or famous actresses, etc. Detroit isn’t northern Nevada. There’s no bunny ranch. Then there’s money $$$ issues, police/undercover issues, robbery/setup issues, “get-in-get-out-I’m-on-the-clock” issues, fear of “damn, I had to pay for it” post-hookup regrets, etc. I'd rather not be bothered with all of that.
[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]..Strip clubs?[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Yes, but only a select number of times (less than 10?). I’ve only once had the nerve to go by myself; usually it’s only when a male cousin visits from out of town. I’m always nervous about potentially overspending.[/FONT]
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2016 is going to be your year Hypestyle...stay confident...keep working on yourself. There are alot of women out there looking for the one as well. Someone for everyone...your time!
 
lippy said:
2016 is going to be your year Hypestyle...stay confident...keep working on yourself. There are alot of women out there looking for the one as well. Someone for everyone...your time!
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Now that is a warm vote of confidence and prophecy for Hypestyle......I don't know if a guy could pay to have his palm read so positively.....
 
Just be yourself, Hypestyle. Enjoy what you are about. I am 50, no wife or girlfriend. Haven't had sex since 2002. I am not ashamed to admit it. I, too, do not make enough money to strike on my own. I am picky and will not be with just any woman. Just focus on your strengths in your journey regardless of your age. This is your life. Live well.
 
Hypestyle said:
http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/f21/laments-of-a-41-year-old-virgin-1299289/

[FONT=&quot]1 Are you pushing 40 now with no luck yet?
I can star in my own Steve Carell movie.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
2 OP -- be honest out here in the anonymity of cyberspace... Why do YOU think you've never had a girlfriend?[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Severe Social Anxiety; depression; getting treated as a nerd as a kid; having to get used to Detroit with no social circle (not my hometown); initially dropping out of college at 19 and feeling deeply ashamed/inadequate; not finally finishing college until 3 years ago; never earning enough money to move out on my own;

3 Are you sure you're not trolling?
If truth-telling is trolling…[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
4 Do you have some hormonal problem?
Err… I’m going with no. (definition?)[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
5 Are you still a virgin?
See #1.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
6 Do you whack it?
Man, what do you think? :rolleyes:[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
7 When you whack it are your fantasies about women?
Always.[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]
8 Have you been to hookers? .
Never. Let’s face it, 99% of professionals don’t look like music-video chicks or famous actresses, etc. Detroit isn’t northern Nevada. There’s no bunny ranch. Then there’s money $$$ issues, police/undercover issues, robbery/setup issues, “get-in-get-out-I’m-on-the-clock” issues, fear of “damn, I had to pay for it” post-hookup regrets, etc. I'd rather not be bothered with all of that.
[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]..Strip clubs?[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Yes, but only a select number of times (less than 10?). I’ve only once had the nerve to go by myself; usually it’s only when a male cousin visits from out of town. I’m always nervous about potentially overspending.[/FONT]
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If you need to you can use your educational background to get out of Detroit. Go back to school in another state, if you are good in math you can go to business school try to get in the top 20 grad schools first, or go for engineering you don't even need a graduate program for that, just aim for the top 50 engineering schools. You can also apply to law school if math is not your thing. Look into nursing school as well. (Don't know how much math you need for that)
 
Beasty said:
If you need to you can use your educational background to get out of Detroit. Go back to school in another state, if you are good in math you can go to business school try to get in the top 20 grad schools first, or go for engineering you don't even need a graduate program for that, just aim for the top 50 engineering schools. You can also apply to law school if math is not your thing. Look into nursing school as well. (Don't know how much math you need for that)
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working on exiting.. whether it's school or simply another job, I don't much care.. we'll see.. applications, applications..
 
Hypestyle said:
Severe Social Anxiety; depression; getting treated as a nerd as a kid; having to get used to Detroit with no social circle (not my hometown); initially dropping out of college at 19 and feeling deeply ashamed/inadequate; not finally finishing college until 3 years ago; never earning enough money to move out on my own;
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lastdragon8.jpg


There's something you should learn better sooner than later. The pic is your clue.
 
goodlove said:
i saw that movie when it first came out and loved it. saw it again and realized how corny it was
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The Last Dragon was, first and foremost, a fantasy. Berry Gordy's urban homage to kung-fu movies. Kung Fu films played a lot in movie theaters in the black community. Rza, from the Wu Tang Clan recalled that he went to a lot of these films when he was younger and used to play fight with the other kids who saw those films, too. When The Last Dragon came out, kids were playing fighting in the theaters after the film ended.
 
i know. it was still corny. like i said...when i saw it tge first time ...it was great but when i saw it again (not too long ago) it was and is corny.

Gorath said:
The Last Dragon was, first and foremost, a fantasy. Berry Gordy's urban homage to kung-fu movies. Kung Fu films played a lot in movie theaters in the black community. Rza, from the Wu Tang Clan recalled that he went to a lot of these films when he was younger and used to play fight with the other kids who saw those films, too. When The Last Dragon came out, kids were playing fighting in the theaters after the film ended.
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goodlove said:
i know. it was still corny. like i said...when i saw it tge first time ...it was great but when i saw it again (not too long ago) it was and is corny.
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The joys of being a young filmgoer. At that young age, we see only the action because we want to see the action. Our minds were not ready to dissect a movie yet. That comes later.
 
goodlove said:
i know. it was still corny. like i said...when i saw it tge first time ...it was great but when i saw it again (not too long ago) it was and is corny.
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Gorath said:
The joys of being a young filmgoer. At that young age, we see only the action because we want to see the action. Our minds were not ready to dissect a movie yet. That comes later.
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A good movie back then yet corny by today's standards but still a classic and a good metaphor for the basic message behind it. Yet beyond the basic message is an even bigger one that unintentionally or subtlety corresponds to a much larger picture of philosophical or spiritual development. A message that can only be seen by one who understands or knows that such a level of consciousness exists. Delivery is subjective to time, culture and sophistication but the idea is universal and attainable by those who seek with genuine purpose.
 
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Beasty said:
lastdragon8.jpg


There's something you should learn better sooner than later. The pic is your clue.
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Well as far fetched as the glow is, it is a great metaphor for the power that resides inside of all of us. We can all tap into our own personal glow if we have confidence in our own skill and don’t let other people define our reality.

When you have practised and trained enough to truly master a skill you can perform it expertly without having to plan or even think about it. Something happens and your body just reacts quicker than your mind can imagine. When you’ve reached this level of skill it really does fell like your glowing. It’s a beautiful thing.
 
LA said:
Well as far fetched as the glow is, it is a great metaphor for the power that resides inside of all of us. We can all tap into our own personal glow if we have confidence in our own skill and don’t let other people define our reality.

When you have practised and trained enough to truly master a skill you can perform it expertly without having to plan or even think about it. Something happens and your body just reacts quicker than your mind can imagine. When you’ve reached this level of skill it really does fell like your glowing. It’s a beautiful thing.
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That LA kush must be amazing lol
 
Gorath said:
The joys of being a young filmgoer. At that young age, we see only the action because we want to see the action. Our minds were not ready to dissect a movie yet. That comes later.
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loved it as a kid.

Beasty said:
A good movie back then yet corny by today's standards but still a classic and a good metaphor for the basic message behind it. Yet beyond the basic message is an even bigger one that unintentionally or subtlety corresponds to a much larger picture of philosophical or spiritual development. A message that can only be seen by one who understands or knows that such a level of consciousness exists. Delivery is subjective to time, culture and sophistication but the idea is universal and attainable by those who seek with genuine purpose.
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yep
 
LA said:
Well as far fetched as the glow is, it is a great metaphor for the power that resides inside of all of us. We can all tap into our own personal glow if we have confidence in our own skill and don’t let other people define our reality.

When you have practised and trained enough to truly master a skill you can perform it expertly without having to plan or even think about it. Something happens and your body just reacts quicker than your mind can imagine. When you’ve reached this level of skill it really does fell like your glowing. It’s a beautiful thing.
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I loved the fact that Taimak's character was a wholesome, disciplined and dedicated young man who was sort of an innocent in the world. But he was prepared to face any and all obstacles using the skills he had learned. He wasn't a thug or a ne'er do-well. Even if he didn't have the Glow, he had the skills to defeat Sho-Nuffield. Like Morpheus said to Neo in The Matrix, "Don't think you are. Know you are." And that's what makes that film memorable to me. And it was an 80's film with hit songs like Rhythm Of The Night. I think more characters like Taimak's character needs to be in more films and shows. Omit the thuggery.
 
Hate much?

LUCIFERMORNINGSTAR said:
Does this hate color your views about rape with regards to women?
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You hate women, is there anyone you love? Certainly not yourself. Maybe just self loathing because you are seriously bent. Good luck. Learn to like you first. Your vibe is creepy killer. You might get more action with a simple decent guy attitude.
 
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