LOL...I go "fort hood" it truly will be a bad thing. ...dude was a Doctor, and non-combat doctor at that. I decide to lose it,.....they really will be in trouble.
Of course I wouldn't expect for you to say anything less than "but I have things to be proud of my family too" nothing less. For you to say "Damn man, no I don't understand why would we be upset that someone in family did this" would just make to much sense it would not serve as a strong enough retort. Those with no family legacy simply do not understand the importance of it.