Do you believe in Love?

I feel like people forgot the meaning of Love. I still love love, and value intimacy. I believe that it's sentimental and sensual when real, it only gets better... Anyone?

 

No. I don't believe in love anymore.

 

I believe in love, but I don’t believe Love is something magic. It’s two imperfect people making the love work for them.

 

Why don't you believe in love anymore?? Because someone betrayed you right

 

Haha. No, nothing like that.

I am just having years of bad luck finding a guy who wants more from me than the obvious. I think the current climate of society (like easy access to multiple dating apps) combined with my age has made it more difficult to find a guy who wants to work toward committing to a relationship. People just seem to want flings now.

 

My "love" life has been significantly better since I stopped believing in love.

 

♥️

 

I don’t think I believe in that so much, but I do believe in having a person who is your ally in life, which to be honest is harder than finding someone to hit the sack with.

 

I still do, though I have yet to fall in love with a female myself (I only had crushes).

 

What if true love starts with a crush and develops from there? I don’t think love is something that shows up over night.

 

That’s why I don’t consider my crushes to be instances of love in the first place. I believe love is something that takes time for humans to develop.

 

I guess that's what real love would be for me: having a woman who is united with you in a shared vision of what you want for yourselves and each other. That seems to me like the firmest foundation upon which to build a romantic and sexual connection. Or conversely, if the romantic and sexual connection came first, it would be the basis upon which you could build a life together after the initial connection.

 

I used to, I guess I still do with the amount of romance books I read. I just don't expect to find it anymore.

 

Yes, I'm a firm believer in real love. Unconditional love, I believe, transcends physical boundaries. Love and God keep me sane in our broken world.

 

Love and God keeps me sane too.