Finding White Women

Discussion in 'How To Meet White Women and Black Men' started by JEGSATX, Feb 16, 2025.

  1. JEGSATX

    JEGSATX New Member

    I reside in San Antonio TX I’m a 71 year-old black man, but I can’t find any white females or Asian females or Hispanic females that want to date me. I don’t not know what’s going on. I was asking for some advice possibly
     
  2. jen14

    jen14 Active Member

    OK let's start with where are you looking? Are you online or where do you try to meet them? Also what age groups are you approaching? Unfortunately, younger women may not be interested in an older gentleman and for the older ladies in the boomer generation, interracial may still be taboo... just guessing here though
     
  3. JEGSATX

    JEGSATX New Member

    your reply is correct. That’s what’s going on here. How do I address this or can it be addressed or is it something that’s been going on since the beginning of this country., That will never be addressed
     
  4. jen14

    jen14 Active Member

    Tough riddle to solve unfortunately... I would say just keep trying until eventually you find either an older lady that is open to interracial dating or a younger one who is open to having an age gap. Also don't limit yourself geographically, try online and try with women from different countries, you'd be surprised how many white women abroad would love to have an American black man
     
  5. JEGSATX

    JEGSATX New Member

    yes, I have reached outside the geography of San Antonio and I found those that are willing to talk but being slightly old-fashioned I want a face-to-face meeting. This is proved difficult of dealing with a long distance relationship.
     
  6. jen14

    jen14 Active Member

    Yea, meeting would definitely be challenging in long distance dating, financially and otherwise..
     
  7. JEGSATX

    JEGSATX New Member

    Again, you are correct in your observation and reply. The challenge is Financial. I have tried to undertake this. I don’t know what kind of success I’m going to have at this point. when I watch Star Trek, it is sad that we will never achieve what they have of others that are different from each other working together, loving each other, etc.
     
  8. jen14

    jen14 Active Member

    All you can do is keep trying and it may happen eventually!
    And I am much more optimistic, I think we're going in the right direction, the young generation is pretty much colorblind when it comes to dating.
     
  9. JEGSATX

    JEGSATX New Member

    well, I I took the financial route and sent a woman some money. Hopefully she will come to me. many of my friends think it’s a fool’s errand that I have undertaken going this route, but I’m going to try it. It is true. The younger generation is more colorblind than the older ones. I’ll just have to see what happens and Pray.
     
  10. jen14

    jen14 Active Member

    Uea, just keep trying and best of luck with it!
     
  11. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it sounds like a romance scam to me. It is ALWAYS a mistake to send someone money in hopes they're sincere about wanting to be with you. It's always a red flag when someone asks for money or uses claims of money issues to manipulate someone into sending it to them. If she (if it's actually a woman) is genuinely interested in a relationship with you, you sending money would not be part of the conversation. You need to listen to your friends and protect yourself from being taken advantage of. Scammers are good at what they do, and they will bleed you dry if you give them the chance. Please don't let yourself be played.
     

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