Which 'race' of men/women do you attract the most

100% agree the feeling is incredible ngl especially if they tried to hide a grin/smile *chefs kiss*

 

Lowkey feel like there is some truth to this lol. Every WW I’ve met that I felt had “the look” did indeed either like or exclusively date BM lol. Not sure what constitutes it as it isn’t the same across the board but the results usually are

 

I can’t precisely put my finger on it, either, but there is definitely something. How about the rest of the forum participants? Is there something to this, or is it our imagination?

 

Actually I think I attract Latinas the most out of any group, white women a close 2nd. Asian women typically don't go for me, not sure what that's about. Latina women though of all backgrounds seem to be really drawn to me I've noticed, even some of my friends have pointed it out. Something about my vibe seems to fit well with theirs and they usually at least in a short term period get very assertive about letting me know they're into them.

 

If I had to order at least of late would be WW, Latina women, Asian women. Overall vibes are big, I’ve noticed I mainly attract a country or hipster WW compared to any other type.

 

lol this reminds of a failed date in HS in which a girl who liked me crashed a date I spent literally ALL OF HS to get by 3rd wheeling and sitting between my date and I durning the movie (insert facepalm). Tried to make moves and everything . After said move she asked “does anybody want to get SOME SOUP?” At roughly 12:30am on a Tuesday

 

Considering that I was harshly treated by black girls because of my appearance and actions back then (which was partly my fault), I think I can rule out black women.

I don’t know what race of women I attract most though.

 

Which race of women do I attract the most and why do I think?

The 2 most are Black and White but for different reasons. I attract BW the most by far but not many that I'm mutually attracted to based on physical appearance, personality type and values. I attract WW the most by far that I'm mutually attracted to based on physical appearance, personality type and values. Asian and Latina Women are not plentiful in my area but in passing, I find us to have mutual attraction at a decent rate.

As I have aged, I find the possibly compatible BW mostly already paired off and the single ones to be so very few and far between, to the point to where compatible WW are the most available ones that I would actually date. Physical attraction is very important to me but it comes second place to compatibility. I would go as far as to say that I believe intentional selection of a partner based on compatibility beyond physical similarities before shared appearance, frequency and proximity, might be the exact point that could lead one to believe that I don't or wouldn't like a particular group of women.

I attract BW irl, on dating sites and apps, or online in general at a rate of like 1-2 new interests per every 2-4 weeks. By the end of the year, It will be a good 15-40 that I'm not interested in at all and 0-3 tops that actually seem compatible to me that we never get a chance to engage each other or I am already speaking with someone. That being said, I attract mutually with BW at a rate of about 1 true interest every 2-3 years, only if and when I'm single that long.

I attract WW mostly irl, and online/app wise at a rate of about 1 new interest every 1-2 months. By the end of the year, there will be about 4-6 that I'm interested in and seem compatible, 2-3 that ghost or I find out that they're already in a relationship or they just want to hookup with a handsome BM, 0-2 that I'm not interested in at all, and 1-2 that are compatible and it works out to were we can actually date.

Those 1-2 WW are the ones that get me in a relationship or fwb. Because I'm already with them, I might miss an opportunity to be with a compatible woman of another race, including my own. When I am actually single, I am open to any and all compatible women but those 1-2 WW are the most consistent, followed by the Asian and Latina women that have an almost instant mutual attraction, and the 0-3 BW that I would love to date if they actually presented themselves before I connect with any of the others.

I now refuse to remain single and not have to be or hold out until a BW that I like and match well presents herself, to overlook a compatible woman of another race. WW just so happen to be the ones that qualify for me the most to enter a connection with. I don't think it's right to deny yourself love, when someone you like wants to share it with you. So by the time everything is said and done, I would have attracted 4-6 WW, by the time I attract 1 BW. More exposure to Asian and Latina Women could make that gap larger.

And lastly, due to me having a preference for ltr and not looking while I'm connected to a woman already, these numbers are only relevant to when I'm single.