It does. However too many people caught up on putting up bullshit veneers to "fit in" rather than being who they actually are or should be.
Heard something funny on YouTube last night. This guy was interviewing 2 women on why they like dating Black Men. If I remember correctly one woman said, "If it ain't dark, there's no spark." Now somebody is going to say they heard that before. Why am I always the last to know?
The way they come across definitely says they've had no functional relationships, if they've even dated at all. Their fantasy world works for them because fiction is what they're all about. With their unrealistic and unhealthy views of women/relationships, few (if any) are in any danger of the nappie-changing experience. They have a lot of growing and self-reflection to do before they'd ever be ready for anything real. Yep. They definitely do a lot of vicarious living through the IR celebrities and the various forms of IR media.