Absolutely aggreed. We have to be able to learn from and let go of our past IMO. Anything less and we're shorting ourselves.
I disagree. The rest of your point has truth to it, but to say that everything a woman says is meaningless with regards to the type of man she wants is simply false. Most women do know what they want - they've just been unsuccessful in finding it, so they often settle for less.
You must be a verrrry busy man to have such intimate knowledge of the inclinations of MOST young women.
not just young women TDK speaks for all women...his knowledge of women is just remarkable...anything you want to know just ask him...of course everything he says is TRUTH...no ifs, ands or buts about it....we don't even have to think for ourselves anymore around here we just ask TDK how we should think, feel and act
That's nothing to feel bad about, women like sex just as much as men do and prefer for a guy to push past her boundaries.
As I've said before my critiques aren't usually about women in your demo, over 40 with kids, I know nothing about women like you guys because I don't date women like that. So I sure as hell don't speak for ALL women. But its funny as hell when any of you love to tell us what "women" think and feel based on just your thoughts and feelings.
that is called having an opinion and sharing it...not necessarily expecting that everyone else holds the same view...exchanging ideas is something women do effortlessly
You really are from Venus because that shit ain't true lol Just like every conflict I've had or witnessed women are usually great at communicating but poor at mutual understanding.
it depends on who it is which is why we choose our friends and mates...not everyone gets within arms length...or is even worth communicating with
tdk's cynicism is on point. Most women say they want one thing and give love to another. What women imagine as their ideal guy is generally far different from what they might respond to in real life Props to the women here who described the looks and physical characteristics of the guys they like. At least they're being honest. That other dreamy stuff ("attentive" :mrgreen:, "philanthropic":smt017, "appreciative") is easily trumped by stuff she hasn't even thought about, because most women don't know what they want 'til they spot it. Just like most men, imho in fact, you can take those dreamy laundry lists of personality traits most women come up with and then say "I found that perfect guy for you - but he's black (or indian, or fat, or short, or poor, whatever)" - and 99% woman will run like the wind in the opposite direction (unless they actually see the guy, then he might have a chance) chemistry and comfort counts more than anything, and you can't really define that
Wish I could rep you. I think Saty has it right about men most dudes don't posses the tools necessary to get what they want and that's why they're so unhappy. A lot of women are looking for something ideal and it gets worst with age. I remember girls in college willing to give a lot of things outside their comfort zone a "try" men outside their race dudes who were too big or to skinny even women. As they get older the laundry list gets longer and oddly even more specific at the same time.
truth. my list has gotten longer and more specific because of experience and being not afraid to have my needs met. the guy i was in a relationship with up until recently was great and ticked a lot of boxes, but in the end, his neediness (i miss a call and get a text a second later accusing me of ignoring him), checking my phone when i went out of the room when i received a message and the guilt trips if i didn't want to do what he wanted to do, all screamed red flag and i acted accordingly. now me younger may have just put up with that behaviour because i thought i should be lucky that someone loved me so much
