i use to belong to that site a few months ago and that stupid bitch who runs that site banned me and didnt even explain why. she just ignored me when i asked for an explanation...and i still can't think of the reason why i was banned.....i wasnt disrespectful towards anyone other than this one guy who kept trying to start shit with me. i had been a member for about 2 years and they all of a sudden banned me without any explanation whatsoever........ anyway about the black male bashing....yes some of it goes on there but just like any interracial site you will have people who bash the opposite sex of their race and those that dont..you will also find that alot of the same women who bash black men bash white men too eventhough they're with white men because some of the white men in the group were also complaining that they felt bashed.. i do remember having to correct some of them about the unnessesary animosity they had towards some of the black men who would come to the group. just like alot of them would automatically start questioning why the man was in the group. if they found out he was black. so basically some of those women just have problems with men period and are maybe just bitter because of their own personal experiences.....(also when you're a black woman you can expect not to recieve fair treatment from too many people rather they're black or white, red, yellow or brown) not saying it justifies it though but feeligns are irrational. just take a look at the site and you'll see...
Isnt that site owned by the same people who own this one? I recall some time ago the webmaster talking about site and the title was very similar.
i think you may be thinking of mindkandy's because mindkandy owned this site for a while until she turned it over to spade if i remember right.
who would have thought ebonywomenivorymen owned this site? lol anyway i still remember mindkandy saying something about them owning this site too at one time.
:idea: Well I'm not worried at all about it so let them do their thing too. They don't seem to have the numbers that we have but then again maybe they do. All I know is this site fits me just fine. :wink:
that particluar site is only a few months old.....they had an original one called ebony women ivory men cafe but it no longer exists because they moved to the other one. but the new one is fairly small
here's another site from "the other side" that's a bit more friendly and it also has way more people...lol i say that because there just seemed to be alot of angry women on the ebonywomenivorymen site .... alot of the anger was understandable though but alot of times you have to let it go and try to be rational and stay open-minded. anyway, here's the more friendly site...lol http://bwwbc.proboards4.com/
theres more than 3...just go to myspace and type in "black girls" in the groups section and over 100 of them will pop up and there's also alot of groups like that on msn. i was surprised that there were so many interracial groups for black women when i first joined myspace because outside myspace they were so hard to find... especially 3 years ago. so if you want to get a feel for what people in those relationships are like or what they're thinking you would probably do best to go to myspace groups.....myspace groups are more interactive and tend to have more members on them than msn groups and than other types of forums. btw, what are you thinking when you say "hmmmmm" ? lol
I know myspace has all types of groups like that. Most of the ones I've seen (or are looking for) are bm & ww of which there are plenty! I was talking about websites that stand alone. This is the only one that I know of for bm & ww. :?
there's another group for black men and white women called drifting away and last time i checked there were alot more interactive members there than here. and mindkandy's also has a section for black men and white women although its really a general interracial forum.
