Black men prefer easy women????

Re: Yes

Why do women do this type of shit, and then whine? :roll:

See previous response.

This part is something for her to think about...

 

Re: Yes

This is what happens when you go to a club with a bunch of sleazy and horny drunk guys. Expect it to happen again, if you do it again.

 

Re: Yes

So, if I want to go to a club with friends to dance and enjoy myself (which I do love to do, go somewhere with good music and dance to relax), and I don't myself get drunk or make advances on people, it's ok for some random man to touch me without me letting him?

That's just molestation - no score to your logic. I'm not going to stop enjoying myself in a public place like a nightclub just because a few men can't sort their act out.

 

Agreed.

Not gonna happen. People won't change like that, especially if they are in a position to hassle you. I will always stay out of clubs, because after observing the type of drunk, loud, and violent people (women and men) who stumble out of them after hours, and hearing countless horror stories about it, it's not worth the time.

Sounds good.

 

Re: Yes

I never said that it was OK, did I? I said that if you go to club with sleazy men who will grope you after getting drunk, you are to expect that, and if you do, then you are agreeing with me.

 

Re: Yes

Yes, I have to say that I never ever was disrespected by any (sober) men, I am always approached in a respectful manner. But I don't think it's mere "luck", I am convinced that it has to do with the way you carry yourself, the signals you are sending out and it also depends in what kind of locations you chose to hang out.

Drunken men who are trying to touch or grab me, yes, not often, but it happened a few times. But as Sardonic said, if I go in a bar or a club I know that people drink, and some drink more than they should. Not being a friend of sledgehammer methods or big scenes, I usually just grab the hand, and tell them, friendly but definite, that I can sense that they had a few drinks to many but that I appreciate it if they keep their hands to themselves regardless. That always solved the problem. They even apologized for their drunk behavior when it happened that I ran into them a few (sober) weeks later.

 

There is something I would like to know from the men here. We all know that touching and grabbing isn't a men-only behavior, there are also some women who touch men, grab their butts, touch the legs or chests, etc.

How does that make you feel, and how do you react if it happens to be done by a woman you are not attracted to?

 

I would never do it unless she was my girlfriend or wife

 

The same way it makes women feel when men do it to them. If they don't want us to do it, then they shouldn't do it themselves either, but some women feel as if they are entitled to it, since they are women.

 

I kinda like it when women touch my butt. Love it. But for me to touch a woman's butt, i have to at least know her. I dont take pleasure in grabbing just any woman's butt. Thats not to say i have never done it. :wink:

 

Don't most all men, of any race prefer easy women? At least they want easy women for sex...maybe not for marriage.

 

no, most want a challenge and a women who has some respect for themselves. only guys who cant get a real woman or who hates women go after a slut who is easy. Real men dont want an easy woman.

 

I don't like the way women always get blamed for men's behavior. It's like when women get raped and the media reports how she was wearing a short skirt...as if that has anything to do with it. Another persons body is off limits unless you're invited to touch it.

I too have been groped, and mostly when wearing plain clothes and carrying myself In a dignified manner. I remember getting piled on by Chelsea fans when we were watching Lazio v Chelsea and had just scored. I was squashed against the security barrier and someone used that opportunity to have a feel of my arse. I was wearing a Chelsea top and trousers, hardly alluring. I also remember a drunken man coming up to me in the street one night and congratulating me on "the best tits I've ever seen". He asked if they were real and I told him to fuck off. He then asked if he could touch them to see if they were real or not as I wouldn't tell him. I went to walk away and as I turned he grabbed a hand full of my boobs! I didn't invite this attention at all either by attitude or attire.

But on the other hand I do hate it when you see very pretty girls who know it and they're scanning the room, nose in air to see who's admiring them, only to turn the noses up even further when they're approached. Even more I hate the ugly cheap and nasty types who can only gain male attention by dressing like a pro, then creating drama when someone looks at them. These types are best left at the council estate where they crawled out from.

 

I do have to side with tuckerreed in the sense that I really don't like easy women. Some of this has to do with my upbringing. I was taught that respectable women, even when they like you always make it difficult for men to get them (for lack of a better word). Upon living in the U.S, I have however seen women that would just come up to me and tell me they want to know more about me. Some of this women are not total strangers, so I guess I can vouch for them not being irresponsible, shameless sluts. Some of them are on the contrary, quite respectable people (by the way this doesn't happen all the time). So, I guess I try to adjust to the society in which I find myself. But I do enjoy a woman who makes the dating game somewhat difficult as long as she does it tastefully. I think it is true that you appreciate something you work hard to get.

On the issue of "butt grabbing", I would never grab a stranger's butt or whatever. I think it is distasteful to do so. I would even go as far as saying it is a form of sexual assault. I however have suffered from this so called "butt grabbing" a few times. I remember once at a friend's birthday party when a girl just decided to see what my butt feels like. The funny part was.. she was dancing with another guy when she did this. I went straight up to her, told the guy to excuse me, looked the girl straight in the eye with one of my meanest looks and told her never to do it again. She looked down and said she was sorry, so I let it go.

Butt grabbing can be a fun thing to do . As long as it's being done to a girlfriend/wife or boyfriend at the right time in the right way.

 

All those who have called it a form of sexual assault (touching strangers), are of course right. And shame on those who brush it off as nothing much, because it's a violation of people's personal space. I think that some women become victims of it particularly just because some man thinks, since they desire to feel our arse or whatever, that gives them the green light to do so and perhaps we should see it as some kind of compliment!? Ridiculous.

It's true as well - I don't understand how the law can uphold the sanctity of the individual's person by clamping down on assaults and violent crime, but rape can be perceived as "invited" by the victim- no healthy person would ask someone else to violate their intimate space against their will!

 

tis true it is a sexual assault

 

The last paragraph you wrote explains my opinion on this.

This is what I asking Silver about. These are usually the ones who complain all the time. Don't go looking for attention, if you really don't want it.

I hope that clears it up for you.

 

Also, since I don't go up to chicks and touch their asses, I don't want them to come up to me and do the same, but the law would take their side most of the time about it, since I'm a man. I can speak on this as a man who had it happen to him before, but didn't enjoy it one bit.

 

it is not that i wouldnt enjoy it personally, but the principle of the matter is that if i cant do it to them and it be legal and respectful then I dont think its right for them to do it to me.

 

I agree, tucker. Like the ladies' man said, butt grabbing can be fun, but only when there is a mutual consent.