Can Having a White Girlfriend Make other WW Attracted to U?

One of the many many things I love about dating white girls is getting to hang out with their hot friends. There is no better feeling than chillin at the crib, smokin, or strolling through the mall or wherever you are at with a bunch of hot white girls with you. It's funny. How sometimes white girls will not give you a second look if they meet you and see "just a black guy", but the second they know you have a white girlfriend (or the second they find out you are dating one of their friends), they are nice all of sudden and feel "comfortable" around you. As if, oh ok you are not a thug or "one of them". You must be different, you must have class since you have yourself a white woman.

Perfect example is today at a pizzeria I walked in and these 2 white girls were chatting it up with the pizza guy at the counter and I did not even get a LOOK from them. Then I open my wallet to pay the guy for my slice and they see the picture of me and my girl (the blonde in my sig underneath) and they go (really loud) AWWW is that your girlfriend? I say yea...and they say Wow she's pretty! Now they are STARING at me. I have also noticed how nice any girl I date's friends are to me, yet when I ask if they have any other black friends, the usual answer is no. I am the only one. So can having a white girlfriend make other white girls like you or more comfortable around you? Does it make them think..."Hmm this hot white girl is dating him, he must have something special about him"...ya know?

 

I find this topic to be interesting. I could say from firsthand experience some WW tend to act differently towards you when they see you w/ another WW. Sometimes it can be for the better or worse. In most cases, I've found it to be for the better unless I'm in a predominately white area (ex. Orange County, 90% white communities/cities/events), then I notice the looks and body language tend to be unwelcoming.

 

I think this makes sense. WW, like BM are sometimes not able to tell if a BM they find attractive is into WW. For the same reasons that some BM just go on and not pursue it, these WW also keep quiet and try to play off their attraction (risk vs benefit analysis)

Having the knowledge that you "date" (sorry Pearlgirl) a ww puts women in this category at ease.

Some people will also be nice to you because they think IR is so cute! Others will say "told ya" to their friends. This recently happened to me. A girl (WW) at a local eatery came to my table and asked me if I dated white women. I said ya, if she is my type! She then said blonde? Pale? tanned?. I said I meant my type as in beautiful, smart, witty, blah blah! She walked off to her table and said got ya to her friends.

 

Never really had that experience since because of id say the way i dress WW can tell that i might be intrested in one...

 

huh? I don't follow.
What's that got to do with me?

 

My experience is that even having WW only as friends, makes other WW feel more comfortable talking to you or coming to ask you something...

In the south of the US where I live, ppl don`t mix that much...but in a club or a bar, if I`m with a bunch of friends including WW and at one point I`m dancing on the floor, more WW will come and dance with me than if I`m just with a bunch of BM friends!

Interesting behavior...maybe seeing me chill and relax with WW tells them that I`m not a BM who dates only BW or thinks WW aren`t good enough!! (I`ve heard many BM here in the south think WW aren`t good enough for them :roll: )

 

This is an interesting topic, and my take on it is pretty similar to what SoCal and infiniti already said, and might I add to it that:



most white women who are interested in black men will keep it to themselves, unless they see one of their white female friends dating or married to one, then they will express interest later on



most white women who are racist/prejudice against black men, but find black men romantically (or just sexually) attractive, will resent black men even more so if they see him in public out with a white girl, because deep down inside, a part of them KNOWS that they wish it was ONE OF THEM, and not the actual girl he is with, but instead of dealing with it in a positive and mature way, they will act on it with hatred, fear and ignorance (even if they aren't aware of it) and will more than likely, begin to push an agenda about it amongst the actual couple



most white women who are only interested/attracted to black men, but have friends/family members who have no qualms about it, will be pickier than most about finding a black man to date/marry, but will feel more inspired to seek out one if they witness an interracial couple consisting of a black male/white female together out in public, and more than likely, this will further their interest/attraction of black men

 

I'M FROM LOS ANGELES, BUT I LIVE IN SAN JOSE, CA NOW AND I'M TELLING U THE BAY AREA IS THE BEST PLACE ON EARTH.... WHITE WOMEN UP IN THE BAY LOVE BLACK MEN WHETHER OR NOT YOU HAVE A WHITE GIRLFRIEND/WIFE OR NOT....... IN LOS ANGELES IT'S OK, BUT IN THE O.C. IT DON'T FLY...

 

There's no joking about that O.C. You go there with a white girl. It will look like the beginning of a lynching movie.

 

Perhaps, I got the name mixed up. But I mentioned your name because there was a post about how "Americans vs. others use the word "date". I also felt like doing a little Internet flirting... and you were my lucky Target:wink:

 

Oh... really? :smt053
That's cool!

And grrrr right back at you!!
:smt058

hehehe 8)

 

Good Point

Yes, when I get hit on by a "white woman" it seems like everyone stares or takes an extra glance or something like that. I notice other white women staring or white men or black men staring too. If I see a white/black couple, I prefer to remain indifferent because I don't feel comfortable being scrutinized when I am talking to a white woman. Some scenes can be absurd. I was once talking to a nice, blond woman during our anatomy lab. Then the TA, a white guy, came out and saw us. As we went back in, tears started rolling profusely down his eye. I guess it hurt him to see us talking. The "non-verbal" reactions can get absurd.

 

Well I have had exsperance with white girls who act non black whom you think would not be int rested I once asked this WW I said how did you know I was attracted to you. she said " I didn't but I seen you and I took a chance. Since you didn't make the first move I did". I thought to my self wow if I would have approached her she would have spoken to me but how did I know. ( there was suppose to be a meaning I hope you found it.)

 

The TV show gives another hint about it, doesn't it?

 

IT'S JUST HOLLYWOOD TRYING TO MAKE STUFF LOOK ALL NICE AND CLEAN.....LAGUANA BEACH IS OK, BECAUSE IT'S MORE LESBIAN AND GAY COMMUNITY.. SANTA ANA IS OK, BUT THE OTHER PARTS IS A NO-NO.....

BUT IF U WANT TO ENJOY LIFE WITH OTHER CULTURES AND INTERRACIAL MIX COME TO THE BAY AREA

 

I've never watched the tv show.

 

Orange County

Yes, Orange County does seem like it is homogeneous. It seems like the kind of neighborhoods for "white flight," which is a demographic pattern of whites leaving areas of the country that are becoming integrated so that they can isolate themselves in a "white neighborhood" (i.e. Orange County). But California has other places that are open-minded. In addition, Orange County probably has exceptions, though a pattern probably could be found for racism.