This is why i will never date/marry an indian woman or desi woman. http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22865130/ Their culture is seriously backwards. Not to mention alot have extreme hate for blacks.I dont find indian women attractive,or their culture for that matter;but ive seen dudes that say they would date an indian chick,you might want to think twice about that.Even if you somehow marry her against her against her parents wishes and they accept you,why int he world would you want to raise you kids in that type of backward culture?[/b]
Interesting Read... I mentioned before that an East Indian girl in high school, told me she couldn't date black guys or anything like that... Till this day, I wonder why she told me that... lol.. I never mentioned to her that I like her to begin with..
I dont know why so many brothers find indians girls so attractive anyway.Most of them will post pictures of bollywood celeb indian girls,but thats not your average representation of an indian girl.You average indian girl looksnothing like those bollywood actresses.Even when it comes to bollywood actresses,ill put money down to bet that alot of them do plastic surgery. Bollywood is knwon for putting fair skinned indian actresses int he spotlight,so dont be fooled.
You all should go to an indian/desi dating site....they actually have color options like : You are - fair,kinda fair,light skinned,wheatish,wheatish brown,etc etc these people are SICK lol :lol:
that's some straight bullsssshhhh.... this thread may not belong in these forums ( brothas ain't lookin for indian chicks here, lol), but that's some fuk'd up shheeeeeett...
malikom. please go read a few books. maybe in real life you arent so extreme but i think you make sweeping statements that could get you into a lot of trouble. As for the whole Desi thing....do yourself a favor and look up British Raj. Read about and then ask yourself....."is there a reason things are the way they are?" I am willing to bet that you havent seen enough or read enough. You go and seek hate like its the newest thing ever. Hate is everywhere. Life is suffering.(literal/budhist) stop focusing on the small things. I dont think it matters that a few people dislike black people or think negatively about black people.
I am going to have to laugh at this and laugh at thus hard HA and HAHAHAHA! You just generalized a whole race and just to let you know that you are consider Desi when you live out of the country if I am correct. I am going to tell you that of the Indian women that I know most of them are dating brothas, hell I could get the lady upstairs to show you proof of that because her brother is married to one and the family is cool with it,hell I am dating one and the family is cool with it. Sure part of India has a color complex but check this I know a white dude who was going to marry an Indian woman and her family blocked that. You got racism world wide fam.
Ofcourse not every single one is going to be racist ....this is common sense.Im talking about the majority ,though.How does her extended family think of your relationship with her?You see,even if she the immediate family accepts it,what makes you think that her extended family (especially in India) will accept it?Unless her & you dont care.
Yes i know about their history.They've been oppressed just like every other native people on the face of the earth;but their problems seem to be more ingrained within the culture.Thats what i dont get.Even indians themselves say that alot of their people have backward thinking.Have you heard of the honor killings?Scary stuff.
I can answer that question right now her family extended are cool with it, I met her cousins already and we get along great real talk.
That's good to hear..or read... I met some indian girls who were cool to talk with..I just never dated any.. progression does happen in the world, afterall... which is a good thing..
I think Desi girls have a color complex that is similar to what some Latino girls have. With any recent immigrant group...it takes time to realize that being or looking "white" isn't really the path to assimilation. Maybe not in India...but here...even if you are a pale skinned Brahman with freckles...you ass is still a sand n***** unfortunately in the eyes of some. A lot of how they feel about us isn't there fault. One of my best friends is from India (you'd think he was a light skin Mexican from California if you didn't know his name) He told me that when he first arrived...other new immigrants told his parents to watch out for blacks because we like to eat people (and i don't mean p**** or cows which are supposed to be people reincarnated in Hinduism...I think..not sure) :shock:
lol... watch the Last King of Scotland in your spare time.. The president Forrest Whitaker plays in the movie, was rumored to be a cannibal... Cannibalistic tribes probably still exist in parts of the world, where other sources of food are rare. Written reports of cannibalism can also be found, during world war 2, where, as mentioned above, food sources were very limited, and people still had to survive... Saying that blacks like to eat people tho, just like that, is raw ignorance... they just need something to fuel any hatred that they, some indians, would have towards us.
The difference is... on "black" dating sites, we don't have options to fill in, for our skin shade some people still put a preference in a personal message box...but it's not as flagrant as checking your skin tone ( high yella, caramel, pitch black, etc), in a box upon registry.. we still do have self hate tho, as a people... SOME of us... don't want to get hit by the "generalization" crowd
Because they think Blacks are a lower caste I have no sympathy for those Desi and Indian women. They are screwed up in the racial department. I wonder why some want to live in Black nations in Africa and the Caribbean? They don't have the heart of Mathatma Gandhi.
First off Gandhi did not like black people man look it up, and how you going to be mad at all Desi come on that sounds ignorant as hell, also caste has nothing to do with skin color it is more to do with your last name believe it or not I asked my girl about it, now if somebody said that about blacks you would be crying racism so much for the open mind huh? You probably would stand a chance with a Desi before you would your much vaulted European woman. I know I sound like I am coming off angry but some of you folks on here act like you ain't never caught hell from whites.
