Does age change things?

That's interesting - I would agree that seeing yourself in a negative light can be limiting - but I have never bought into the theory of postiive self-visualization. Seems to me that working hard and luck are key components, but a postivie state of mind doesn't actually draw good things to you - as opposed to the flip side where a negative view will hurt.

 

Ouch! Shot in the heart, But every man wants a hoe in the sheets and a lady in the streets but I got cha, let me put it to you like this, Of the last 5 females I have tried to date(I would say 6 but one is in her 30's and she reads this site)3 were all about the money and what can you do for me atittude, 1(Miss WPB) was playing me and wants to have her cake and eat it too, and 1(BW) that was career focused but she had too much atittude for me. So as you can tell it's hard for young ambitous guys out here and we don't want left overs and the ones that are scarred from those other types of guys.

Lipstick: we gotta talk about that alittle more in detail because I am confused(like baby in a strip club type confused)

 

Hoe? What happened to Freak? If that is how you talk no wonder.... :roll:

Sorry dude you just give me to much material to work with....

 

Ok your trying to go for the knock out here, but the reason I said ho cause freaks bore me, I've upped my sex game... :twisted:. Keep going because if you hold it in you might say it infront of everyone in July..

 

fnnysmrtprtty...i still believe in luck...everytime i get a parking space that is hard to come by...or when i am driving my son to school in the morning and we hit all the green lights...etc
i also believe in hardwork and accomplishment...i love my job...people always tell me i am lucky because i get paid to play in makeup all day...i suppose part of it was luck that my boss moved away and i got her position, a big part of getting the job is that it's something that i love and have passion for...i work hard at what i do...but i'm not a scientist, engineer or doctor...what i do just comes natural to me...
positive visualization is alot like a 5 year life plan...kind of like how you decided you were going to become a lawyer...at some point during college you decided to go on to law school...you must visualize yourself as a lawyer someday...possibly you see yourself being a mother and having children...
it would be nothing more than sitting down and writing a journal that hasn't happened yet...focus your thought process and then every once in a while reference it to see if you have made the choices/selections to take you in that direction...
i agree that it doesn't work for everyone...it's something that you have to believe to be part of your life plan...
the glass half empty syndrome is nothing more than misery loves company...it can/will become a self fulfilling prophecy...

 

There are a few of us guys here who are close to your age ChiCity. BlackMaster, Cris, and myself just to name a few. Those guys haven't had any trouble dating IR, and i've tended to be somewhat reserved approaching women because i've never had any "game" or whatnot, but i'm finally starting to feel like if i really put forth the effort to do it, i could.

The fact that it's IR doesn't make a bit of difference if you ask me. I think if you're a guy/man who is sure of himself (not cocky or arrogant, but confident) and a guy who has his stuff together, you're going to attract women from all colors of the rainbow.

And as far as the women 18-29 who only want the Mr. Gooddick, that may be somewhat true i guess, but i've met a few who really were "good" girls. I was attending a Christian small group for people in my age range, and all the girls there (and i'm not kidding either) "All" of them there were attractive. If a guy who is quote on quote Mr. Gooddick tried to approach one of these women, he would quickly be shown the door. They don't mess around. They're looking for good guys only, and possible candidates for marriage. They're totally not into the games.