E-Mail Response to My Personal Ad From a Racist White Woman

Hi Folks, I thought you guys might be interested in reading this. It is no joke and I am cut and pasting it below. A few days ago this week, I was a bit bored and posted a personal ad just for fun, stating that I was looking to meet a white lady and although I have had many experiences with racism and discrimination from both white men and white women-(A white female college student who once gave me her e-mail address when I tried to talk to her forwarded my e-mail to her boyfriend when I wrote to her and he responded saying that aside from hitting on his girlfriend, she tells him that I am a "N-word.") this is the first time that a very prejudiced and racist individual has actually written to me an in-depth e-mail in response to a personal ad.

I will be traveling out of town this weekend, so will be away from my computer until early next week. Anyway, her response begins below and it shows you how much hatred a lot of white folks in this country still have for black people. Here it goes:

"Okay young man, or should I say sonny boy?
First I am curious what it is that makes you think an attractive succesful caucasian woman would actually want to date an african american male if she has her choice? Now that I have been out of college several years I am no longer trying to convince myself I am not prejudice, so what is it you think I might find attractive or appealing about you?
I am in the real world and a confident woman now so the difference between the races is very obvious to me, and to be very honest with you there is nothing about black men that I find to be physically attractive or appealing to me.
If you decide to answer me I would be very interested in knowing the last time you mentioned to any of your brothers how the cat calls and sexual comments they make to sexy caucasian women as they walk by is not something they enjoy the way black women seem to.
I enjoy my lover saying sexual and suggestive things to me but when a complete stranger does it that indicates a complete lack of respect for me, and when they go on to suggest my attitude and coldness toward them is due to racial prejudice I like to say, "you bet sambo", "white guys have more respect for themselves when a woman totally ignores them".
So in closing I will simply say you can be just as submissive with a black woman. Didn't you have any dominant black nuns at your school? "

 

Well I am not surprised that this attitude is still around, as wrong as it is but some people will never stop being racists. What amazes me is the fact that these individuals take the time to respond to an add when they could just simply ignore it. I had the same thing happen to me twice already.. once on a IR dating site (message was from a white cop which made it even scarier...)
So I am sorry you had to read this crap from this piece of dirt WW... know that there are many people around who aren't racist. Don't answer her, there is no reasoning with them, just do your thing and good luck!

 

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Thanks for your response, Chigirl. I'm about to rush off now. I personally prefer not to do the personal ad thing. I still prefer talking to women in person and hooking up that way. I of course would be willing to make a few exceptions for instance on a site like this. For example, I was interested in getting to know "dangerous curves," to see if she were interested in a brother who is decent but can also please that booty. I never heard back from her, so I respect that, I move on, and life goes on. Peace.

 

hey, if that's her preference that's cool. no chocolate for her. less competition for the rest of us ladies. (too bad she needs to run her mouth so much about it though.)

 

i posted something similar, but it didn't go through the server..

so..

yes, it is her preference, or right, to not be interested in black men. But, keep in mind, there are other white girls out there that like black men too.

don't let her ruin your day bud..

 

Sorry to hear about that. She is the one who has issues, not you. I wouldn't let a racist skank tell you off in saying what you should date, go out with whatever you feel comfortable with. There will be dumb responses like that in pursuing a relationship like this, don't be deterred by that.


Something else I would like to say. I read in a different ad on the Yahoo personals, I have a profile there. Saw an ad of a white woman looking for a relationship, living in the exact same area I live. In the description, she says that she is not interested in African-American men. She says she is not a racist, sure she isn't. That is pretty much a racist statement to me. It's fine to list her preferences in finding a mate, but I wished she had not went off in saying she is not into black men. I tried to locate her profile, but couldn't find it. It probably got deleted maybe because of the reactions she gotten, I didn't bother responding to it.

 

Racism... I just.. I do. not. get. it.

I never understood why the colour of someone's skin mattered, or even the ethnic differences in facial/body structure. :/ I always found differences to be... beautiful.

I hate same-old-same-old. I cannot believe 'women' such as this... thing still walks around and declares herself to be intelligent. That is not stupidity, that is arrogance, and intelligence and confidence are not this combination.

Ignore her, Shaft. Please remember that she isn't even the majority. At least, not from what I have seen.

 

I think this woman is a dumbass if even a woman wrote this. Seems like she had a lot of time on her hands to respond so someone she is not even interested in. She went through great pains to write about her boyfriend and to that end why is she on a dating answering an ad in the first place. I wonder if her typing that made her feel good? I also loved the stereotypes she put in there also like all blackmen catcall white women all day lol, when she said whitemen did but had more respect for their women lol. She also stated that BW loved to be catcalled this chick is delusional and straight up racist even though she tries to deny it.

 

Cosign...except, I'd go further. I never saw the differences. I never
saw them. When I was a kid, and now I'm an adult, people are just people and that is as complicated as it goes for me. I treat someone exactly the same whoever they are and wherever they're from.

Shaft I am really sorry you had to experience such a horrible personal attack. This kind of thing makes me sick to my stomach.

 

For some reason when I read that reply I just had images of Anne Coulter in my head.

Some guy just got put on notice where I work for calling someone a "nigger".
I think he should have got fired but there you go....

There will always be people of hate around no matter what you do, how you look or the way you act.

Not wanting to date outside of "your race" is one thing but writing someone to pretty much say that they are fooling themselves is really coming from a place of hate.
Self hate.

 

Shaft ~ sorry you had this experience.

I just don't get why some people have the need to do this shit.

Another one to just "consider the source" though, and move on.

I hope you didn't give up on ads because of that crap though!

 

I'm just saying this but maybe this woman is really really into black men and she doesn't how to say it. So she has to downplay or disrespect black men just to make herself feel good because deepdown inside she really wants to get a black man. She may hate herself because she seeing how happy ww are with bm plus how attractive black men are and knowing that she is limiting herself or she maybe she tried to go with a black man and got rejected so she takes a nasty attitude towards black men in general. :?: at the same time secretly lusts over them at night when everyones asleep!

it happened to me. this girl called me a "faggot" and "bitch" ,"ugly ass punk" and it turns out she wanted to have passionate sex with me and I didn't want her like that.
so she show her anger at me in the day
and got "wet" over me at night in bed!

 

Wait,im confused.What site did this happen on?????Why did she give you her email int he first place?

 

think he was responding to the white women ads over at racist site website...

j/k

 

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hey shaft...i don't think dangerous curves ever even saw your response...she has not been around/posting...you might ask the webmaster to send her a hello for you...

as far as what happened with this woman...clear your mind...and focus/visualize what you realy want and it will come to you...

 

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Thanks for da tip!

 

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be careful what you wish for...it just might show up on your front step one of these days...

 

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Ok I really need to get better at this. It's about time for someone to be showing up on my front step!!

 

That is a crazy thing to say. Racist WW are not 'victims' of anything. They make their own sad choices. Don't let them off the hook by laying the responsibility at the feet of WM.

Shaft - as another member stated, she is wallowing in her own self-hate. It's sad and pathetic she took the time to spread it around.

 

Re: E-Mail Response to My Personal Ad From a Racist White Wo

Look, the majority of white women do not desire bm and there are as many racist ww as there are men. You need to accept this, then you'll find life will be a lot less painful. The admiration we get as bm is as abundant as a grain of sand on an entire beach.