First Impressions and Mistakes

First I would like to say that I am new to this site so what I'm about to say may be totally baseless however these are my thoughts on what I've observed in my short stay here:

I think this is a much needed site as I have not seen any other site specifically dedicated to White women and Black men, although I have not searched the Internet for others like it [I found this one by chance].
What I thought I was joining was a place where men and women could talk about the trials, tribulations, joys, failures, hopes, fears and successes of Black male White female relationships and I hope I can still find that here.

What I did not expect to find was some of the "my big black dick" and "white girls give the best head where I live" stuff that is here.
I believe in free thinking and free will so if anyone is in that state of mind... God bless you.
It's just that that line of thinking plays directly into the "Mandingo can't help his little old animal self" stereotype which, in my opinion, has worked against interracial relationships for so many years.

Now I may be out of place here and maybe I've just opened myself up for flames, but I would like a little more open and honest talk between the men and women here. I feel we learn from each other when we talk and if we want our society to be more open to what we think is normal, we need to support each other a little more and disrespect ourselves a little less.

My two cents only.

 

Sorry Kev. But for some it seems "my big black dick" and "white girls give the best head where I live" IS open and honest. I think what you are asking for is a little more politeness.

In anycase, who's updating their Mandingo stereotypes here based on what they read here? Please see me after class.

 

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I agree. I dont care for that stereotype myself. And the whole "once you go black" is so stinking overdone and overplayed. it is pathetic that in 2006 some people still beleive that sex with black man is somehow different than sex with any other man. If a woman believes that, then she doesnt see a man, she sees black. If a black man believes that, then he is doesnt see himself as a man.

 

I agree with that, and Kev. Trust me there is nothing that a black dick, or a black man's hands, or a black man's tongue, can do that can't be done by a white man.

 

I disagree on two points.

Who else would judge a black man against such a stereotype, but a narrow minded racist bastard anyway? So, why are you worried about proving them wrong when NOTHING you do will change their mind. You'll only be noted as the exception to their invalid rule. Its my experience that even if you attempt to be the most admirable person in the world, these type of people will ALWAYS see you as a you know what. Look what happened to MLK.

I'm a man. I have a penis and sometimes I want to tell the world how big it is. lol. Its a masculine thing you just may not understand. Just because I say I have a big penis, it does not immediately follow that that's all i got. So you shouldn't assume it. And if you do because I'm black, then who's more fucked up? Me or You? The "men are dogs" stereotype is one thing, but the "Mandingo can't help his little old animal self" stereotype is something totally different.

 

You do make a valid point on how we are viewed by the "less enlighten"
and only they can change their own minds [no matter how small they may be].

Speaking of small...
I have money, so size is no problem for me. 8)

 

and a sense of humour :wink:

 

Thank you Crystal.

 

I often wonder why some of these people feel the need to justify themselves on the account of someone else's viewpoints. To me, it seems like a total waste as well. It's like they are 'proving something' about themselves in here by claiming that they 'don't care about this and that' here in the forums.

Actually, it's normal. Manhood is what makes a man feel like a man, otherwise, he will feel as if he is less of a man, or only a half-man. How else can we define manhood from womanhood? :lol:

Men of all colors can have a big or small penis, but to the world, whenever a black man mentions is, the accusations of him only being Mandingo material is followed up after a black man makes such a 'bold' statement, but you already know why that is.

And, the 'all men are pigs/dogs/jerks' crap is pretty played out too.

 

The reason that a black man's penis may be bigger or at least seem to be bigger during sex is because they generate more energy during the act. Black men's skin has what is called melanin which is a chemical that is chiefly responsible for storing the sun's energy and a plethora of other things. With that said the added energy from the sun would increase the flow of blood throughout the body and penis and make it swell up more.
Black men also have a higher testosterone output which also gives added size. Why do you think that most black men are more naturally cut or physically developed than other races.

 

Food for thought. There's definitely more to it than just 'the skin.'