for those who dated IR and not

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Sneakeedyck, Aug 12, 2009.

  1. Sneakeedyck

    Sneakeedyck New Member

    For those who have dated IR and within own race. Which relationship worked out better or worse. etc.
     
  2. Athena

    Athena New Member

    Well because I have broken up (or been broken up to/from/with) with everyone prior to my current bf, I'd say that none of them worked out. lol
     
  3. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    I will say that "race" should not have anything to do with success of a relationship..

    Having that said - I think that my IR - as we are aware of the fact that there are/might be "cultural" differences, I feel we are more in tune with that and are more willing to put the cards on the table to diffuse possible situations before they emerge..

    On that note: something I have thought about a lot lately - I would like to bury the "IR" label as differences really does not have anything to do with color of skin, but rather culture.. and that cultural difference could acctually be bigger in relationships with couple of the SAME "race".

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  4. YZF R1

    YZF R1 New Member

    Sho-Nuff
     
  5. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    *Bait Thread*
     
  6. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    I have dated more black men than white man.However none of those relationships has worked out.
    The issues that led to the breakup were never race related.More about morals,respect and once distance
     
  7. Sneakeedyck

    Sneakeedyck New Member

    This is no bait thread. Just a question.
     
  8. waverunner

    waverunner New Member

    Could not have said it better..(except the bf part).If a BM ever wanted to get attention, there's no better way than to walk hand in hand with an attractive WW!
     
  9. KimboSlice

    KimboSlice New Member

    Other than the cultural difference, I'm more intuned with the white women I'm with now. We both understand the true dynamics of a relationship. For example, we both have college degrees however she has a Phd, I have a bachelors. Yet, she WANTS me to be the man, take the lead in the relationship. She doesn't beat me over the head with her advanced degrees like some women do.
     

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