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Pinnacle23

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I'm gonna get shot for this, but...

My best luck meeting WG (white girls) and white women has been online. At least that's the case from a romantic perspective. It's convenient, I've yet to have the issue of someone not being who they say they are (call it luck, I guess...and I don't know how so many others have had such frequent bad experience), and as we all know you can get to know someone before you meet them. I live literally next door to a college campus...

SWARMING with beautiful and sexy white girls. Absolutely swarming. They are everywhere you turn. I'm not a student there, but walk through it sometimes to get to where I'm going. Somedays I deliberately avoid the campus because I cannot stand having to walk through it with all that eye candy...I wanna chase every tail in sight. But that's for another thread.

My point is that I'm too afraid to approach any of them because of the uncertainty that many of us BM face. If and when you are rejected, you have to think: Is it because she's not into me or because she's not into us? I've been rejected online too, but the in person rejections are the most painful. So part of my opinion is based on fear.
 
Pinnacle23 said:
I'm gonna get shot for this, but...

My best luck meeting WG (white girls) and white women has been online. At least that's the case from a romantic perspective. It's convenient, I've yet to have the issue of someone not being who they say they are (call it luck, I guess...and I don't know how so many others have had such frequent bad experience), and as we all know you can get to know someone before you meet them. I live literally next door to a college campus...

SWARMING with beautiful and sexy white girls. Absolutely swarming. They are everywhere you turn. I'm not a student there, but walk through it sometimes to get to where I'm going. Somedays I deliberately avoid the campus because I cannot stand having to walk through it with all that eye candy...I wanna chase every tail in sight. But that's for another thread.

My point is that I'm too afraid to approach any of them because of the uncertainty that many of us BM face. If and when you are rejected, you have to think: Is it because she's not into me or because she's not into us? I've been rejected online too, but the in person rejections are the most painful. So part of my opinion is based on fear.[/quo

Hey Pinnacle, your opinion is most likely based on Fear and Fact

#1, Fear of being rejected

#2, Fact, most WW have been taught to see the Black man as a vile, lazy, violent, sex crazed monster that prey on WW, so therefore it's their duty as a WW to keep the White race alive and pure by rejecting any Black man that approaches her.
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P23,that is one of the reasons why I never visit American cities. However,in your case I think you must roll the dice and approach them. Also do you know of any website like facebook or other site where ww on campus go to? Ask the brothers who date ww. I know I don't follow my own advice but since you live near campus take advantage of some of the opportunities.
 
Milman,how to approach one is a hard one for me because of that rejection. Online I had approaches but I don't know if they work.
 
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Hello

I notice that This site has a chat room, Does anyone ever visit there? When i have visited , noone was there, :( I love to meet ppl and make new friends. Please let me know what time to show up and I will be there!!!

Thank You,
BabyDoll :D



 
Pinnacle23 said:
I live literally next door to a college campus...

SWARMING with beautiful and sexy white girls. Absolutely swarming. They are everywhere you turn. I'm not a student there, but walk through it sometimes to get to where I'm going. Somedays I deliberately avoid the campus because I cannot stand having to walk through it with all that eye candy...I wanna chase every tail in sight. But that's for another thread.
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Pinnacle23,

Pls. tell us the name of the college (and the city) which is next door to you???

The Kid Rasta 8)
 
Indeed I shall, Soulthinker :D . It may behoove me to do so.

Rasta, I'm in the city of Kennesaw, Georgia...several minutes north of Atlanta. It's Kennesaw State University where all these princesses are. I'm in a relationship with a princess of my own right now, so I couldn't act if I wanted to. Sometimes I do want to, but I can't do that to her. I'd be throwing too much away.
 
I've met a lot of guys I've dated in Interracial chatrooms. You know both parties are interested in dating outside your race and thus one question is out of the way.....
 
How to meet..........

:) Online is good and speaking strictly for myself does give me a buffer if the other party reveals that they are not interested in dating a black man.I don't take it nearly as personally as being rejected in a public encounter.
As a black male, I do sometimes have that question in my mind:"Is it me that they are rejecting personally, or my race, or both?"
Interracial chatrooms are also safe,and that was a good post.Boy, am I the only one finding these posts to be so wonderfully worth responding to?
 
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I've met a lot of guys I've dated in Interracial chatrooms. You know both parties are interested in dating outside your race and thus one question is out of the way.....
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I totally agree, go where your wanted...

Explain the oh 3-4 thousand profiles on Blackplanet that belong to women other than Black women and at least 2,000 belong to women not in the United States or Canada.

You don't have to go into someplace flying blind, its not needed and isn't worth the trouble if you ask me.

The American Dating Sweepstakes is an expensive game to play, take Door number 2 and cut your looses when possible....
 
I think the whole online dating thing can be a really, really tricky experience. Well at least for me it has been. I've been talking to the same girl online for months (for about 6 or 7 months now) and we've done the right thing by staying friends throughout that time and taking things slow, but after a while i start to wonder if our non-commitment to each other is actually a good thing or not. We have a very interesting type of online relationship. We like each other a LOT, but at the same time, we're always debating on whether or not we should pursue people locally. It's a very thin line.

I mean sure, we could easily pursue people locally, but like i said, we're really liking each other, and we want to see about each other at the same time. Neither one of us are really sure as to how to approach whatever it is that we have. If we both hook up with someone local (which would be very easy for the both of us to do), we're still gonna be thinking about each other and wondering what would have happened if we actually brought the relationship from the computer screen and into real life, and if we would actually be a good fit for each other if we actually met (which i really think we would be). So yeah, it's a very interesting thing ya know.
 
But about the question on hand, i do like that fact about the internet. The fact that as far as IR is concerned, it gives you one less thing to worry about because you know in advance if somebody is interested in IR or not.
 
I started online dating a few months ago. i haven't looked for anyone outside my city, because I don't want to be involved in a long-distance relationship. But I much pprefer it to the bar scene or just walking up to someone on the street. It is a lot easier to find people with similar interests and preferences. People are more likely to approach me online because they don't know i am disabled. Some choose not to take the relationship onto the next level and that is fine. :) I haven't had any bad experiences when actually meeting people, and i was very cautious when first starting out. But I have chatted with a few who set the alarm bells ringing, and so I severed contact with them.
 
One problem with the on line thing is that you do end up talking to people who live far away from you. That sucks. I've found that many of the men who are contacting me now are from south eastern US and I'm up here in the North. I'm with AquaPeach.. long distance relationships aren't my thing.

However, if you are smart and cautious, I think the on line thing works with the busy life styles so many of us live now-a-days.
 
BabyDoll Posted: Sun Nov 26, 2006 10:02 pm Post subject: Chat Room

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Hello

I notice that This site has a chat room, Does anyone ever visit there? When i have visited , noone was there, I love to meet ppl and make new friends. Please let me know what time to show up and I will be there!!!

Thank You,
BabyDoll


Hello BabyDoll. I will like to chat with you. When are you always online.
 
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