Hey Guys, what's up??

Bryant

Bryant

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Hey Sardonic, Tucker, and everyone else, what's going on?? I've been reading everybodies posts just like i said i would from a distance, but i think that i'm ready to start posting again periodically. I remember the webmaster asking for suggestions on how to make the site a little better, and i actually have a few:

1. Make it easier to put Avatars on here. I just tried to upload an avatar, and i even resized it so that it was 80x80 and 2.76kb, but the image still wouldn't work. So i think that it should be made a little easier to do that, seeing as though the really successful message boards have this feature made easy, and it really puts a face to the name you know.

2. Make this message board much more woman friendly. When i checked the website periodically, i noticed that fewer and fewer women posted here, even less than before. This is definitely not good. Maybe all of the hot white woman actress threads shouldn't be allowed because apparently there's something that's driving the women away from here, and everybody is suffering because of it. This site would be much improved if the women actually said something every now and then you know.

Well, those are my suggestions....simple, and straight to the point, but i also wanted to include my myspace url for those of you who still want to know what i look like :smt047 . Myspace gave me a real headache, and i still don't know how to customize my own music on there, but for the most part, i think my page looks okay for now. Working with those darn codes is just brutal though. Anyway, I only have 2 pictures right now, but i'll definitely post some more on there whenever i get the guts to spend a hundred bucks on a camera :wink:

Here it is: http://www.myspace.com/randy_moss_is_raw

Later guys...
 
Hi Bryant. Welcome back ! :D

Make this message board much more woman friendly. When i checked the website periodically, i noticed that fewer and fewer women posted here, even less than before. This is definitely not good. Maybe all of the hot white woman actress threads shouldn't be allowed because apparently there's something that's driving the women away from here, and everybody is suffering because of it.
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I don't think the hot WW actress threads drive the women away from here, at least I for one do not have the slightest problem with it, as long as there are plenty of other threads where we can say something every now and then. I tried to bring back and find some new also to re-liven the forum. But you are right, more WW are needed here, I feel kinda lonely lol.
Good idea with the avatar, and especially the chat, r1terrell23....hahaha, am so curious what would come out of it if we all went on the chat some time. That would be a fun experiment. :lol:
 
Oh, I totally agree with this:
Myspace gave me a real headache, and i still don't know how to customize my own music on there
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To add more, I don't get whats the deal with myspace anyway. I get mails and be my friend invitations everyday yet when I accept someone as my friend they never talk anything. They just wanna be there, on my list, thats all. :shock: :lol: :shock:
 
Seychelles said:
Hi Bryant. Welcome back ! :D

Make this message board much more woman friendly. When i checked the website periodically, i noticed that fewer and fewer women posted here, even less than before. This is definitely not good. Maybe all of the hot white woman actress threads shouldn't be allowed because apparently there's something that's driving the women away from here, and everybody is suffering because of it.
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I don't think the hot WW actress threads drive the women away from here, at least I for one do not have the slightest problem with it, as long as there are plenty of other threads where we can say something every now and then. I tried to bring back and find some new also to re-liven the forum. But you are right, more WW are needed here, I feel kinda lonely lol.
Good idea with the avatar, and especially the chat, r1terrell23....hahaha, am so curious what would come out of it if we all went on the chat some time. That would be a fun experiment. :lol:
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Thanks for welcoming me back Seychelles :-) I had to leave because there were topics on here that really got to me, and i had to kinda re-evaluate everything and put some things into better perspective you know. I can't really explain what i was going through, but it was really weird. I think i'm okay now, but i'll still limit my amount of posts somewhat just to be sure that it doesn't happen again. If you're confused as to what i'm talking about, let's just put it like this, each time i logged off of this website after posting, i walked away feeling confused about caucasian girls and my feelings towards them, but after i stopped posting, i started to feel good about them again. It was very, very strange. Oh yeah, Seychelles... I like the fact that you didn't stay gone because of what Jeromes29 said. Just remember, this site NEEDS YOU. I've seen how ugly it can get without the input of women. Women have a way of kinda neutralizing things and creating a perfect balance or harmony or something. It's weird.
 
Seychelles said:
Oh, I totally agree with this:
Myspace gave me a real headache, and i still don't know how to customize my own music on there
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To add more, I don't get whats the deal with myspace anyway. I get mails and be my friend invitations everyday yet when I accept someone as my friend they never talk anything. They just wanna be there, on my list, thats all. :shock: :lol: :shock:
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What's your url Seychelles?? It'll be cool to check out your profile. And yeah, about the friends thing, it's really similar to facebook in that it seems more like a competition to add as many friends as you possibly can. The more people in your friends list it seems, the more popular and interesting people will think you are. I don't have too many friends on there yet cause i'm still new to the site, but all of the people that i want to add as friends, are people that i would actually really enjoy talking to. The thing that i'm confused about is the purpose of myspace. Is it to customize your page and write blogs?? Is it to find dates?? Is it to just network and add friends to your page?? I dunno... :smt017
 
hey Bryant, good to have ya back. I always liked your interesting points you had to make. Hope you're here to stay as we need more people like you.
 
LaydeezmanCris said:
hey Bryant, good to have ya back. I always liked your interesting points you had to make. Hope you're here to stay as we need more people like you.
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Thanks Laydeezman. I kept up with a lot of you guys' posts while i was away. It seems like a select few of you guys have been holding the forums up on your shoulders all by yourselves, but hopefully i can add a lil sumthin sumthin to the site :wink: We should put our collective heads together and really think of some ways to improve the site, and maybe the good ol' webmaster will oblige us. I always wondered though, is the webmaster a male or a female, black or white?? :smt017 I dunno.....it's very, very irrelevant (and webmaster if you're reading this, i assure you it's irrelevant), but i always wondered about that for some reason. Maybe it's the mystery behind it that makes me want to solve it or something :smt115
 
each time i logged off of this website after posting, i walked away feeling confused about caucasian girls and my feelings towards them
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Mmmmmm......I can relate to what you're saying, given some of the discussions here, the hate and demeaning comments, I sometimes felt the same about BM (confused)

What convinced me was the love showed to me (or to me as a WW posting here) because I really hadn't realized that anyone will notice if i'm gone and also, what Tuck said, " we need people here to battle the anti-IR trolls who come to destroy our choice to love one another. they dont belong here with that kind of attacks on IR but they will continue if others do not stand up to them".
There are some wonderful and intelligent people coming on this site as well, and I realized it would be a waste to get upset over every idiot who comes here, even though I wasn't personally offended, was more "fraternizing" with the WW, because it was really un-fair and un-called to insult them like that, and I felt sick and wanting to give a punch in the face to the bastard, because some BM are womanisers, and some BM can't even speak their own language properly, and some BM would sell their mother for money, and some BM use all women only for sex, yada yada yada.........but you haven't seen me or any other WW coming in here and posting BM - dumb and wortheless :arrow: only good for one thing?
About myspace, I am also confused about its purpose, I thought making friends but as I said, people ask to be added on my list and then never say a word to me, even though I only allow people who I would enjoy talking to as well, I guess they wanna have a pretty face on their list (or as many as possible), but thats my fault, because I havent posted anything about me or my interests yet being the lazy ass that I am, and I will do that , whenever the mood strikes me, but I don't think it will strike me soon because as you so well put it "Working with those darn codes is just brutal ", plus, I really don't like describing myself like you describe a painting nor do I think a few words could summarize me and I am interested in almost anything and would rather be known naturally as the conversations flow back and forth.
Sorry for the long post, I 'm worse in real life LOL . Now I'll shut up for a while, promise. :D
 
I know what you're saying without having to live in UK. I live amongst WW and they are ......of all kinds, so there is a truth in what the BM are saying about the WW and there is a truth in what they're saying about BW. I simply think generalizations like that "WW are.....", or "BW are....." are un-fair, offending and not reflecting a fact but personal experiences and should be presented as that.
Furthermore, I think people should come on this site with a positive and friendly attitude (BM, WW or BW) if they have any, and not cause a chain of cause and effect dialogues which will definately happen if you come here to air your frustrations about BW, or WW, and then other people would join in the discussion, and then the offended WW or BW will come, and this site instead of being a pleasant place to visit and enjoy chatting becomes a long long tirade of accusations, explanations, people feeling (with good reason) offended, and .......really , we have nothing pleasant to talk about?
As for moving on, if you had read my post with attention you would have noticed that its coming here with generalizations that annoys me and going over and over on it, be it about WW, BM or BW (and when the topic was BW, I stated exactly what Diamondeyz said, that I find it unfair to everyone, including yourself who might loose a good woman, to date another race because the women of your race didnt treat you right and not because of attraction and you should keep an open mind and not shut down the entire population of BW for some of them, but if you are attracted to WW more than to BW, thats a different story, but this story is getting old and still doesn't stop even though it has been discussed and clarified, and now I understand Sardonic for jumping on my back because it never ends, coming back to what i said before, as long as there will be people coming here and posting generalizations, there will be someone standing uo and speaking against it, and its just getting exhausting). So as long as it happens I cant move on because I think we should stand up against generalizations and pin point to people that it is very simple if you wanna talk about your experiences to just say so, presenting them as your limited experiences, instead of offending someone in the process.
 
Oh, and besides the generalization, there's also the very pleasant name calling going on around here. Just the few I remember now, WW are "retarded insignificant ramblers", "naive and neurotic", BM are "violent", and I don't even want to think how many names BW have been called. I think we could do without insults and keeping a limit of common sense and respect to the human who is just a human being like we all are, and we're not perfect either, so why denigrate and use such language, and you will have people responding back on the same tone, like I did, and I'm not happy or proud of it, but you can only have a limit when someone presses on your nereves, so there is only 2 choices when this happens, either to ignore it or to respond back in the same way, so if you wanna come on a forum and talk and be listened to, stay away from the name calling unless you wanna be ignored or talked to in the same way.
 
jerome, you are so right, why love a WW when there are so many BW out there starving for BM love?

everyones is so into hearing the BW tell us how to speak, we should drop the pretense and go back to BW altogether
 
Seychelles said:
oh, it's http://www.myspace.com/dacif
and the webmaster is a black man, aren't you, chief? :D
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Cool, i checked out your url Seychelles. For like a week straight i tried to figure out those codes and how to customize my profile (i still don't have it down pact all the way) but after i google searched on what to do, there are a lot of already custom made layouts and designs for you to put on there. You can just browse a custom made layout that you might like, and then copy and paste the code that they give you, right into that box where you type your interests and things. After you hit save changes, your page will be finished. You can still tweak it all you want, but everytime i try to tweak mine something goes terribly wrong, so i don't mess with it as much. But this is only if you want to do anything to your profile and all :wink:
 
1. Hey Bryant, how have you been? Glad that you came back. :smt039



2. ARE WE GONNA KEEP GOING OVER AND OVER AGAIN THE SAME THINGS WE ARE STILL ARGUING ABOUT IN HERE???



These conversations are like crack to some of you people. :roll:
 
Bryant said:


1. Make it easier to put Avatars on here. I just tried to upload an avatar, and i even resized it so that it was 80x80 and 2.76kb, but the image still wouldn't work. So i think that it should be made a little easier to do that, seeing as though the really successful message boards have this feature made easy, and it really puts a face to the name you know.

2. Make this message board much more woman friendly. When i checked the website periodically, i noticed that fewer and fewer women posted here, even less than before. This is definitely not good. Maybe all of the hot white woman actress threads shouldn't be allowed because apparently there's something that's driving the women away from here, and everybody is suffering because of it. This site would be much improved if the women actually said something every now and then you know.
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I'll take a look at the avatars and why they don't display properly. I plan to move the site to a faster server over the next week, and will start with a clean install of the forum software. And re-add the features one by one. Maybe leave off spell check, which seems to be causing issues for some people.

As far as getting more white women to participate. I believe that is driven by the topics and what you all choose to talk about. If you talk about the things they're interested in, then they are more likely to participate.

Perhaps revisit the topics that attracted that type of woman and steer the conversations in that direction. I'll weed out the folks with inappropriate agendas.
 
SardonicGenie said:
1. Hey Bryant, how have you been? Glad that you came back. :smt039



2. ARE WE GONNA KEEP GOING OVER AND OVER AGAIN THE SAME THINGS WE ARE STILL ARGUING ABOUT IN HERE???



These conversations are like crack to some of you people. :roll:
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Sardonic, what's up?? I've been reading you guys' posts, and you've really been holding it down. It's good to be back. Hopefully i can stay a little longer this time around 8) . And thanks webmaster for looking at my suggestions. I think the avatars will make a big difference, and i really do think that more women are needed here. More women would just make this place all that much more fun to participate in you know.
 
Bryant said:
Seychelles said:
oh, it's http://www.myspace.com/dacif
and the webmaster is a black man, aren't you, chief? :D
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Cool, i checked out your url Seychelles. For like a week straight i tried to figure out those codes and how to customize my profile (i still don't have it down pact all the way) but after i google searched on what to do, there are a lot of already custom made layouts and designs for you to put on there. You can just browse a custom made layout that you might like, and then copy and paste the code that they give you, right into that box where you type your interests and things. After you hit save changes, your page will be finished. You can still tweak it all you want, but everytime i try to tweak mine something goes terribly wrong, so i don't mess with it as much. But this is only if you want to do anything to your profile and all :wink:
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Thanks Bryant :smt058
 
Seychelles said:
Bryant said:
Seychelles said:
oh, it's http://www.myspace.com/dacif
and the webmaster is a black man, aren't you, chief? :D
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Cool, i checked out your url Seychelles. For like a week straight i tried to figure out those codes and how to customize my profile (i still don't have it down pact all the way) but after i google searched on what to do, there are a lot of already custom made layouts and designs for you to put on there. You can just browse a custom made layout that you might like, and then copy and paste the code that they give you, right into that box where you type your interests and things. After you hit save changes, your page will be finished. You can still tweak it all you want, but everytime i try to tweak mine something goes terribly wrong, so i don't mess with it as much. But this is only if you want to do anything to your profile and all :wink:
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Thanks Bryant :smt058
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Yoouu'rre Welcome :wink:
 
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