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Regarding the Kim Kardashian interview:

LADIES:
WHO IS THE ONE FAMOUS WHITE GUY THAT YOU FIND YOURSELF ATTRACTED TO AND GIVE REASONS FOR YOUR ATTRACTION, THEN CHOOSE A FAMOUS BLACK GUY ATTRACTED TO, BUT!!! WILL CHOOSE THE WHITEGUY OVER HIM (it has to be a black guy you are attracted to.)
Here are some that are consider sexy (GEORGE CLOONEY, JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE, ROBIN THICKE, BRAD PITT, MATT DAMON.)

FELLAS:
WHO IS THE ONE FAMOUS BLACK FEMALE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO AND GIVE REASONS FOR YOUR ATTRACTION, THEN CHOOSE A FAMOUS WHITE FEMALE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO, BUT!!! WOULD CHOOSE THE BLACK FEMALE OVER HER
Here are some that are consider sexy (Esther Baxter, Halle Berry, Beyonce, Ciara, Joy Bryant, Rihanna, Vivica A. Fox, Leila Ali.)


LADIES:
NAME FEATURES ON WHITE GUYS THAT ALOT OF BLACK GUYS DON'T HAVE THAT YOU FIND SEXY AND VICE VERSA.

FELLAS:
NAME FEATURES ON BLACK WOMEN THAT ALOT OF WHITE WOMEN DON'T HAVE THAT YOU FIND SEXY AND VICE VERSA.


LADIES:
IF YOU WERE OR STILL ARE SINGLE AND GOT ALOT MORE ATTENTION FROM WHITE GUYS THAN BLACK WOULD YOU START HITTING ON THE BROTHAS YOURSELF OR JUST START DATING WHITEGUYS?


FELLAS:
IF YOU WERE OR STILL ARE SINGLE AND GOT ALOT MORE ATTENTION FROM BLACK GIRLS BUT GOT TURNED DOWN BY ALOT OF WHITEGIRLS WOULD YOU START DATING BLACK GIRLS OR LET THE WHITEGIRLS COME TO YOU OR SHOW YOU THAT THEY ARE INTERESTED FIRST?


AND LASTLY FOR EVERYBODY:
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CHEATED ON OR IF YOU WERE CHEATED ON BY THE BROTHA OR WW YOU ARE SEEING AND GOT THOUGHTS OF GOING BACK TO SAME RACE DATING?

 

Mugshot, you are trying to stir up trouble this morning! :wink: I'll come back and answer later...

 

Hmm, the one famous black female that i'm attracted to ...... it's a toss up between Ashanti and Tyra Banks. They seem pretty down to earth and approachable. As documented (by me of course), i really like Jessica Simpson but i'd pick Tyra or Ashanti over her anyday.

As for part two, well, sistas are well known for their bodacious behinds, thick thighs and slim waists which is pretty hard to find on white girls (at least, all three) but you won't be hard pressed to find a black woman with that kind of body, Beyonce being a prominent example.

If i were single and got more attention from black women than white women, shit, i'd go for it. Why should i put my dating options on whole because of a single group?

Well, interestingly enough, the only woman that has cheated on me (at least to my knowledge) was a sista (actually, biracial) but the actions of one person do not speak for a whole group so i won't automatically "go back" based on that alone.

 

There really aren't any famous men I have a strong attraction to - white or black.

Features on a white guy -
I don't have an answer for this.

Getting more attention from white guys -
Well for me I noticed that I needed to get better about my signals. Such as giving strong eye contact, smile, say hi, etc and then black men started giving me much more attention.

Cheating -
No... I don't think that's race related. That's about someone's character.

 

A famous white guy I'm attracted to is probably either Ewan McGregor or Johnny Depp. A famous black guy I'm attracted to would be Brian J. White. I think he's absolutely gorgeous but I've had a crush on Ewan and Johnny for a while. Those were some whack examples by the way :wink:

This one is pretty tough. And disturbing . :? It's basically asking what do you find attractive about other guys and not your own man. So I don't really know how to answer that. I'll just say... I like the spikey Italian hair.... :?

I've never been cheated on by a brotha lol. But I was treated pretty badly by most white guys I encountered. I always felt like they saw me as only a sex object and their one intention was to get into my pants. But it was never and is never like that with my Mr. Spidey. He gives Ewan McGregor and Johnny Depp a run for their money :smt005

 

RE: Why I would choose

This is not too difficult to answer. I am more into excellence when it comes down to particular personalities. I enjoy the company of smart women in general; however, not to be bias in my opinion. Personally, I get along with white women better. In my opinion, white women that I've met are more serious about matters in addition, more open-minded in a general converation. To answer your question, I would say my choice of excellence in a white female would be "Hillary Clinton" because she appears that her prospectives are in order.

To pick my choice for a black woman that I would consider as a choice of excellence probably would be: Judge Mablean Ephriam. I choose her as a candidate because she has the motivation drive that I appreciate in a woman in general, and as mentioned earlier the "intelligence."

I really do NOT have a preference, regarding a female's exterior or interior design. I will say, keeping her body in a proportional balance does matter, as well as some sort of regularly exercise. But what I'm really attracted to is the portential of the mind, that includes being able to hold a friendly conversation, a woman who is knowledgable of her surroundings (i.e..reads books, newspapers, magazines and etc). Also, a woman who has a 'locus of control' attitude and excellent persona about herself.

 

TO EVERYBODY WHO IS HAVING DIFFICULTY WITH THIS ONE

WHAT I MEAN BY FEATURES IS SOMETHING THAT STANDS OUT ON MOST WM OR BW. LIKE THE THING THAT MOSTLY STANDS OUT ON A SISTA THAT IS SEXY IS THE HIPS, LIPS, CURVES, ASS, AND THIGHS. AND FOR WHAT SOME HAD SAID ABOUT WM EYE COLOR, HAIR, TAN, ETC.

BASICALLY SOMETHIN YOU MOSTLY SEE ON THAT PARTICULAR GROUP THAT IS ALWAYS LABELED SEXY.

 

Ok well then for me it would probably be blue eyes with very dark hair. Sometimes more angular features....prominent nose.

 

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Oh o.k. in that sense, I love a white woman who has thick legs, a big behind, and hair down to her back. I am really flattered, as well as turned on when I go the mall, and just happen to see white women with these features. Also, some may suggest that black women are usually thought of as the goddest of big BUTTS and big thighs. However, I believe these features look mighty "zesty" on a white female.

 

I agree. I like the different eye colors and hair color/styles of some white guys.

 

FELLAS:
IF YOU WERE OR STILL ARE SINGLE AND GOT ALOT MORE ATTENTION FROM BLACK GIRLS BUT GOT TURNED DOWN BY ALOT OF WHITEGIRLS WOULD YOU START DATING BLACK GIRLS OR LET THE WHITEGIRLS COME TO YOU OR SHOW YOU THAT THEY ARE INTERESTED FIRST?

Answer I mostly never got turned down by women that I pursued when I was single. However I would wonder why I was not attractive enough for a women of any color to be attracted to me and I don't necessarily mean visually.

FELLAS:
NAME FEATURES ON BLACK WOMEN THAT ALOT OF WHITE WOMEN DON'T HAVE THAT YOU FIND SEXY AND VICE VERSA.

Answer I think white women as a whole still have larger breast than most black women and I also believe that black women still have larger butts than white women. HOWEVER white women lately are getting larger butts but have a long way to go still. Although this may not be a feature but could be based on how black and white ethnicities are raised, white women are much quicker to be nude, pose nude or wear more sexually revealing clothes than black women.

FELLAS:
WHO IS THE ONE FAMOUS BLACK FEMALE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO AND GIVE REASONS FOR YOUR ATTRACTION, THEN CHOOSE A FAMOUS WHITE FEMALE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO, BUT!!! WOULD CHOOSE THE BLACK FEMALE OVER HER

Answer Halle Berry she used to be #1 on my list and was for years even though right now she's not, I think she fits this scenario best. For a white chick I would choose Meagan Fox over Keeley Hazel. I would choose halle because she looks almost just as good still, @ 40 years old with no make-up. That's tough to beat

AND LASTLY FOR EVERYBODY:
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN CHEATED ON OR IF YOU WERE CHEATED ON BY THE BROTHA OR WW YOU ARE SEEING AND GOT THOUGHTS OF GOING BACK TO SAME RACE DATING?

Answer I was dipped on but I continued to to find all women incredible and still don't understand how a man can be gay....HUH!!

 

Well...I'm attracted to many different men for many different reasons. But...I'd have to say....LL Cool J just does it for me. He's strong, bald, black ...and those lips are straight from heaven. I do tend to be much more attracted to big men. The boney or even really defined man just doesn't do that much for me.
As far as going back to my race...well, and this is just my theory, but.....I just beileve that if I were to be cheated on by my bm...it wouldn't make me run to a wm. That's just retarded, sorry. I'd move on to someone better...whether it be a bm, wm,lm...whatever. Love knows no colors. And these are the rambling thoughts from my keyboard this afternoon.

 

I'm attracted to Matt Damon and George Clooney...i'm also attracted to Will Smith and Grant Hill. I would likely take Will over all challengers b/c he seems to have the full package as far as build, personality, sense of humor and maturity.

A feature of white guys that I like would be thick, soft hair. A feature of black guys I like is simply gorgeous, dark, creamy skin. Cannot beat it.

I would rather date a black guy just from a pure attraction stand point.

And as far as getting cheated on, I detest my ex b/f, but right now i'm an equal opportunity hater, not just black guys! :wink: Seriously, I wouldn't hesitate to date a bm again just b/c my first experience didn't end well.

 

*Thread hi-jack alert*

Seriously? How would you do it?

 

1a. Hugh Jackman - smile and personality (although, you never can tell)
1b. Seal/Jamie Foxx

2a. I'm going to have to be boring and go with blue eyes (I do love those). And I like white skin also. And the general facial features of white guys
2b. Obviously the black skin. The body shape - good ass and muscly. Facial features also - fuller lips, etc.

3. I'd date whoever I was attracted to and whoever was a good guy. I generally don't hit on guys - actually - I never hit on guys.

4. Never been cheated on and never have or would cheat. Since my BM is African, I think it would make me shy away from African men (or make me more wary), but not black men. It would probably just make me more shy in general.

 

Okay a few people still didn't answer but I'll put my reasons why I put up this survey in the first place and that is because regarding kim kardashian with everybody getting confused on her dating brothas but would have george clooney no matter what, and what people labeling her as being into black guys and she kind of denying it in that interview and I think I know why she would because I believe a preference is something that when it all comes down to, and with her it all comes down to obviously white men. I don't believe for one second that she just picked george clooney to hide the fact that she like black men when if she wanted to hide that fact then she would said both a bm's & wm's name to be even.
I believe she dates alot of bm for the sex and the characteristics of the type of bm she is feeling. I believe her and anyone like her like the style, attitude, level of coolness of a brotha but LOVE IT when a whiteman does it. Which is the reason why alot of ghetto(hood acting) whitegirls date ghetto(hood acting) wm instead of ghetto(hood) bm. Alot of them like it better when the hip hop flava is on a whiteboy, because with hip hop being so big in black cultured you would think the men are wanted by the ww too, but that just goes to show that race DO matter in people's dating life and anyone that denies is a lie. If she or if anyothers was really into bm/ww, etc. just like us on here she would of had picked a black celebrity.

So overall I think alot of people are both open minded and have preferences which is why I asked alot of you to pick a same race celebrity you would get with and which one would you choose and all that.
Because I believe a preference is not something you ONLY want it is something that when it comes down to it DEEP DOWN it's what you want.
For instince I like the characteristics of a hood blackgirl but for some reason love white women of those characteristics (esp. the big booties.). Why? because like I said race does matter in your dating life and I may not act on being with a sista but it doesn't mean I don't find them attractive, I just find ww attractive more. And alot of people need to stop empahsizing so much on open mindedness and stop being scared of letting your preferences, when it all comes down to it BE KNOWN!!!! :wink:

It's like if you say you have a preference you must be prejudice towards the opposite of what your attracted to it's almost like saying your open minded is being politically correct, but saying have preferences is being politically incorrect.

 

So thank all who have answered so far in proving my point that you don't have to be prejudice&shallow to have a preference and proving in the kim kardashian situation that just because she date alot of brothas doesn't tell you someone's preference A question like the one she answered and the ones I asked on here which are questions like when it all comes down to it? or if you had to choose? tells your a person's preference if you know how to work the truth out of someone.

I also think that a preference means when it comes down to it is proven with joliemarie as well:
"Jean Reno - not just as a WM, he is my DEFINITION of sexy. I like older men. The rugged looks, the French accent, the beautiful ugliness, that deep look... I used to fantasize about bumping into him in a supermarket in Paris, falling in love and getting married (hasn't happened yet, but there's still hope). As for the black guy SECOND to Jean Reno, it would be Blair Underwood"

 

So are you saying the Kim actually has a preference for white guys just b/c she said so? If so, then I would respectfully disagree. Kim has had the opportunity to be with about any man she wants, and she chooses black men.
Kim is beautiful, she is rich, she parties in the right places. She could have been with a ton of white guys, she hasn't, she has been with a ton of black guys. Now for her to come back and say her preference is white guys? No, in her case, actions speak louder than words.

I would say that your poll, while interesting and probably got people thinking, doesn't prove anything about Kim - b/c the people on this forum are not in the position of privilege she is. And when I say privilege, I mean she gets to pick exactly who she is with and when.