hope this is in the right section..

hey everyone

nice forum you all have going here

i happen to be of East Indian descent, living on a Caribbean island.
male, age 26.

i love beautiful, white girls/ladies but of course there is somewhat of a lack of them here and well most of those who are living here are already involved.

i had a longdistance internet romantic relationship with one beautiful Dutch-girl who visited me a couple years back but of course just 'visit'..

and well a couple weeks ago one beautiful whitegirl friend of some other indiangirl friends of mine began contacting me and fell in love with me.
(i'm a musician so she heard of my music thru her friends and well she's vegetarian and i'm vegan so that's also a factor for me)
thing is we met up, it went perfect, she was afraid i'd not also feel the same about her, but i took away her fears and told her how i felt.

sad thing is it didn't last more than a week because she has some issues she said and her feelings changed
really broken about that since..
but that's another story. i don't mean to clutter here up..



question - do you white ladies on here consider Indian guys 'black' (in other words am i eligible to even exist on this forum )

are there beautiful, white ladies who do like Indian guys as they do like 'darker men' and not just African guys?



one of my dreams is to be involved in a real loving relationship with a beautiful white veg*n girlfriend who i'd marry one day eventually as well

hard to find though..

apart from the search for veg*ns, it is not that i don't love seeing beautiful white women
but you get where i'm coming from regarding relationship vs. physical desire



thanx for your time

Peace and Love

 

ladies?

 

Not much of a problem

Count your blessings that you are a musician. I'm a Black-American and since you are from a Caribbean island I believe you can get a White woman again either from your concerts or on the web. Also get your Afro-Caribbean friends to help you too.

 

hell travel back to India brotha, you will find that there are millions of Indians just as dark or darker than black Americans/carribeans

 

Re: Not much of a problem

haha if it were only so easy..

as i mentioned, the girl who 'fell in love with me' (who broke my heart thereafter.. sigh..) heard of me due to my music and contacted me on the 'net, but down here things don't work so smoothly as you advise..
only a few WW are at concerts and well usually are already taken..

as for the web, that's why i joined this forum hehe...
(and well the Dutchgirl, who is up to this day my good friend, who i mentioned eventually visited me)

and well been trying on other places on the 'net as well..

i don't even know how any friends can help, because the circumstances won't just change

thanx for your input though

 

hahaha
yes i know that bro,
but was just posing the question to the ladies here if i am even 'eligible' to be on here, or would even be desirable to them
haha

 

Okay, I am responding after being hesitant to participate in a thread such as this.

In my opinion, you are welcome to be on this forum as much as anyone else (as long as you are not spewing hate). Now, I have dated a man from Pakistan (I am not so ignorant to believe that Pakistan and India are the same thing, but close enough to make this comparison.) I was not attracted to him because he was close-enough-to-a-black-man. I am physically drawn to men w/ darker features. Most often I date bm because I meet more bm.

 

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thanx for your feedback

 

RB, you are eligible to be on her sure, welcome and enjoy buddy

 

thanx very much!

 

I'm new here as well. American but travel back and forth between the UK and NY. Was married to a bm but currently single. Been reading this site for years and decided to register.

 

hey there & welcome

 

Hey Porcelain--welcome and it is great that you joined us. so do you live in Manhattan and London? I lived in Manhattan for years and also upstate. I have cousins in London as well and love to travel there-south kensington

 

ah yes
still no luck

:cry:


:lol:

 

Hello again, I remember you. Well I'm white and vegetarian but taken!

I don't consider Indians as "black" because they're not! Nor would I consider black people "Indian" for the same reason. Being classified as x or y is more to do with society than how dark your skin is.

Plenty of women look beyond colour and just want a good man, some have a preference for darker skinned men and some pinpoint their attraction to a particular ethnicity.

I really don't think the internet is a good place to find true love - a quick shag or a fantasy romance maybe, but not very often the real thing. I don't know what else there is for you though, considering where you live. Unless you were prepared to live elsewhere...but who in their right mind would want to leave a beautiful Caribbean island? Can we swap homes?!

 

interesting topic.......

it's a safe bet to say the vast majority of white women going to the caribbean are married/involved and/or looking for a fling with only black men.

but here in the states, as well as throughout europe, i've seen a number of east indian guys with white women, but far many more east indian women with white guys, that's for sure. another thing is the indians guys i've seen with white women, did not look or act "stereotypically" indian.

i'm curious though, what's the scoop on black men with east indian women? i can literally count with my hands the number of those couples i've seen.