How do you answer when asked about sexual history

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Kylie, Jul 21, 2025 at 7:43 PM.

  1. Kylie

    Kylie Member

    It seems like everytime I meet someone and we are getting to know eachother, guys will always ask the same questions about past sexual relationships. Honestly it's like clock work. Men always ask how many guys have I've slept with. What's the biggest I've been with. All that type of stuff....so my question is for the men and women on here. Do you answer these questions honestly?

    I truly answer honestly when Im asked. My feeling is if you really want to know then I'm a tell you, but you may not like my answer lol. I will second guess answering truthfully though. Some can't handle it.
     
  2. JayPrimo5

    JayPrimo5 Member

    I keep it 100 and expect 100 back. If for some reason me and the woman ain't for each other than we part ways. My only deal breaker is if the woman I'm interested in is being too reckless for me (too many unprotected partners without getting tested, being intoxicated to the point of forgetting partners, having additional partners when we agreed to be exclusive sexually, etc).

    I've not had many sexual partners in life (I keep the same partners for a while) but don't mind if the woman I'm interested in has had more. I'd listen to how many and determine if it's too many but wouldn't bring up the woman's entire past. I'd just ask about the last guy(s) she had sex with, because I don't do sloppy seconds or get quick rebounds off of the court. I'm direct with my communication so we would discuss everything before we did anything. I don't hold the past of someone against them, if they have truly learned from previous experiences and became a better person since. If I get approached when she is ready to deal with me, I'm cool and dtf. If she comes to me conflicted, I'll pass, no matter how fine or how much I wanna f*ck.

    As long as my wood is good and she enjoys and wants more of it, I don't care if the guys before were twice as big (now that would just be ridiculously big :rolleyes:). I would rather be with someone that wants me and that I want to be with, than be fake and in some janky situation. I got a very high sex drive so my standards for fwb are more relaxed than a relationship but still expect the same respect and consideration I'm willing to give.
     
  3. MangakaJ96

    MangakaJ96 Active Member

    I generally give an honest answer regarding my sexual history. Autistic folks like me are know for our honesty and I hate lying.
     
  4. jen14

    jen14 Active Member

    I just answer the question and ask the same in return...

    What I am curious about though, is why EVERY time I am even talking to a black man, one of the first things he would ALWAYS ask is "Have you ever been with a black guy?":D
     
  5. Kylie

    Kylie Member

    Should see their face when I tell them I been with an 11 inch dick. Don't ask if you don't want to know the answer. :)
     
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  6. MangakaJ96

    MangakaJ96 Active Member

    I’m curious as to know how they want to ask you that in the first place.
     

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