AussieMama, the BMs are there, they’re just rarer in Oz. Personally, I don’t seek a brief hit; I want to be engulfed long term by a relationship in which we are both passionate about social justice, are gentle and responsive to each other’s needs, deeply committed to monogamy, and live the value of integrity. (Hmm, okay so that was a cute liddle fantasy, shhhh!)
Seriously though, it IS harder in Australia, but I think we just need to be more proactive. I figure I’m rare, so the guy that captivates me is gonna be rare as well. I won’t hesitate to be bold for this very reason, yet I can also be quite shy! (Tis the contradictions thing, but that’s another story.) I think once you’re tuned in to BMs, you start seeing more of them! *grins cheekily* However I’m also wistfully looking over at the States. *sigh*
So what do the men suggest for us secluded Australian WW?!!