How most relationships pan out

RestlessRita said:
Hmmmm
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What you trying to say, speak up :D

Here's what my only long term relationship looked like

Meet

First Kiss 1st day

Sex 3 months

Meet Friends/Family 3 weeks

Say I Love You 6 weeks

Move In Together 2 years

Get Engaged Never

Get Married 3 years

Stop Having Sex Never

Buy A House 4 years (I was 21 when I brought my first house)

Get Divorced 7 years

Now a days my relationships look like

Meet

First Kiss 1 hour or 2

Sex 1-3 Days

Meet Friends/Family Never (unless I'm given the guilt trip)

Say I Love You Never (Even if I have the feelings, this just complicates things the way women latch onto those 3 magical words)

Get Engaged Never

Get Married Never again

Stop Having Sex Never (unless she chooses to stop)

Buy A House Never (well maybe by myself)

Get Divorced Never again
 
4north1side2 said:
What you trying to say, speak up :D

Here's what my only long term relationship looked like

Meet

First Kiss 1st day

Sex 3 months

Meet Friends/Family 3 weeks

Say I Love You 6 weeks

Move In Together 2 years

Get Engaged Never

Get Married 3 years

Stop Having Sex Never

Buy A House 4 years (I was 21 when I brought my first house)

Get Divorced 7 years

Now a days my relationships look like

Meet

First Kiss 1 hour or 2

Sex 1-3 Days

Meet Friends/Family Never (unless I'm given the guilt trip)

Say I Love You Never (Even if I have the feelings, this just complicates things the way women latch onto those 3 magical words)

Get Engaged Never

Get Married Never again

Stop Having Sex Never (unless she chooses to stop)

Buy A House Never (well maybe by myself)

Get Divorced Never again
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Hmmmm
 
4north1side2 said:
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I am a bit skeptical about the numbers. There are other factors involved such as where a couple lives and what occupations/professions the couple are in. I do agree with the final message. A couple, whatever the makeup, has to enjoy their time together because life is way too short.
 
Gorath said:
I am a bit skeptical about the numbers. There are other factors involved such as where a couple lives and what occupations/professions the couple are in. I do agree with the final message. A couple, whatever the makeup, has to enjoy their time together because life is way too short.
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Agreed!!
 
I wonder if 7 years is about the shelf life of the average good relationship. I seriously doubt the viability of the happily ever after paradigm. I think people are going to shift into successive monogamous long-term relationships rather than a single one that lasts forever.
 
Or

Maybe we need a new system that's not completely monogamous. Something resembling a semi open marriage. Six people, 3 females 3 males, rotatingfrom person-to-person every few months. The "newness" would keep things exciting, different looks, different sex, conversations, etc. Few enough wives/husbands to keep you from debauchery, but enough to keep you from serial monogamy.
 
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