I have to say

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Ymra, Jan 9, 2011.

  1. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    ...damnit if I'm not lonely as hell.
     
  2. Bug

    Bug Well-Known Member

    Sounds like you need to start enjoying your own company, loneliness is just a state of mind.

    Why are you lonely, have you just gotten divorced or something?
     
  3. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Awww. Ymra!! It must suck to live that far from your family. You can always chat w us here:)
     
  4. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    as a single parent who sits at home alone night after night i understand loneliness, but have come to enjoy my 'me' time and fill my time with things that i enjoy to do. as i know that you are not stuck at home at night ymra, have you thought about joining a sports team or taking a class in a subject that you're interested in so you can get out there and enjoy the company of other people while you are away from your family...???
     
  5. Bug

    Bug Well-Known Member

    If it's just case of having moved and he's feeling a bit isolated I'm confident his loneliness will be forgotten in a couple of months.

    Go to the local pub, squash club, communtiy club or wherever and start on the road to making a few pals, maybe try a class or join a team as Tarshi said.

    Whatever your thing is basket weaving, mosaic making, crochet or paper craft dig in a make yourself a hobby.

    So chin up, thing's are always better than they seem.
     
  6. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    Too much 'me time' is not a good thing.

    I understand how you feel completely, bud.
     
  7. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

  8. Unique4ever

    Unique4ever Well-Known Member

    ~ If you are lonely when you are alone, you are in bad company. ~

    Jean-Paul Sartre
     
  9. satyr

    satyr New Member

    If I woke up tomorrow and discovered that an alien civilization had abducted the rest of the human race overnight, I'd throw a party.
     
  10. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    I enjoy the company of me......but I've grown tired of starring at these damn walls.

    - watching net flix
    - I'm even tried of looking at pictures
    - tired of Xbox
    - tired of my camera

    ...I miss conversation.

    The scent of a woman. A warm body. Its all bananas...

    Strange position I find myself in.
     
  11. Sin Mari

    Sin Mari New Member

    Go out and meet someone. Anyone at all. Even if you're not interested in dating or sleeping with them. Just talk. :)
     
  12. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member

    Of course dude... you might enjoy your company but there's only so long you can enjoy it for. When do you see the fam next?
    Honestly I can't give any decent advice... try and see them on skype as much as possible. Even if your wife is busy, get your kids on. They'll love to talk to their dad as often as they can! Apart from that I agree with the other girls, take up a class you're interested in, whether it's a language or art or whatever.
    Loneliness is a horrible feeling. I really hope you don't feel like this for too long.

    If it helps, I'm always happy to debate with you dude lol
     
  13. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    All that 'be happy alone' shit is bad cliche. Humans are social creatures and while some alone time is healthy, you have every right to desire the company of others..... it's in your nature.
     
  14. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    The funny thing is I was sure it wouldn't be no thing....no problem at all.

    Shiit...tain't no thing. I'm a Soldier, nothing I can't handle. Bah!

    The dudes (so far) ain't into what I'm into. And I'd say 95% of the cats I work with are married.

    ....the single dude's are about football, football, football....this place is football crazy. The onlything I do now is sit around with my room mate and watch tv.

    Its crazy cuz dude and I are so much alike.

    - I'm 38 he's 48
    - same first name
    - he's prior Navy, I'm a former Marine
    - both like comics, cartoons, boxing, shooting, (etc)
    - both attracted to the same type of women
    - both ride motorcycles
    - I have a red mazda, he's got a red F150
    - I play Xbox 360, he plays play station.

    This dude is a HUGE brutha though.....engineer, and he's a BIG ASS PIMP. I swear he reminds me of me in my younger days with the ladies.
     
  15. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    I think I just need a few hours with a beautiful something that smells like spring flowers and sweat.
     
  16. I feel the same (swap it over to a male though).

    I am alone almost all the time when I am not at work. I live alone, I go shopping alone, I vacation alone, I usually exercise alone. And I quite like it, especially the living alone part. But sometimes one just needs the company of the opposite sex (for obvious reasons!)
     
  17. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    but it quite easy for women, much more difficult for men.

    LOL...I got a negative rep comment, I must have said something wrong.
     
  18. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

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  19. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    Whys a sweet thing like you alone????
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love that commercial
     
  20. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    ha ha ha asshole....

    ...but I do have self confidence.
     

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