I understand the BW who have been attacked and decide to post and deffend themselves because everyone who is attacked or addressed at will respond to it. If someone talks about me, I will respond and I will feel welcomed to do so since I am the topic. Other than that, are black women and/or white men welcomed in here or not? I see no reason they would be, because given the prefference of the people on this site, it is clear that it is of no interest to us to chit chat to a bw or a wm HERE, there are lots of other websites for that, and why would a BW who has 90% of the black male population at her finger wanna chit chat the 10% who are attracted to WW, and I would say the same about white men, except I havent seen any white men posting here but they are letting us be.....it seems to me that these women are trying to "take you back" and sweettalk you with their "good intentions" when only that in itself shows just how supportive they really are of IR. So, which one is it?
No Trolls Allowed. No this should not be an open forum. We all know that most people hate bm/ww relationships. Especially bw. Most of the bw who come here only come to start crap and racist-men to. The sign out front says whitewomenblackmen not everyone is welcome. If you other people want a forum for your views start one of your own, or go find one that fits your issues. The people who come here do not wish to discuss/hear about bw issues or other peoples. And besides I have never figured out why bw follow bm around(the internet) like lonely love sick puppies. BW are up in here 24/7. I think they are here more than wm or bm. Be gone trolls.
to me, it makes no sense why they are here. I wouldnt go to a muslim website to defend Christians if they are talking about us in a bad way. I would respect their right to have a space to discuss their interests. they should be able to honestly share their experiences with christians, their dislike for behaviors and even perhaps their interests in christianity. I would rather have respect for their right to free association and go to a Christian site instead. I am curious, why a black woman would even know BM are talking about them unless they came in here for some odd reason.
I do not really care who comes here to be honest as long as you do not say anything stupid, racist and ill-minded.
why cant they be racist?? if you dont mind bw coming into a bmww site, why not a racist coming into a non racist site? be equal, be fair. It is either stupid to come into a site that doesnt concern you, or it is fair game for all to come in and assault. we cant have it both ways. I say, keep them out. If they arent smart enough to read the title and understand, then i dont think they should be allowed. like going into a white supremacist site and asking them to stop hating blacks, that is just dumb.
Let'see; i can come up with a million reasons but i'd go with the most obvious for now at least. Firstly, racism is not the reasonable belief to espouse and secondly, we do not need those kinds here.
come on bro, you are the most intelligent brotha here and yet you cant see why it is important to have racist come here and tell us what we can and cant talk about? It is reasonable for a BW to come into a WWBM(do you see BW anywhere in that title?) and demand we dont talk about them, and yet its not ok for a guy wearing a bed sheet cant do the same? hmm i wonder why?
I get what you are saying, i just do not see the need for anyone to restricted in terms of using the internet, an openly free for all asset of modern society. The point is, black women want to point the finger at us for everything wrong with the black community; i am not denying that; but if we continue to do the exact same thing, when will we actually have time to talk about important things? None. We'd be too busy fighting off the trolls. Personally, even if a white man came here, as long as he kept his racist BS to himself or he was just as cool as everyone else, thats okay by me. In truth, you cannot go wrong by bringing the name of the website into conversation but it does not matter to me. Do what you please as long as you do not talk as though you just came from a KKK meeting.
but it is clear that all insults on IR and our chat is ok except white men. NOT, BW who come into to tell us what to do and say should be just as wrong. i dont support nor do i like racism, i hate it, but we cant defend one type while not defending all forms of it. the klan is welcome if bw are welcome. jerome is welcome to attack as bw are and so we are to say we are now OPEN to TROLLS of all kinds
I completely agree with what you're saying Diamondeyz. You're doing the right thing by defending yourself. I mean, you don't have to, but if you do, i for one, understand. If these guys would just stop talking negative about black women, you wouldn't feel the need to come in here and defend yourself. The racist white people who come on sometimes, don't really have a reason to defend their views because their views are wrong, whether they believe them to be or not. Guys who are talking bad about black women could be very wrong, so i think it's only appropriate that you're able to come in and defend yourself you know.
I don't see why wm/bw would want to come into a ww/bm site. Unless you're personally being attacked by name then its pointless. Are you going to post at every site that attacks you on the net?No,so people need to just move on and not waste time arguing with ignorant people. There are threads on blackplanet and other sites attacking bm. But I don't go there and try to debate some ignorant moron over the internet. Because I have better things to do then fight with someone that doesn't have any effect on my life. Now I see why so many people left the forums. I was in the "In the news section" and out of no where a bw troll started in on some bm bashing and talking about defending bw. Even though the thread had nothing to do with that subject. Can everyone just get over it and move on?
I think that your post "You know, the thought of black men even kissing a white woman older than 40 is quite worrying. I never knew some of them could be quite stupid to do such a thing." was all of the above. What are you gonna do with your wife when she turns forty? Oh I'm sorry I guess it doesn't apply to Latinas. This site is nothing other than a chat for BM who want to discuss WW and everything else. This is hardly a place for WW themselves. It became fashionable here to bash women (all women) quite some time ago, and speak of them as objects rather than have a conversation with them. But, drooling over their asses is okay. There is not much going on here for the mind, anymore, which is sad because if there is another large interracial forum where I can share ideas, I want to go there, but I don't know of one. Seychelles, you are a delight, I hope you enjoy yourself on this site while you're here. It's only the Internet anyway. I tend to take things too seriously. :lol: I like lainarain's approach - post once in a while and not bother the rest of the time. That's what most WW here do from what I see. Maybe separate-sex forums would make more sense lol. I'm a member of a specific forum for women married to African husbands and we talk about EVERYTHING - the good, the bad and the ugly! We bitch about how their families from abroad beg for money without once stopping to ask HOW IS THE MAN DOING, HOW IS HE FEELING! We bitch about racists, we give sarcastic answers to trolls (they shake things up a bit, you've gotta admit it! :lol: ), we share African food recipes. One girl came on our site and asked if sex with BM is all it is famed to be and we assured her that it all depends, just like with everything else in life. :lol: But our webmaster said that for the first time in her life she gets everything - size with stamina, foreplay with caresses, and sensations with feelings!!! By the way we even have a thread about the beauty of African women and a whole bunch of pictures of pretty African girls http://africaru.4bb.ru/viewtopic.php?id=305. (sorry Webmaster I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post a link but it's in another language so it's not a competitor lol). I'm giving this as an example of a different attitude. We have white guys on our site adding their .02, and we have normal conversations with them IF THEY ARE CIVIL. What's the problem??? They do stay out of our man discussions lol. Maybe comparing forums is like what Eyvah is doing, comparing Europe to the US. The only things I see written in this forum about WW is "wow, check out her ass!" (yawn). There are some very, very interesting posts sometimes though (I miss Bol onin I think is his name, and Sunstorm). Black women are going to keep coming here, although I wouldn't bother if I was a BW just based on responses that BW get, even the completely nice ones get nasty responses. If we're against segregation in the real world, why promote it here? This is an open forum (there are closed forums where you only get posts by email, this is not one of them) and we have to be nice to whoever comes on here and is nice to us. Diamondeyz got attitude yesterday, and she said absolutely nothing wrong to anybody! Haven't we had Asian and Indian men post here, folks, and they were treated well? :roll: I specifically remember an Indian man from the West Indies. He wasn't snapped at for not belonging here! Okay I'm going back to bed. Good weekend all!
Interesting topic... Well first I agree that this site should only be for WW/BM as the title states. IN THEORY, BW/WM should not be allowed but my question for you all that want to do so is how the heck are you going to ensure this? You cant. This is the internet for crying out loud. We dont know who is on the other side of the keyboard. Shout, for all I know, I could be talking to a bunch of old WM just trying to entertain themselves (lol...extreme but you get my point) If you ban BW/WM they could just lie about who they are and still say what they want on the boards. You know its very easy to do that on this site. Nobody posts their pics or anything and even if we did whos to say some of the pics wouldnt be fake. So what it all comes down to is us as WW/BM not worring about or even paying attention to BW/WM that come here. As a matter a fact let me take this a step further. I know some will get mad at me for this but I couldnt care less. In MY OPINION, it is totally foolish and assinine for any WW/BM on this board to start a topic that talks about BW/WM. I dont care if the comments about them are good OR bad. All this does if give them a lane by which they could come here and post (sometimes their posts are good, sometimes their posts are bad but that is not the point). Its funny because SOME (not all) that complain about BW/WM being on here have started or contributed to threads that talk about them. How stupid! Why dont we just stick to why we came here (hopefully for dialoge between WW/BM), leave the BW/WM topics alone, and ignore everything else? I dont know but thats my take. I've got love for everybody so please dont take anything personal. B
1. Although everyone who posted in here has made some good points, ALL OF YOU are bascially saying the exact same things again and again 2. Some people have trouble comprehending what the name of this site is: www.whitewomenblackmen.com NOT compareblackmentowhitemen.com, bitchaboutblackwomen.com, trollthissiteandharassblackmen.com, cuckoldfetish.com, whitegirlfetish.com, sometimeswhitewomenandblackmen.com, OR EVEN whitewomenandsometimesblackmenwhentheyfeelingsarehurtbyonlyoneblackman.com, soooo..... Let's be original from now on, please.
I see where you're coming from but it's not worth it. I was once browsing the web looking for something fun to read about interracial relationships, and came across this lovely post: "I am an Africian Man Married to a nice Nigerian women, however before I was married I went out with many white women, I have never bothered saying " I love you " but I was always in their bed the first night, All the white woman I went out with were easy and would do anything I wanted. I would never marry a white woman but they are always available for sex. Some of my friends have hit on my white girlfriends and have told me later that the women came across! I would prefer a black girl evertime for marriage so do all me friends who sleep with white women." What am I going to do about it? :lol: Absolutely nothing.
Very smart post, Moskvichka... I think Diamondeyz and all the BW who come here and argue endlessly, either have a LOT of time to waste, or just enjoy the mess and attention they generate...bcoz, obviously, nothing they say is going to change the view of some BM on BW on this site I personally have nothing against BW and I do not hav a white gf bcoz BW rejected me... Arguing like hell to "defend themselves" on a f...ing website...c`mon, you are much smarter than that, Diamondeyz and all the BW who come here to salvage their "honor"! Peace to all women on earth...my sisters are black...I`ve dated black, asian, white...I need hispanic and native american to complete my list (and get killed my my gf)... My mother was black, there isn`t another woman I respect and love more than her...
It's nice to have another cool woman here who has a positive attitude. If you notice, most women on here don't keep posting continuously. Iffey's Wifey left, MistressB left, lainarain appears once in a while, I miss them! We need some estrogen here. There was a Rhonda here a while back who also stopped posting, but she left us with a priceless post: "I'm forty (and believe me, it willl happen a lot sooner than you think.)"
Thank you M . And yeah, I miss women too..... WOMEN !!!!!!!!! :!: :smt060 COME :arrow: HERE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! was that convincing ? :roll: :smt017
