I concur with your sentiments, but let not forget the Jill Scott article, that was in a major magazine in every newsstand and checkout line in this country, and she used that "controversy" as promotion for her work and was given the cover of the same magazine next month.
In no other situation could that have happened, except with a BW discussing BM.
Black women as mates are off my radar, and the angry ones, well, I hope to never deal with them. Yes, they want attention. Yes, they love to get a rise out of and a reaction from Black men who are with White women. One can ignore the hate stares or the comments, in the streets or the internet, but some issues warrant a response in the matter of protecting ones own self interest.
I want to rep you, but can't, so I'll just say: Hecky-yeah.

