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Sometime back, i limited my visit to this site for various reasons. In the past i enjoyed the topics and found the site refreshing in its aims and pursuit in discourses involving interracial relationships, specifically white women and black men.
Being that i was a black man and had some experience in interacting with these matters i looked to this as a interesting piece. Exploring the topics when i first found the site was intriguing. I found myself coming back and eventually joining the site.
Sometimes i would add my two cents, and it is something akin to a rare occurrence, but mostly i read the discourses. I'm unfamiliar to some here because of this fact. I'm not as active posting as some.
Like i said before i use to make this site a routine.
I began to grow, let's say annoyed, at the hundredth posting about some celebrity female who may or may not be dating some black actor. At was interesting to first learn this but the topic wore its welcome out real fast in my mental stores.
i really don't care if, Brittney, Christina, Nicolette or who the "Hot Pop personality of the day" dates black men, white men or green men. What i care about is the woman who is immediate. Who i see from time to time and we exchange awkward smiles as we make small talk about the weather or our jobs. She is real, she is the consideration.
Not some media image, some idol who vapidly answers pre screened question that maintain their white bread image. I really don't care.

Another source of annoyance for me is the generalization of white women. White women are either seen as addicted to black men or in the closet about. I don't think every woman i happen upon is curious about me. In fact i think the opposite. It does not mean she isn't curious on some level but i don't go out into the world every white woman has some deep seated need for black.

This can be seen in those celeb fantasy threads that pop up. Otherwise grown, And i assume intelligent men, are reduced to fawning nit wits asking if this manufactured personality is into black.
For those who complain about black men getting the "Unwantables" of each race, getting on a site and racking your brain over whether some illusion is interested in your race, reeks of desperation. The desperate will take anything from anyone.

Since when is being a black man being anything but a man. We have degenerated into sexual stereotypes, apologetic political illusions and or some desperate masculine idea that is defined by being the opposite of what the world views us.

White women are no more beautiful than sisters. They are not some fragile dolls that pine away for their big blacks to come and blow their mind. They are not delicate, are not effervescent they are just like you. Women are a lot stronger than we as men give them credit for.

i guess my fatigue of coming here reading through the threads was partly out of physical fatigue but being annoyed can cause one to stay their hand quickly.

I apologize if i offend, i really don't mean to. If reading this you are irritate i apologize. Maybe i am committing the same sin i just ranted about.

 

Hey man, I do feel your pain. I also left the site for a while because I just was not interested in some of those topics you mentioned (also because I have been so busy). Like you said, whatever the heck happens to Brittany Spears in non of my concern. But I do realize that it is a site open for all sorts of discussion. So, I just leave and come back only when there is something I find interesting. I do have to say the chances of that are rapidly degenerating.

 

Anything I have said, have always been thought provoking. Now, everyone may disagree with what I say...none the less, there is more to black men besides our performances inside of the bedroom.

 

There are many times when I, too, get bored at some of the posts. And there are a handful of posters who are so damned illiterate or ignorant that I wonder how they even learned to use the Internet. There are also a few of them who respond to threads without saying anything interesting at all. We all know who these people are; they will either say "I agree" or "I disagree" and nothing more. Again, we all know who these people are, don't we?

But quitting the site or waiting for a post that suits you is not the answer. Whenever I'm bored with the material here, I either just create a new topic for discussion, upload a cheerleader pic, or do battle with some knucklehead. All of us here love a good debate. Am I right, people?!!!! We fight the terrorists on this site to avoid fighting the terrorists at home. If you don't do that, then you are letting the terrorists win. Don't become lazy, shiftless, uninspired quitters. Be creative people!

I always enjoy seeing posts from the new blood as well. But if you quit posting just because you disagree with comments made by other people, then the new people will become less likely to join and log in their opinions. I know that there are thousands of people who only read our posts and never log on. And because of that, I have anointed myself as the Billy Graham of this site. So all of you people who're reading this and have strong opinions, come on down to my bully pulpit. Come one and come all!

Finally, remember that the name of this site is whitewomenblackmen.com. Stop acting so shocked that a black man says that he likes white women. That doesn't mean that he hates women of other races. It's just different strokes for different folks sometimes. And just because someone jokes about black bulls, it doesn't mean that he IS a black bull. And if there are black bulls on this site, so what? You don't have to run with them; this isn't Pomplona, Spain, you know. So if you don't like porno flicks, American women, European women, older women, cheerleaders, younger women or Jessica Simpson, you must be gay! Just kidding; I'm just saying be a creative thinker and make up your own topic for the Forum.

Peace.
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"Your wife moaned like a whore when they ravished her...."

 

Good posts by both. I found this forum by accident but find the issues people say very interesting. Most of the time I would not have even thought of the things people say untill somebody on here said it and made me think about it.
I would be creative Mosiah1 and make topics but I have no issue to talk about lol and like I say I like looking at other peoples opinion and then talking about it 8)

 

There's more to women besides sexual performance but that's all too many men appear to focus on. So it goes both ways IMO.

 

Appear!? Appear!? APPEAR!? Appear....describes what you experienced. That assertion holds very little weight; when in fact, many men regardless of hue, are looking for equal partnership. It just may not be the men that gets you umm....."hot." What men FOCUS on are the 'looks' if we are not attracted you, who cares what your performance in the bed is like. Get it!? How about you try seducing us mentally!?

 

You get so anal about this stuff and you're the one with two girlfriends; one you openly use for sex. Stop pretending to be so above reproach.

 

That is just me....not the majority. Understand the difference!? It still does not change the fact, the common denominator in this situation, which is being the average male, are still looking for equal partnerships.

Besides in this world we all use each other - deceive each other endlessly. I make my intentions known. My mental health is perfect. That is the difference between me and the average male. Men and women, I guess it is to "be in love" to seek "happiness" -- to "be in love" the sexes deceive themselves about one another: the reason being that fundamentally they love and honour only themselves (or their own ideal, to express it more pleasantly). Most men seek "peace" within a women, when essentially, a women is very destructive, emotional, fragile and unstable. Do you know what I say!? "What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others."

To seek "peace" in a women for what!? To suffer!? What do YOU seek in a man that you can not find within yourself!? The fragility of emotions such as fear and desire CAUSES NOTHING but unnecessary suffering....And Man!? He is selfish and greedy - survival of he fittest is what we call it. Men who are overpowered by passions and surrounded by a mass of darkness cannot see this Truth, which is against the current, which is lofty, deep, subtle and hard to comprehend for MOST men.

 

It's safe to say that women are also looking for equal partnerships, and mental seduction is a two way street.

 

Ha ha, I agree.

And, a handful of the very SAME posters (Kid Rasta, tuckerreed, YOU) make those celebrity threads that Boll is reffering to, but instead of simply saying you're tired of this and that, try to add more variety to the conversations by making your own threads. This is almost like telling others what they can and cannot post, like if their opinions offend you, even you weren't talking to them, or even about them.

I also enjoy seeing new posts, but what I don't enjoy is these repetitive posts with people complaining about something on the site that goes both ways, like the generalization of white women, when throughout the boards, anyone can see written posts by white women making comments like 'black men don't like to masturbate', 'black men love babies more than white men', 'black men love giving oral sex','black men are more manly than white men', and so on, along with talking about how smooth our skin is, and blah-blah-blah, while complaining about what we are attracted to in white women all the time. :roll:

Look for threads mainly started by Iffy's Wifey, Alexssandra, and a couple by Miss B.

Says it all...

 

Nowt wrong with what I've said. And I mostly pose the question, rather than saying "Black men do this..." blah blah blah, and I nearly always say that I don't like to generalise, as I don't.

 

I know. I don't think you are a racist, or were intending to generalize. I was just raising a point about all the one-sided hypocrisy I keep reading throughout these threads with either white women or black women always being the victims of black male oppression, blah-blah-blah when all they can do is overact to a personal opinion, generalize, rant, whine, and name-call us, and then play the victim when it's done back to them all the time, as if it grants them some sort of immunity of being racist towards black men.

Not talking about YOU per se, but I'm just saying...

 

Hmmmm

 

Two way street!? Ha! Mental seduction male:female is about 70:30, if we did not put women "in the mood" then the human race would be instinct. In fact, women do not even know how to seduce men and make them fall "head over heels" for them. For men, it either you know what you are doing or you do not; in fact, this is the problem with most relationships, men have forgotten "The Art of Seduction", creating an allure of anticipation and mental seduction. Too many men just want to "jump right to it."

There are also soooo many self help techniques for women, so they can either put themselves "in the mood" or teaching them former arts that is gone in today's women. I can understand one of women's biggest vacuous assertions: men do not take the time to "connect." But it is hard to "connect" when YOU yourself do not know what in bloody blue hell ya want. It has always been and always will be, more or less, a one way street when it comes to "mental seduction."

 

You don't like women much. We're full of vacuous assertions, fallacies, we don't know how to do this, we don't know how to do that, we have all the control but are too stupid to use it, we have outrageous expectations, but we don't know what we want, blah blah...I hate reading your posts; they irritate me. It's like you think the only thing most women are good for is to be life support systems for pussies.

I know you're about to tell me how wrong I am, and I hope you do. I'm tired of reading your posts and hearing how horrible women are.

 

Haha - I'm so glad someone saved me the bother of writing that. Misogyny is very last century and frankly very tedious, even when it is in the guise of being "humorous". Would it be acceptable for me to say that black men were vain and only interested in sex if I put one of these straight afterwards? :lol: methinks not - and I hope that none of the men rise to the bait of "nudge nudge wink wink, hey, you guys must be able to see how unreasonable all women are...sheeeeeeeeeeesh".

 

Good, glad I'm not the only one who feels that way. Most the time I'm wondering if the women here just bite their tongues about this stuff or what.

 

Ohhhh!!!!!!! I am extremely vexed, that you are an very judgmental individual, but to no stirling surprise. Why would you assume I do not like women!?!? Oh!!!!! Is it because I do not kiss the arses of beautiful women, or better yet, you 'think' I am dead inside eh!? I like that one, women usually throw that one around for a "magic effect." Perhaps you will use a simile to describe it, better yet a metaphor, I like hidden meanings.

Then after your judgment, you state to hating reading my posts. Damn just when I was about to "tap that arse"......hate describes your state of mind WHEN you read my post, therefore, you can not be objective; just let it boil over into rage and you may find me irresistible.

 

Ohhh!!!! So I am a women hater now!? Damn.......just the other day I got called a "womenizer" whatever the hell that means. You only find my behaviour tedious because you can not prove me wrong otherwise. But you are right on account - men must earn 6 figure salaries, have a 9 inch member and be the sensitive jerk, just to keep you interested over the long term whilst you sit there are enjoy the ride. How is that equal Miss B!? How about you bring more to the table!?