Learning How to Pick a Good Husband

Fellas, Fellas, Fellas,....... 8)
I have to agree with everything that everyone has said, but there is hope!!!!

The U.S. accounts for only 4% of the entire world. :shock:

Women from abroad (outside the U.S.) tend to have a firmer grasp on what is important in life, not all though, just in general. I know that we all like white women and all, but don't limit yourselves to just U.S. white women or white women in general....please don't crucify me for saying that :shock: the reason why I say it is as follows:

As pretty and as fine as I am...... (AND YOU KNOW THIS MAN 8) ) I know that I (and other minorities) will always be considered to be nobodies, scum, and trash by this society.

When the media says that only caucasian people are beautiful, I have learned that finding someone to love me (or even like me) in a genuine manner is hard as hell just because I am not white, but nonetheless, it happens....... And it is not always by white girls that I am liked by. I suspect it is the same for a lot of you fellows out there.

The U.S. in on its way to hell in a handbasket anyway as far as value judgements, common sense decision making, and anything that is just. OOPS :shock: Did I say that out loud? Don't spank me for that one :wink:

What is the moral of the story? Don't limit yourselves to the typical white girl (who may not like you anyway), and don't limit yourselves to these women who don't even have it together themselves, but expect you to have it all. I am on a schedule right now so I will add more to this later.....

 

nilan, with all the respect in the world for you bro, what does this have to do with what we were talking about? we have talked many many times about women from abroad and most of us have dated women from abroad, at least I have many many times. but the issue was about ww only date black men who listen to hip hop and rap, and the fact that that is not true.

 

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Strange indeed, This is what happens when you try to multitask one too many tasks, I think I had a brain fart and got misguided about the main issue, my bad.....I will try to come back later after dinn dinn (diner for those of you who don't know what dinn dinn means. :wink:

 

Where do the stereotypes leave us all?

I agree with you on all fronts, Tuck.

Where do these stereotypes leave bm like me or ww who are well educated, well rounded, well spoken and well behaved, but like "black" music such as Hip Hop and R & B, can play all types of sports such as basketball from childhood and can dance the night away?

 

right where they are friend. If they like it, so be it, that is great. But that wasnt the issue, rather it was said that all WW who date BM like only that kind of music, which isnt at all true.

but of course there are WW who do like that music and like bball and there is nothing wrong with it. I love college bball myself

 

I was not saying that ALL WW who date BM love all that. I was saying what some people told me. Personally, i am not interested in white girls who are way into all of that. Do not get me wrong, if they like it passionately and have always had an interest in it, im cool with it and am always open. But if she "likes" it just to be down; i am sure we both know about white girls who braid their hair, use excessive street lingo, use the "n-word" and all that just to be "down" or impress me, i am just turned right off. I cannot stand such. If i wanted such attitudes, i'd turned to someone who espouses them. I love "Jessica, Keely and Becky" if you like :lol: :lol: not such fake Shaniqua and La Shontae :lol: :lol:

 

cris, i dont think i was addressing you bro

 

I know. I was just putting that out to clarify what i initially meant.

 

It really gets me how some brothas will assume that just because a white woman isn't into 'black stuff' that she isn't into black men also. I guess some people don't read body language too well, now do they? :roll: :wink:



and, if a white woman feels the need to act stereotypically black around me just to impress me, then I would have to assume that she wants to drive me away, because THAT would be the result of it.

 

Like i said previously, i know a lot of people who believe that. Even i used to when i was much younger. But i then thought of it this way; if a white woman did not like "black" things, it just might not be her preference just as there are some blacks who do not like those things. Besides, there are white women(or should i say women) who do "black" things but will never make the mistake of dating a black man eg. Britney Spears, Gwen Stefani, Fergie, Lindsay Lohan; i think we see what i am getting at.

Exactly. If i wanted that kind of person, i'd go right ahead for her.

 

Very good points considered.