Marriage between whitewomen and blackmen

I'd like to here some opinions about making the relationship long-lasting. Or I'd better step out from a with u without u marriage?

 

I'm not sure I understand your question....

But long relationships stem from love, respect, freedom and forgiveness.
Forgiveness sometimes equals forgetfulness.

 

Me neither.

 

As far as this is concerned...the same stuff applies and doesn't change based on the fact that it is a black male/white female relationship.


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Lets face it, a lot of marriages do not last these days. not like the days of our parents/grandparents. This has nothing to do with race, but the fact that many people get out, rather than work through problems. Its pretty sad.

An IR marriage will have an extra set of obstacles because of prejudice.. however, I've also seen some very strong IR marriages.

Its what you put into it, (both parties) on how much success a marriage or relationship will have

 

Communication and mutual respect are the keys to making a relationship work. Love doesn't hurt either.

 

Yep what they said.

 

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Marriage doesn't last as long because the playing field has changed...

Women weren't accepted into the workforce largely until the late 60's. That means they can fend for themselves and aren't dependant on males. That also means they can afford to get out of relationships when they aren't happy.

Western Culture is flawed when it comes to choosing a partner, what you need to do is work around the flaws.

Which means -

Identify your needs, not your desires. Those are secondary

Don't be scared of people callin you shallow or whatever. If you need your wifey to look like porn star or even be a porn star, so be it. Its your life, nobody can live it for you.

Once you understand what your needs are, the window clears and it becomes alot easier to find the one you need to be with.

That means you'll invest the time into the relationshop.

You also never stop courting your wife. You need to make her feel special and important at all times. Being a good listener and attentive is important, that goes for both sides.

If people were more selective, there would be less divorce. Don't be affaraid to turn that hoe into a housewife because to be FRANK, nice girls don't fuck like bad girls do and if you NEED that in your life, then you need to make it work...

That's being HONEST, REAL FUCKIN TALK...