Do you like women who goes all out to make sure you have everything you wanted even if it makes her go broke? Do you like being pampered to your every need? Would you rather a women be strong and independent or total attention to you? Be truthful..........
I'd rather eat dirt than ask my woman or anybody else for a nickel. I like busy women..women that have shit to do than just stay snuggled under me all day. I need LOTS of space.
Okay, so I'm a woman, but I'll answer this anyway. If a man I was with expected me to give up my entire life to tend to him, well, let's say that the relationship wouldn't last very long. I'm someone who needs to do her own thing every now and again, and have my own life. I expect the same from my man. I don't need him giving up his friends, hobbies, etc to tend to my every whim. I need space for "me" time. I would give him his "me" time, too.
I feel the same way about a man. I like them busy and interesting, and not dependent on me for endless entertainment. A balance of independent life and fun together is good for me. :smt052
lol. i don't like to fight, just the men i met needed way too much space. (like calling me 3 times in 4 months.... and don't say it's normal!).
I wouldn't say its all men. I DEFINITELY need a lot of space. I can't stand a man that's too clingy or needy. I want him to have his own stuff going on and not to be calling or texting me a few times a day. I also don't want to see a lot of him ... I get very claustraphobic and I tend to pack it in if there's too much attention or attachment I should say.
Only calling 3-4 times a month is not what I meant by needing a lot of space. I just like busy women.
I've been on my own and taking care of myself all my life (well, at least since college). I have the toughest time accepting any shape or form of help or favor, and I get the feeling some women might have a tough time with me because of that......'cuz correct me if I'm wrong, ladies......I'm guessing a number of you do wanna pamper and nurture your man some kinda way from time to time. In the words of a wise man (some of you might know him too, by the way): "Ooh there's something about, (the) kinda woman that want you but don't need you...."
I'd have to say NO to all of your questions. One of the reasons I like American white women is because some of them LOVE being a woman. They have that down to a science almost. Some of them can be strong and independent but knows how to grow with a man, learn his particular likes and wants. Eventually learns how to satisfy his every want and need but doesn't louse who SHE is in the process. Those are the kind of women that makes it hard to live without them.
Why must everything be so extreme? Is it too much to ask for a woman that knows when to be "independent" (I'm starting to hate that word) as well as "nursing"?
"I am her god" is not exactly the traditional system of beliefs. The traditional system is the husband and wife, both God's humble servants, worshipping Him together. As the apostle wrote... the married man is concerned with how to please his wife... and the married woman is concerned with how to please her husband.
I think that a lot of women proclaim themselves to be (and are) independent and can still be nurturing and soft with their partner. Independence can mean self-supporting with a great career, emotionally stable on their own, and not reliant on someone else for survival. Yet depth is added to that independent woman's life with the addition of a loving and giving partner with whom she can spread her wings and find beautiful balance in her life. A balance of love and thriving success. I am defining success as achieving happiness, appreciation for each day lived, and joyously existing. So really Havoc, not everything is as extreme as it appears, lots of wonderful women are strong, independent and completely in love with their partners. We will bring them soup and blankets when they are ill, we will be their number one cheerleader when they are striving, we will support them when they need shoring up... In other words, we will encourage them to fly with us. :smt058
