More Getting to Know You

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by stiletoes, Aug 17, 2006.

  1. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- mixed drink-cosmopolitan specifically

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- night

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM-
    have 2 don't want more

    FIRST KISS- 15 years old at a school dance

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- having 2 great kids

    BIGGEST REGRET- cheating on my spouse

    FAVORITE OUTFIT- my little black dress

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- outer banks, north Carolina

    IDEAL DATE-
    Romance dinner followed by dancing

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- hang gliding

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- never say never and judge not lest you to be judged


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  2. JohnMP

    JohnMP New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- mixed drinks, cocktails, etc.

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- morning person

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM- no kids; not inclined though i'm flexible.

    FIRST KISS- i sooo don't remember :) i think i was 20 .... rather late in life :)

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- developing a strong career ... and maintaining deep ties with family.

    BIGGEST REGRET- not yet clear ... perhaps the story is still being written.

    FAVORITE OUTFIT- somewhere between casual and business casual. navy blue buttoned shirt + denim jeans + excellent euro-quality shoes

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- A little cottage on the banks of Casablanca, Morocco... or better yet, the Maldives.

    IDEAL DATE- Late night dancing (latin, pop, and ball-room), followed by a long walk along a large body of water with a fabulous conversationalist, followed by many hours of sex.

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- not as much as I'd like to do .... so far: I did a 30-ft dive in Bermuda

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- sticking to the fundamentals in life never fails you in the long run ... never judging other people ... appreciating with great sincerity the views and perspectives of other people ...

    Nice one Bosox.... You're a very interesting person.

    Alessandra: thanks for the compliments elsewhere ... Never quite got around to replying.

    JohnMP
     
  3. QSSassy

    QSSassy New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- Beer.. Beck's Light, Wine - Kendall Jackson Chardonnay, Mixed drinks.. hmmm.. Vanilla Vodka and Rootbeer.. OR Bacardi Limon and Tonic AND lemon and lime slices

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- definitely night

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM-have 3.. live on their own..

    FIRST KISS- 16

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- escaping a cult

    BIGGEST REGRET-not escaping sooner

    FAVORITE OUTFIT- garters, hose, high heels and sheer robe.. for those special occasions

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- Jamaica

    IDEAL DATE- Dinner and a walk along the beach

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- shhhh.. its a secret[​IMG]

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- Men come and go in a woman's life.. Don't mess up with your friends
     
  4. alessandra

    alessandra New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- Wine especially a nice Tuscan red

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- both early morning and late night...the afternoon is always a drag

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM-don't have any but i would like atleast 6 or 7....I come from a big family

    FIRST KISS- 5...I told him I would only kiss him once and it was behind our school near the jungle gym

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF-My singing voice

    BIGGEST REGRET-I don't have any regrets....maybe when I am older

    FAVOURITE OUTFIT- jean miniskirt, flirty top and red stilettos

    FAVOURITE VACATION SPOT- Italy is the best place period.

    IDEAL DATE- Italian soccer game

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- hmmm...gone to a place not speaking the language

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- Have faith in youself, follow your dreams, and carve your own way.
     
  5. designer

    designer New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- Water

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- Morning

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM-
    No kids but if/when I find the right woman – That could change.

    FIRST KISS- If I told you, you would not believe me.

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- Being a good person [I think I'm a good person]

    BIGGEST REGRET- Having regrets

    FAVORITE OUTFIT- Anything that is clean and fits.

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- Key West and the Bahamas

    IDEAL DATE-
    Dinner and the Theater or a nice picnic in the park. Yep – Picnic in the park number 1.

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- Flying Lessons

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- Be happy with yourself because you are all you have in the end.
     
  6. Chigirl

    Chigirl New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- It's a toss up between Red Wine (Syrah) and Chocolate Martini

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- morning

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM- don't have any and not sure if I want any

    FIRST KISS- about 15

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- moving to a foreign country to satisfy my curiosity and work on my career

    BIGGEST REGRET- not always expressing my true feelings

    FAVORITE OUTFIT- any wrap dress

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- So far Hawaii, I want to visit Mauritius

    IDEAL DATE-
    Dinner at a loungy/ cozy place where we talk so much we would almost forget to eat followed by Salsa dancing.

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- I am not a very adventurous person so I can't really think of anything

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- everything happens for a reason and no matter how much you worry or fret, everything will work out in the end.[/b]
     
  7. Moskvichka

    Moskvichka New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK: Polish beer called Zywiec

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON: morning

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM: not yet but want 2 or 3

    FIRST KISS: 18 years old with the hot Korean guy from school who was my "boyfriend" for 2 weeks!

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF: actually... just being okay after a lot of difficult things I went through throughout my life

    BIGGEST REGRET: not graduating college

    FAVORITE OUTFIT: feminine dresses

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT: Russia, when I have money to burn there!

    IDEAL DATE: a good club and dancing all night long

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE: married interculturally

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE: in the words of my role model the late scientist Sakharov, from my memory "science is contradictory, as social life of today itself is contradictory, and the lesson of Einstein is that the way to deal with these contradictions is to follow moral standards, we may make mistakes, but must be ready to subordinate all our actions to these moral values"
     
  8. Eyvah

    Eyvah New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- Beer or wine

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- night


    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM- Don't have them, but do want them when I'm older

    FIRST KISS- 14

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- I Packed my bags (last year) after I finished high school, and I went backpacking with a friend in Australia and Thailand for 6 months

    BIGGEST REGRET- Not changing some of my bad habits

    FAVORITE OUTFIT - Jeans with a cute shirt. and my All stars

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- France (because I always used to go there with my parents), Greece, Thailand. I want to go to: Africa (esp. south Africa), South- America, Egypt, New-Zealand, China, and many many more.... and maaaaybe America someday...to do a road trip.

    IDEAL DATE-
    hang out at home, watching movie and after that go clubbing in the city.

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- Being threatened with death by a Welsh drug dealer, Doing voluntary work with HIV-infected children who didn't speak any English (Both in Thailand)

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE - You have your life in your own hands.
     
  9. kinkygal

    kinkygal New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- A nice red definately - a sparkling shiraz

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- Morning then later on at night!


    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM- Have 2 already - boy of 5 and girl of 1 and do want more!!!

    FIRST KISS- 10

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- Raising my kids and putting values and principles in to them.

    BIGGEST REGRET- Not seeing the man I loved for what he really was

    FAVORITE OUTFIT - full length slinky dress i wore for my sisters wedding

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- Anywhere I can hear the sea crashing against the rocks!

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- Went working in Dubai when I was younger as an air hostess

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE - What goes around comes around!!
     
  10. kenny_g

    kenny_g New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- Mixed Drink (But only drink occasionally)

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- both

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM- 1

    FIRST KISS- 9, behind the school.

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF-My family

    BIGGEST REGRET- too many to name, I just let things go now adays.

    FAVOURITE OUTFIT- I rock blue jeans and a white "TEE"! and some times
    a black "Tee"

    FAVOURITE VACATION SPOT- Miami

    IDEAL DATE- Football game (Remember this is from a guy's perspective.)

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- Sports, rollercoasters
    nothing out there.

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- Look deep, before you leap (Into relationships)
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  11. Pinnacle23

    Pinnacle23 New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- Unsure

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- Night person all the way

    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM- Don't have them, don't know if I want them or not

    FIRST KISS- Kindergarden during nap time. Actually, it was a make-out session that lasted at least a good 30 minutes. We were laying face-to-face with our bodies facing the opposite directions. I don't remember how old I was exactly. Not to cause a stir, but a quick and interesting tidbit about that experience: the girl I was making out with was white, and we were taddled on by a black girl who oversaw us. It wasn't at all a race issue, but a curious coincidence.

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- Creating my 30-year financial plan to become one of the wealthiest, most successful individuals in history and beginning to build a legacy and a fortune that will last for generations.

    BIGGEST REGRET- Not doing the above sooner

    FAVORITE OUTFIT- On me or a woman? :D ...The latter is a whole lot more exciting to share. I don't really have one for me.

    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- Haven't traveled enough to have one

    IDEAL DATE- A romantic day leading into a romantic evening. All the traditional/classic romantic events and experiences peppering the day with some contemporary and inventive stuff mixed in. This one is wide open for me

    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- Diving off a giant waterfall 10 times and doing a different flip or manuver each jump

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- No more effort is required to reach higher in life, to demand abundance and prosperity, than is required to accept misery and poverty.

    Napoleon Hill
     
  12. Bryant

    Bryant New Member

    BEER, WINE, OR MIXED DRINK- Hmm....what about gatorade??? I'm just kidding. :lol: On my sixteenth birthday, my brother gave me a tiny sip of beer, and i spit it out, but nothing even resembling alcohol since then. I'm more of a juice person myself you know.

    MORNING OR NIGHT PERSON- Definitely a night person. I can't fall asleep until 2 or 3 a.m.


    HAVE KIDS OR WANT THEM- I definitely want kids one day!


    FIRST KISS- I think i was either twelve or thirteen.

    WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENT ARE YOU THE MOST PROUD OF- Averaging at least a 3.5 gpa in college for the past 2 1/2 years.


    BIGGEST REGRET- Not being more active in junior high and high school. I basically just completely wasted those years away. :(

    FAVORITE OUTFIT- I like wearing my bucks jersey, and shorts, but mainly just a black t-shirt and some blue jeans.


    FAVORITE VACATION SPOT- somewhere in california or florida.

    IDEAL DATE- going to a theme park. riding go cars, getting on roller coasters, and just having a relaxed, non-pressure filled time. 8)


    MOST ADVENTUROUS THING YOU HAVE DONE- I don't know that i've had any crazy adventures. Sorry :(

    BEST LESSON LEARNED IN LIFE TO DATE- do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I basically treat people how i myself want to be treated, and that's it. I seriously do live by that....i really do.

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