As stated in the Basic Guidelines for the site (see quote below), personal ads are not to be posted in the forums. You need to go to the Personals and place your ad there. Please refer to the first post in this thread for the complete Basic Guidelines for the site. Thank you.
http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/personals.php
- Do not post a personal ad in the forums. This site has a personals area where you can post your personal ad for free. We would like to keep the forums and the personal ads separate. You can enable email and IM options in your profile for others to contact you through the forums directly.