Personals: What in the World Are Married Women Doing There?

I wonder what in the world married women are doing posting in the personals section. There was one woman who specifically said that although she's married, she just can't help giving it up to a black man. Personally, I would never get involved with a married woman. It's a line that I just can't cross. I still believe in the sanctity of marriage. I know a good number of black men who've had affairs with married, white women and I don't think that helps our image at all. Why play with fire? But then again, it's unfortunate that many people these days in the United States just seem to be getting married for the sake of it...without taking a moment to stop and think for a minute about what marriage really means and the sacrifices and responsibilities that come with it.

 

They are there for one thing only: shopping for BBC!

Personally, I think it's awful and degrading, but as long as everyone involved is happy with the situation, it's really none of my business.

 

that is the sad and sick part of the personals. they just see black men like slaves, whom they like to be physical with, often times due to stereotypes, but would not date or marry.

I know some folks like that or accept that but I think that is racist.

try to ignore those foolish women and just see the nice women

 

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****Thinks Ugly Duckling Syndrome****

 

Agree, that entire lifestyle is wrong on so many different levels in my opinion.

Another thing that I can't understand is the black men who participate, especially if the husband wants to watch. I really would like to know what it is. Is it a power thing or the exact opposite and they like to be degraded as a sex-slave?

 

amen, i agree with you chi, what kind of man lets another man watch him having s with his wife? sick

 

I think everyone in here has already made it loud and clear what that shit is all about.

 

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I agree that is some pretty sick stuff.I also would never sleep with a married women or participate in some let my husband watch with a videocamera in the corner crap.

 

i dont understand it either. It seems that they want to have their cake(married to a white guy for the money) and eat it too(have a black male sex slave). can anyone say plantation?

 

well, I don't agree with it, but lets face it.. IR or not, personals have always been filled with some married ones who are looking for a fling. They just didn't used to tell you they were married.

 

I agree with everyone in here about this. I think it is gross. Marriage is a commitment. You make the choice to be commited when you take your vows. You have no right to look for someone outside your marriage. I think they are almost using their marriage status now as a way to attract men who don't want anything serious. While I disagree with it, I agree with Sassy it's their choice.

 

Unfortunately there are those who want only a fling and not someone 'available' so they have no fear of those who would want to cling on for more after a one night/short term fling.

 

It seems like you're already very familiar with this type of crap, Sassy.

 

just been around the block a few times...

I made the mistake once a few years ago of agreeing to just being friends with a guy I met off Yahoo personals (back when they were free) who was married.. but they never just want to be "FRIENDS" once they see you in person.. that's just to get in the door..

hell he showed up with a rose in his hand..

you think he was only looking of friendship even though he was married?

 

:idea: Hey if they're upfront & honest about just wanting to get their FREAK ON with a black man then I have no problems with it at all :wink:

 

Grade A black bull beef is in demand nowadays. Especially with the cuckold crowd, lol!

Peace.
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"There comes a time in the affairs of man when he must take the bull by the tail and face the situation." - W.C. Fields

 

:shock: :arrow: YOU DAMN SURE GOT THAT RIGHT>>>LOL!!! :wink:

 

I have a question too.....why are there married guys in the personals?

 

:idea: I guess looking for the same...some freak action on the side OR with the wifey. :shock: I'm SINGLE by the way... :wink:

 

too bad you live in Atlanta though