Playing the game

Do you "play the game" well?

Do you think it's necessary to play the game well? Or to even just play the game?

I've been told that I just don't play the game well. Ok so I think that's a good thing. Somehow I just don't see relationships as a game. The whole waiting to call for x number of days, or waiting for them to call us. All the bs that goes on...I don't know the rules nor do I care to.

Maybe I'm wrong...but I'm just not going to do it. For one thing - I don't have the time or the energy. Plus - what's the f'ing point really? I'd rather be honest and have them be honest...lay it out and get on with it.

 

I play the game well in the sense that I'm good at pretending I don't give a shit if a guy calls or not, when in fact I might really care and hope that he does. But that's mostly just because I'm a very busy person so it's pretty easy for me to put these things out of my head for enough time for the guy to wonder what it is he did wrong and why I'm not calling HIM :lol:

However if it's someone I really like then I think the whole thing is bs. Then I just go mad wanting things to be sorted quickly and for the games to be over so I can get to that blissful place of lying in their arms and having some serious fun 8)

 

I am way too old for those dating games too. And I agree - why not just be honest and straight forward? I don't get it..