Questions white people ask?

Northern whites have very strong preconceived notions of blacks but because they don't live around them...they're never able to have some of those stereotypes broken for them. If you rely on the nightly news and prime-time television to tell you about blacks....you'd be expected to have a pretty negative view. Yankees believe that because their ancestors didn't own slaves....they automatically get a pass to look down upon their southern neighbors. Many up north come from immigrant families who came in the last century and they have enjoyed a healthy amount of financial success.....they have a hard time understanding why they are wealthy while their black counterparts who have been here for much longer are struggling. They know that they benefit from white privilege...but it is hard to accept that....however the countless poor blacks you see up north are a constant reminder of the advantage.

Southern whites have come to terms with their biases and are often more likely to be blunt when discussing their beliefs. They are more willing to live next to and go to school with blacks and consequently learn more in the process. This doesn't apply to all whites from there but a sizable segment. Their attitudes make more sense because many of them have Confederate ancestors so their pride in the antebellum way of life is understandable....I don't agree with it but I understand. Southern whites often resent northerners because they feel the Yankees give them a bad name while acting just as racist as anyone.

Midwestern folks can be VERY racist....probably more than anyone. They have some of that southern influence with northern indifference. I'd much rather go to school in an all white school in Birmingham, Alabama than in Cincinnati, Ohio. Midwesterners seem to be the rudest of all people....maybe they can be nice...but I don't sense it. Southerners are polite and northerners keep to themselves but midwestern whites can be opinionated and obnoxious. Women from this region often have the most skewed perceptions of black men....they lust after brothas the most (some just like BM, but many from here are just into the big dick)....these ladies think any BM should be happy to have them. Northern and Southern WW tend to go after BM who are a match looks wise for them but midwestern WW think they deserve BM who are way out of their league.

Out west...well those folks are racist but their ideas are more tied to White Nationalism....they hate everybody...but because these people are so secluded...no one knows what they think. Montana, the Dakotas, Idaho, Oregon, Utah, Colorado, even California....hide a lot of white supremacists who truly believe that this is THEIR country and that everyone should go back to Africa, or Latin America, or Asia. These whites tend to be more concerned with their "purity" than anything and they are often the ones who think there should be 'White History Month' etc. They are similar to whites in the northeast only they have better tans. Western whites can appear really friendly but they are sort of like a German Shepherd dog.....can be really kind but can also but a chunk out of your arse. Remember...this is the land of Rodney King, the Watts Riots, Kobe-Gate etc. Many whites out west have strong ideas about black folk but because they live in relative isolation from other blacks...their ideas never get tested....many are not hardcore racists...they just think they are.....it starts early with them though...have y'all heard of the white nationalist singing group 'Prussian Blue'....they have 13-yr old. blonde girls singing about white pride....another set of minds gone to waste.

 

jx and chosen, man you guys have your fingers on the pulse of the truth yall!!

 

a stupid question by whites to me: how can a black man be a conservative republican??

and I ask them, how is it that a white liberal can live in all white neigborhoods?

how can a white liberal tell their daughter they cant marry a bm?

because they think we are suppose to skin and grin because ted kennedy is the big daddy and we should be grateful darkies

but they can do and say what they want.

 

another question: why do black men oggle womens butts??

hmmm, cause they are nice?


how come they think when a black man turns his head and makes a comment on a woman, we are over sexual, and animals

while Italian, spanish and latin men do it and they are sexy and latin lovers.

 

I am very impressed by your post, TheCHosenOne. You are definitely the chosen one for thread

 

That's so true.

 

Thanks....I should write a book... 8)

 

Its because black men are the scapegoat. It seems like white people in this country find all the other races as tolerable. But when a black person does something then we are all at fault. That has alot do with the black people gaining more power.Black people threaten the majority on so many levels and it keeps growing each year.

 

Very true. Many black Americans are finally starting to create their own businesses. Much of which is coming from entertainment. But if more black Americans could run their own establishments like the city of Atlanta, maybe then could we see better things as a whole for the country.

 

Not just own businesses but also climb the professional executive ladders.Black enterprise is a great publication if you want to know more.

 

SoCal and Jx you guys are both right, but so many blacks are beholden to the democrat party who believes that the government knows best how blacks should live and to play the victim that we dont get the positive message of doing "for ourselves".

I am older than you guys, and back when I was a kid we had many black businesses, teachers, executives and sadly the wrong type of integration policies killed alot of what we built. the state of the black family in 1965 according to the (D) patrick moynihan is worse in some ways for blacks now. because more black men are not encouraged to educate themselves but to hate themselves and love imprisonment, drugs, the thug life, and irresponsibility. according to recent studies there are more black men in prison than in college in this country and that is a shame yet black so called leaders do nothing about this.

we have white people caring more for our own people than we care for our own. it is whites who are creating jobs for blacks--most black business hired less than 3 percent of all black in t he labour market.

 

Honestly, I don't know what to add to all of this, fellas. I'm speechless, and impressed.

 

Not all democrats are bad. Check out what kwame jackson from apprentice is doing along with other blacks. Thats a black person alot of other blacks should learn from. Also Randal Pinkett from the apprentice. I don't know their affiliation to parties but they are some great businessmen. People don't realize how many black businessmen/women/entrepreneurs are out there. They get force fed crap from the media.

 

Well, there it is. The truth.

 

Do you guys have to wash your hair?

a woman who thought she was the most liberal thing in the world because she lived in a black neighborhood and was lesbian, made one of the most ignorant statements to me.

in a group that was trying to break down racial barriers and unite people, she was talking and while she was saying something about poor black people, she looked at me and out loud in the group said, "tucker, isnt that true? you grew up in the ghetto and experienced that right?"

I looked at her angry at first and was about to say something, and my girlfriend, who was white, said to her, "what are you talking about he has never been to a ghetto! the closes he has been to a ghetto was off campus housing at University or working with poor mexican kids in a barrio". I turned to her and thanked her for understanding and the woman's mouth dropped and she couldnt say anything to me.

but once White liberals find out that YOU(a black man is not a charity case or a project they can work on) then they avoid you like the plague. NO, not all democrats are bad, but they are not any better than conservative republicans either.

 

lol yeah that is most common thing though, "your black right is boyzndahood accurate?" lol like all black in the United States come from "the ghetto". Its amazing, its like being black (or non-white hispanic) automatically gives you street credibility :roll:

 

I agree,tuckereed. I can't stand someone who thinks they are so tolerant and accepting. But then they try to stereotype you or treat you differently because of your race. I've never been in the ghetto either and I understand what you're talking about with some liberals.

 

Yeah, he does have a good point about the liberals, similar to mine about the IR dating/marriage thing I mentioned about the US white female ones, in one of Kid Rasta's threads.

 

Now i want to discuss a very controversial topic. I say controversial because a lot of people are going to disagree with me and more importantly, it would affect a few people on this site.

As much as i love white women and wish i could marry one, i have found out that some white FEMALES can sometimes ask the most retarded questions. White people in general have some really cretinous ideas and opinions but i have noticed that white girls have some of the most racist, bigoted and ignorant ideas of what blacks are like. Now i have many white females as friends so i am not making any analyses/observations from just one person.

Even yesterday, Mindy, a friend of mine, asked me the question, "Is it true that black men get erections from seeing blonde, blue-eyed girls like me"? What was my reply? No. But before i answer her, i gave her a long, blank look that depicted a feeling of shock and disgust. She got the message and smiled falsely and said, "It was just a question". The only thing i said was no and walked away. She saw that i was angry at that question so she tried calling me back. I ignored her and went home. She called me at 2.30am yesterday, much to the dismay of Eva :roll: , tried apologizing but i wasnt interested in talking so i cut her off. So this morning, she came waiting for me at work and the people-white dudes especially- were looking at me like i was going to rape her or something. You see, she could have just saved me that embarassment :evil:

I finally gave her my ears and she apologized, with a tear in her eye, telling me she didnt mean to offend me. She was going on about just having to butt out with a rude, ignorant comment like that and it wont repeat itself. Quite frankly, i stopped listening from that point because she isnt the first to think like that and certainly wont be the last. From that point, i stopped listening and just kept saying "yes, okay" nonchalantly to all she said. She has asked me silly questions similar to that like, "Is it true it is the fantasy of black men to fuck a white woman"? Good lord, what the medial can do

What do i have to say to all of this? Some white women are a lot more inclined to ask their bigoted questions towards black men because they are seemingly accepted amongst black men than their male counterparts. One day, i asked my friend Tracy, a BM, why white women are more inclined to ask us some foolish questions than WM. He believes that its because WM are socially and psychologically scared of BM so the ones who arent bold enough to be members of extreme groups find it hard to get clues to their silly ideas because they believe they'd get pulverized. He believes, on the other hand, that white women are more accepted than black women so when they blend in, they feel a certain inclination to do the things they wont do if they dont interact with blacks. Plus they know that BM wont hit them for asking racist questions based on reasons im sure any citizen of the damn USA can figure out for himself. Those were his humble opinions......

I agreed with him because i felt all what Tracy said. I pondered it for a while and came to see that he had a valid point. We both love white women but we came to realise that white women are the least media smart people in America and the most gullible. I find it really ridiculous that WW easily believe what they hear and see in the media. But i dont place the blame on them. I place it on the media and the parents. They are raised to believe all what they have in their heads so when they go out and see that it isnt all true, they keep wondering why and feel the inclination to ask to clear things up.

But hey, i state clearly this relates to white American women. The non-American white women i've dated, like the Greeks, Irish, Italians, English and Mediterranean women i dated dont feel this way about blacks the way white American women think. So whats my conclusion? America is a muthafreaking- excuse my language- racist bigoted country which presents a negative, harmonious image to individuals of other nations. To illustrate my point, you'd notice that when non-Americans come here and see that what they felt was present in America isnt, they say so and let it known that they believed America was a peaceful place and all.... Proves me right. Also, the way the media depicts black males as overtly sexual beasts looking to lash out on the next blonde haired, blue eyed gorgeous white woman is a focal point.If you take a good look at it, most cases of rape involving black men and white women never go uncovered. With other ethnicites it does but i can barely remember a bm-on-ww case that the police have not looked into or in worse circumstances, framed up a black man- think Kobe, Faber and the Colorado police?

After all of this, i would be open to other opinions and possibly criticisms from all of you which would be fairly accepted as i dont expect everyone to agree with me. But i want you guys to ponder what i have just written.

 

Ladeezmancris, I agree with most of what you said. I go to work taking the train everyday. It is funny whenever I look up (from reading) and catch a WW seriously analyzing me (this happens every day). It is like she wants to jump up and eat me alive! Anyway, whenever our eyes meet, these girls quickly look away as if they weren't looking at me to begin with.

The funny thing is that they expect me to keep starring at them. I never do this (even if the WW is really gorgeous). You should then see how she reacts. She tosses and turns just to make me look at her again. Being an expert at this sort of thing, I don't even flinch. I just totally involve myself in whatever I happen to be reading at the time. I could see the sadness on their faces as they step off the train. It is as though I have denied them of their birthright. I don't deny that I am attracted to certain WW. However I refuse to deal with anyone (even if she happens to be the last woman on the planet) who thinks she is a gift to mankind.


That being said, there is a girl I work with. She is white, blond with blue eyes (basically the stereotypical American girl). We basically share the same office. At first, she was very nice and we got along just fine. She would flirt and I would flirt back (conservatively of course).

I eventually settled in at work and started concentrating on my job. All of a sudden, I start getting major attitude from her. I am not a disrespectful person, so I know I didn't disrespect her in anyway. She would go out of her way to make conversations with others and totally ignore me. She would say good morning Mr a, Mr b, but will skip my name.

Being the mature one, I would say good morning to everyone, ask them how their weekends went and then immerse myself in my job. Instead of spending lunch time together with them, I simply go and have lunch with friends from other departments or just read my novel elsewhere. So now she doesn't even want to say hello whenever I say good morning.

To me this is too typical of girls that want or think they are entitled to attention. In my opinion, she thinks I should be going nuts over her. The truth is, I am basically indifferent to her. I remember she once asked me if I dated interracially and I said yes. I followed my answer by " I tend to be attracted to women with forest dark hair, green or dark eyes and curvy features often found in Italian women" (which was an honest response). I think she might have been hurt by that. Oh well, she need to get over it.