If your marriage is GOOD you are positive so i am not trying to stay positive, I AM positive . This is my second marriage and my fist was shit from the get go and I was a major league asshole because of that( i am a minor league asshole by nature though). I hated ma ex so much i was hoping she got hit by a bus or something, that's how bad it was so i understand the negativity after a crappy marriage. I got it good the second time and maan is it good especially as i am in my 40s and dont wanna be sniffing around for pussy and going through that dating shit and all the drama that comes with it. Good marriage makes you positive automatically so i aint trying bruh.
I've been around A LOT of divorced dudes and marriage doesn't seem worth it for most. You don't have to be married to spend your life with someone.
Nobody is saying you have to be married to spend your life with someone but saying marriage is not worth it when you haven't experienced it doesn't wash. Ask yourself this question, why would a divorced friend ever tell you that marriage is worth it? Hang around married guys and let's see if they will say the same then you might have a point.
No one is going to really tell you their marriage stinks or not. Look at those crime shows like scorn or something on channel investigation discovery. They always say they were the ideal couple and no one knew about their problems
I am not talking about strangers i am talking about married friends, your true friend will not hide his shitty marriage from you.
I don't know. I'm divorced, and while it takes two to tango... I freely admit that there's plenty that I could've (and should've) done better. It's one of those things that still hurts at times, but I know it's water under the bridge. While I may not remarry (still undecided), I do think marriage is a great thing and I encourage any couple who truly love each other (and ready for it) to wed.
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