Oh yeah! Those days of driving around to find a good spot. Then looking around to ensure no one is sneaking up on us while she has one foot on the dash and the other on the steering wheel. I had a couple of favorite places near the Bronx Botanical Gardens, Van Cortlandt Park, and Flushing Meadows Park.
A chuckle? It goes beyond that. If the woman he's with is a twit, or he doesn't do everything just right, it can go bad very quickly.
Only a mouthy black broad would escalate the situation. I've been pulled over with a white woman in the car, but it was because I actually did something (speeding) and took my medicine (ticket). These were the days before they started randomly shooting brothas, so I had no problem
Think about some of the instahoes and mouthy entitled twitty white girlies out there. It's a different time. I was talking with someone last week who said something about how he was with a ww who hadn't ever dated a Black man before (she was early 50s and had been married to a white guy all her life) and she was really nervous when they were out, looking all around with her eyes really big - deer in the headlights type thing, and a cop came up and did the whole - "Good evening, everything ok?" and she got even more nervous and was stumbling over her words. He handled the situation...was super polite and all and nothing happened. But he made the point of that it could have gone badly.
LOL that was his fault for dating a twitchy, old white broad LOL. Kind of a far cry from giving the officer lip, though. Philando Castile's girl wouldn't shut up and even started taping, and see where that got him
Yah he said it taught him to not be trying to get with a ww who had never been with a Black man again. LOL
I think the key here is the age. Most people in their 50s aren't really interested in being an experiment or going through all the bs that comes with being the first one to deal with it all. This goes back to the conversation about if men feel the need to be with women who are aware or not.
Ok, I understand it can become something serious if it involves authority. Not something I have personally experiences when with a BM. Nothing worse than bad looks from white guys who dont like the idea of a WW going home with a BM.