"The Thing About Black Men"

The article in the link below is a roundtable of various women’s views on dating black men in the UK. That is why they use such terms as 'Willy", "Bloke" and "Todger".


http://www.asianamag.com/magazine.asp?section=4&aID=59

BTW, since the article is from the UK, "Asian" = SE Asian and not Far East Asian

 

Some of those girls were so full of sh*t. I'm not saying that every woman has to be attracted to black men but when you say, "Oh, he's sexy or good looking but I'll never go out with him or sleep with him" it's got to make you wonder. Physical attraction is the precursor to dates and sex so what they really saying is they fear the social ramifications of being with black men. I bet if they saw an Indian guy who was attractive they would jump on him without question.

 

I thought the same thing as you diamond them women are tripping,I know of alot of east Indian women who date brothers here in the states.

 

I don't think what they said was all that bad when you look at it in context.
Plus they did not say anything new that we have not heard from other races.

In fact they were honest enough to say that the reason they would not date a black guy was due to societal pressure.

 

Not surprised by any of the responses of the girls. Asian girls are controlled strongly by their family and they won't step out and marry a brotha unless they know for certain they are going to get married. The families usually are ok with them dating BM in high school....i know that for a fact....but when it comes time for college....Asian parents (especially Indians) want their daughters to only be in relationships that could lead to a possible marriage....and they don't see BM as an option. A lot of Indian girls are physically attracted to BM but they are a little intimidated by the average brotha whereas most WW aren't really "intimidated".....which has more to do with the fact they've been around us longer. I don't hold it against Indian girls because with them and their families...often times the family will put up more of a fight if you date someone of a different varna or jati (caste) than they......the worst thing an Indian girl could do is bring home a Muslim.....a lot of them rebel at first but eventually after not being compatible with others they seek out someone who is not only Indian....but comes from the same caste and the same area of the country as well. They are really cool to be friends with...but don't waste your time with one unless she is willing to "shame" her family for you......theirs is a culture with more unwritten rules than we have written ones....if you're going to go Asian....try Vietnamese....maybe Korean....Chinese on a good day....but Japanese and Indian..... :smt018

 

I could just see it now, a family gathering of Asian people and then one black man steps into the room with one of the girls; it's so unreal. I can't say I know any BM that have experienced that situation. Now that I think about it, that's actually ironic that BM are more likely to be involved with WW and their families instead of Asian women.

 

Wow...actually I find these girls answers very interesting...they are being honest and one of them is even dating a BM!!

ChosenOne, Japanese girls are great and they love BM!! The new generation of Japanese girls is also very open-minded as opposed to the stereotype of the "closed" japanese society!

Chinese?????? man, they are as shy as some middle age nuns c`mon!!

Indian girls I just can`t stand the whole weight of religions ans cultures that always get in the way...

 

I personally have never met any Indian girl that I find attractive. I have hung out, studied with a couple, but have never thought beyond those lines.

 

I thought the women in the interview were for the most part upfront and honest. I would rather someone be clear on their preferences instead of being fake. The whole Mike Tyson Beckford mix-up was hilarious. I can just imagine the fearful look on that woman's face when she thought they were referring to Iron Mike!

Anyway, having said that it always feels a little weird when a woman of any race says that she just is not interested in a BM. I should not feel this way but deep down a part of me gets offended for a quick moment until I check myself. For example, I'm mostly interested in WW instead of BW yet every so often I run across a BW who is only interested in WM. At first I'm like "Whats your problem?" until it dawns on me that I'm not interested in her type either! Everybody has their preferences. I think the offense comes because no one wants/likes to be rejected...

B

 

I think what stings for a lot of people including BM is when someone doesn't find you desirable for reasons other than physical attraction. If a girl of another race looks at me and says "I'm just not attracted to you physically or personality wise".....to me that's OK....there is not much one can do about that....I think most BM can live with that. What's tough is when you know a girl finds you good looking and you know that your personalities mesh yet she would rather enter a relationship with a guy who has "lesser" qualities than you, because he shares her skin color. I don't mind a girl getting with someone who is a better fit for her or even a "better" guy....that at least makes sense. Of course if a girl is that foolish and malleable....maybe she is not a good option anyway.

 

What really stings me is when your personalities mesh and you KNOW for a fact is that if you werent black shed be all over you... I cant stand those types of WW..

So +1 for chosen

 

I also find that people who truly aren't attracted to BM just keep quiet about it. I feel as though the people who go out of their way to let you know they aren't attracted to BM are lying and are almost trying to convince themselves that they aren't attracted to your type.

Consequently, I seldom get mad, frustrated or even react to what Indian girls do. I know it sounds weird, but it would be rather difficult for an Indian girl to piss me off without doing something outrageous!

It is why I chose one as a study partner for the majority of my college days. It worked out pretty well.

I tried studying with a WW whom I found rather attractive. Needless to say it wasn't easy and I decided to study with the Indian girl instead. Molecular genetics was hard enough without the complication of a gorgeous face :lol:

 

i agree and not because I was ever unattracted to indian women, but because for the most part they are subservient to their culture and afraid to date outside their race ,esp with a black man.

 

It was one of the most retarded conversations anyone could ever come across, and the hypocrisy is blinding...

I guess all Asians being 'smart' goes out of the window now...

and, if those bitches think that being Asian is enough to make any black men want them, and that what they see on TV confirms it all, then they all might as well have sex with themselves or each other, since they can't get enough of the smell of their own asses.

 

Well, it seems that some of you men seem to think that Indian girls are the new "it" girls

http://www.telegraphindia.com/1060513/asp/look/story_6219647.asp

However, here is a quote of interest from article:

 

Good article, and personally, if I were interested in East Indian girls, then I wouldn't even be a part of this site.

 

Here is another I thought was funny:

OK, a stint in West Africa makes one have a preference for Asian women??? How would it sound if a woman said "After spending some time in Japan, I started liking Latino men." or "After spending some time in Iceland, I really have a thing for Arab men"

Just sounded weird

 

??? Boggles the mind, doesn't it? I guess the fakeness of the media's limelight was exposed to him during his travels. Everything isn't what it seems after all.

 

I've found women of South Asian descent to have a little too much body and facial hair, and having almost no body shape.

I'm not attracted to their personalities either, as they tend to be very timid and subservient.

On the other, The Asians from the Caribbean (Guyana, Trinidad, Jamaica) are a little more easy to deal with, and certainly not as timid around blacks as the ones from the subcontinent tend to be.

 

i think Indians, southeast asians, and other asian women as incredibly beautiful

hawaiians and polynesians are gorgeous