What does a modern woman want in her man?

thats called having Integrity or the lack there of. too many men have that moist behavior.

 

yeah in a rupaul kind of way

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sorry my computer restarted and somehow posted this twice :-x

 

trust is the most important thing. knowing that he will never leave you
i like when he is responsible and takes care of stuff, i don´t want to have everything on me. i like when he can take care of himself.
i like when he is romantic and i love, love, love surprises!
someone who is there, and takes care of you.
someone that doesn´t always sit at home but go out and lives life.
someone that is able to take care of him and you (even though i want to have my own career).
i like when he takes care of himself, takes showers, brushes his teeth and wears nice clothes.
someone that thinks positive and makes me smile a lot.
someone that doesn´t want to see me cry and is there for me, if.

 

Are dudes really expecting anything other than a long ass winded oxymoron?

 

REasy question

Respect, honor, integrity, independence, a sense of humour, and lots of great sex.

I have two hard & fast rules: don't lie to me, and never, ever raise your hand in violence against me. Everything else is negotiable.

 

Seems like a good philosophy to me

 

Not sure if I can be considered an all over modern woman (some of this New School stuff I am not a fan of) but here's what I like in a guy:

Honest and faithful: Truth may hurt sometimes,but finding out you've been lied to hurts a lot more,and lies usually come out.Plus I can't do my part on fixing things when I am not aware there even is an issue due to lies.So please honesty! and if he has emotional affairs or cheats physically there is no point even being with me either.

Communication/conversation: He should be able to put his thoughts into words and also enjoy conversations.Not to manipulate ,but to learn more about one another,and stay connected.

Some kind of intelligence: Doesn't matter if he is more book smart or rather blessed with common sense.However some kind of intelligence would be awesome

Humor: A sense of humor definitely can win me over.It's important to me to be able to laugh together.

Reliable: I would like to be able to rely on his word,and not see him break one word/promises after another. That is very disappointing and not helping a lot to build or keep trust alive.

Some interests in common: Not looking for a male twin version of myself,but a few things in common as a basis are necessary to me. And then being able to embrace one another's differences,as well.

Balanced: This goes for many things. Self confident (Not cocky,but not sinking in self pity either),seriousness(knows when to be serious,but also when some humor won' hurt),body wise (doesn't matter if he is a bit bigger,skinnier,or muscular as long as it doesn't go into an extreme),knowing when it's best to put his own needs or wants first,but generally not being a very selfish person... just to name a few examples.

Absolutely not violent and/or abusive: That's a big no-go. He should not ever abusive me physically or emotionally in any way.

Affectionate/a sense of romance: To me affection is very important. It doesn't always have to be sex.Sometimes a hug and just being cuddled up on the couch or holding hands are beautiful,too,and he should sometimes feel that way,too. And about romance.....I do not expect to be laid in a bed of roses,whatsoever,but a romantic side that comes out sometimes would be nice.

Not completely close minded: Having morals and ethics is perfectly fine and after trying something out and learning it's absolutely not your thing is understandable,too. However would be nice if he was not completely close minded and was open to experiencing/trying out new things. If this was a 50/50 thing of rather sticking to the known /being open minded that's good already .

Should love and accept me for who I am: Of course this doesn't mean to think of me as perfect,but knowing my weaknesses/imperfections and being able to still love me all together.

 

I would guess somebody with a job....

 

that integrity, big dick , big bank account and a big heart.

 

I'll take four out of five of the above, please.

 

LOL

 

he has to/ to be...

love life (I love having happy people around me!) To really appreciate little things and not get off track when something doesn´t work out the way it was wanted.

educated and intelligent. I love having good conversations. Talking about the world. A conversation can never get boring with someone that has world knowledge.

Sensitive/Non violent I love guys that understand the female mind. Some might call those guys softies- I call it marriage material. Agression and violence have nothing to do in a happy relationship!

Confidence. There is nothing more attractive than a guy being confident about himself and his life.

Someone that takes care of himself. BM hair grows fast, a visit to the Barber is something someone should not forget. Good clothes and a "clean" appearance is important to me.

A Family man. Yes, I want to have a big family someday! A man that loves kids and knows how to take care of them is important to me.

High Goals. A man that wants to achieve something in his life. Someone that works on his goal step by step and does not give up. Someone that knows how to organize his day and doesn´t need a second Mom. (There is a difference between someone dreaming big but not doing anything, that is a NO GO!).

 

sounds good to me:smt026