What is the interracial dating scene in Pittsburgh like compared to Charlotte?

[JoeCool931]

Reason I asked is because I have tried dating in Pittsburgh and really have had no luck at all when it comes to dating interracially. I don’t know if it’s because I am ugly and bad looking. I actually am afraid to post my picture on Lin since I feel someone will say something about me bad. I have posted my photo before on dating sites and always had negative feedback. I don’t really see any interracial couples in Pittsburgh don’t see too many brothas with other women of different ethnic backgrounds. I do like white women, Asian women, Indian women, Latina women, and would even date an Arab women. I am very open. I prefer athletic thick built women with natural booty, thighs, legs yes all the good stuff. Natural boobs too. I find it very hard to find natural nowadays I know I can’t tell people what to do but I encourage women not to go under the knife. You should accept who you are because you are beautiful even if you don’t think so. All I’m saying is charlotte what’s it like in terms of dating outside of your race for black men? Good or bad? I am not into any women smoking doing heavy drugs. Can you find plenty of women that don’t do that in Charlotte not into a lot of piercings and tattoos either. I prefer all that I described I know in the south most women are not really like thin built is this true I been to the south a few times and I haven’t seen any hot women yet lol. Maybe I didn’t go at the right time. Just wanted to know which city has the edge in terms of girls getting black men that are not black Charlotte or Pittsburgh? I like women who go to the gym who get their body in shape get thick naturally no plastic surgery it’s a total turnoff. Are their plenty of women like that in the Queen City that are white, Indian, Asian, Latina? I’m not trying to focus on the physical appearance of women since I often do that a lot I put that before personality. It took me awhile to think about now I know personality being nice always wins. Sorry I hope I wasn’t being inappropriate by describing what’s my type in a woman. I’ve never been kissed either and I’m in my 30’s it is quite embarrassing. That’s why I think I’m ugly.

 

[CAKicker]

Reason I asked is because I have tried dating in Pittsburgh and really have had no luck at all when it comes to dating interracially. I don’t know if it’s because I am ugly and bad looking. I actually am afraid to post my picture on Lin since I feel someone will say something about me bad. I have posted my photo before on dating sites and always had negative feedback. I don’t really see any interracial couples in Pittsburgh don’t see too many brothas with other women of different ethnic backgrounds. I do like white women, Asian women, Indian women, Latina women, and would even date an Arab women. I am very open. I prefer athletic thick built women with natural booty, thighs, legs yes all the good stuff. Natural boobs too. I find it very hard to find natural nowadays I know I can’t tell people what to do but I encourage women not to go under the knife. You should accept who you are because you are beautiful even if you don’t think so. All I’m saying is charlotte what’s it like in terms of dating outside of your race for black men? Good or bad? I am not into any women smoking doing heavy drugs. Can you find plenty of women that don’t do that in Charlotte not into a lot of piercings and tattoos either. I prefer all that I described I know in the south most women are not really like thin built is this true I been to the south a few times and I haven’t seen any hot women yet lol. Maybe I didn’t go at the right time. Just wanted to know which city has the edge in terms of girls getting black men that are not black Charlotte or Pittsburgh? I like women who go to the gym who get their body in shape get thick naturally no plastic surgery it’s a total turnoff. Are their plenty of women like that in the Queen City that are white, Indian, Asian, Latina? I’m not trying to focus on the physical appearance of women since I often do that a lot I put that before personality. It took me awhile to think about now I know personality being nice always wins. Sorry I hope I wasn’t being inappropriate by describing what’s my type in a woman. I’ve never been kissed either and I’m in my 30’s it is quite embarrassing. That’s why I think I’m ugly.

1st off, Never think you're ugly. I think the daqti8ng atmosphere has changed. I'm in the same boat not having kissed since 1999. I always feel like dating is supposed to fun & now it's turned to a Business job. What I'm going to do is not approach women as looking for a girlfriend right away, just talk to them & enjoy their company. You might want to buy some books on body language. You probably had some women interested in you, you just didn't know it. Good Luck

 

[JoeCool931]

1st off, Never think you're ugly. I think the daqti8ng atmosphere has changed. I'm in the same boat not having kissed since 1999. I always feel like dating is supposed to fun & now it's turned to a Business job. What I'm going to do is not approach women as looking for a girlfriend right away, just talk to them & enjoy their company. You might want to buy some books on body language. You probably had some women interested in you, you just didn't know it. Good Luck

Thanks I really appreciate the kind words. Yes it’s been really hard for me I just feel like time is running out for me because I am at a certain age I don’t know. I was just curious since I am not far from Pittsburgh I’m in Youngstown Ohio I go to visit Pittsburgh alot and I really never see any interracial pairings. It’s frustrating. No black guys with white girls, black guys with Asian girls, or black guys with Latina girls. I even tried friending young women in Pittsburgh and they’ve blocked me. One didn’t accept my friend request then I tried friending her again to ask a second time is it ok that we can be friends on here? I am just trying to be friendly. So this same girl I friended the first time and got rejected now she blocked me for a second time. I am a little embarrassed by this. I have gotten rejected more by friending girls in Youngstown OH and Pittsburgh PA and yes they are mostly white, I haven’t tried friending Asian or Latina girls though. I am a black guy but when I friend a black girl she accepts. This one white girl accepted my friend request but she has a black boyfriend. I just wanted to know what’s it like in the Queen City with interracial couples. I like the city I’ve been their once and saw no black guys with white women, black guys with Asian women, black guys with Indian women or Latina women. Maybe I just didn’t see the whole charlotte metro area I’m assuming it’s a little bit bigger than the Pittsburgh Metro Area?

 

[JoeCool931]

What would you say the dating scene is like in Charlotte, NC in 2026? In terms of interracial dating for black guys? Yes I am in Pittsburgh still and haven’t found any luck success with finding an interracial date. Is it the city that I am in or is Charlotte worse in terms of other races accepting you to go on a date?

 

[orejon4]

What would you say the dating scene is like in Charlotte, NC in 2026? In terms of interracial dating for black guys? Yes I am in Pittsburgh still and haven’t found any luck success with finding an interracial date. Is it the city that I am in or is Charlotte worse in terms of other races accepting you to go on a date?

I wish I had some insight to offer, JoeCool931. Unfortunately, the last time I was in Charlotte was in the mid-90s and I was traveling with a then-girlfriend who had lived there previously, so I didn't get to experience the dating scene per se.