Hellspawn
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I live in a mid-sized town called Peoria, IL. About 3 hrs from Chicago.
http://www.peoria.com/community/peoria_demographics.php
The demographics have it at about 28.7% black, 65.1% white.
I looked around at the "best/worst place" topics, but I never really found something that was really substantial, except for MD areas. I'm looking for info on the midwest, especially, but I won't reject it from anywhere else. That said....
I've had my experience with interracial dating. In fact, that's all the experience I've ever had. But I've come to really notice that only certain kinds of women are attracted to me - from my perception at least. Maybe my game's a bit off and I'm going for the wrong thing, but I can't get around the idea that the city has that demographic and I don't see more dating going around. This could be due to a lot of things anyway.
I'm just not keen to the idea the only white gals that are attracted to me are big girls (I really like curvy bbw girls so that's not a dis to my larger women - they just weren't the ones I wanted), or the type who has to act in a stereotypical fashion to act like she's "down" (i.e. getting into verbal/physical altercations all the time, repetitive use of "niggaz this, niggaz that").
The question I want to ask is this: Is there a real quality for a place that is ideal for interracial dating? Is it the demographics? The history of the town? The nightlife? Expectations of couples in general?
If any of this is unclear, I'll certainly try to clear it up.
http://www.peoria.com/community/peoria_demographics.php
The demographics have it at about 28.7% black, 65.1% white.
I looked around at the "best/worst place" topics, but I never really found something that was really substantial, except for MD areas. I'm looking for info on the midwest, especially, but I won't reject it from anywhere else. That said....
I've had my experience with interracial dating. In fact, that's all the experience I've ever had. But I've come to really notice that only certain kinds of women are attracted to me - from my perception at least. Maybe my game's a bit off and I'm going for the wrong thing, but I can't get around the idea that the city has that demographic and I don't see more dating going around. This could be due to a lot of things anyway.
I'm just not keen to the idea the only white gals that are attracted to me are big girls (I really like curvy bbw girls so that's not a dis to my larger women - they just weren't the ones I wanted), or the type who has to act in a stereotypical fashion to act like she's "down" (i.e. getting into verbal/physical altercations all the time, repetitive use of "niggaz this, niggaz that").
The question I want to ask is this: Is there a real quality for a place that is ideal for interracial dating? Is it the demographics? The history of the town? The nightlife? Expectations of couples in general?
If any of this is unclear, I'll certainly try to clear it up.