What makes a good conversaiton?

What makes a good conversation? It depends on your taste. The best things to talk about are simply i.e. things you find interesting. Some topics I like are outdoor sports, music, western t.v. shows, brain teasers, places of interest in the U.S.A. just to name a few. You may find a topic of great interest. The person you are talking with may not find it interesting and simply tunes you out. What do you do to get things on track? If you cannot talk with a person then it is safe to say that you are not going to enjoy yourself when you are in the presence of that person. Getting things on track may not happen. This is why it can be an excellent measure of the quality of your relationship with someone if you can communication with the person well.

So, find a good conversation and maybe just maybe you're on to something wonderful.

 

Good Conversation.

Good conversation builds good relationships.Undoubtedly so.It's the cornerstone of nearly all long term relationships.I vote "yes" on your poll.

 

Good question. I vote yes, conversation builds the relationship beyond sex and the initial physical attraction. If I had to choose what I want to survive the longest in my relationshil I would say being able to just talk to each other is the most important.
As far as WHAT makes a good conversation I would say anything that gets the convo going. It depends on the mood that day and what you feel like. Might be politics and social issues one day and the next day we talk about Grey's Anatomy and why Izzy needs a man. LOL

 

Without a doubt!!!!

Communication is why we are here today.

I think most problems stem from miscommunication or a plain lack of communication.

Think about what we say too:
“She was easy to talk to”…. “We’re on the same level”…. “We just have a connection. Like we speak the same language”

I think it’s clear.

 

Oh, I'd like to add good communication is also knowing when to shut up and then for the other not to take it the wrong way when it's quiet in the house.
I don't think the major issue is always lack of communication (hell we all talk enough don't we??) I think the biggest issue we human beings and men and women in particular tend to have is the quality of communication, perception, mind already made up type of situations. When I am in a bad mood I will hear you different compared to when I am in a good mood. One day I hear your statements as advise the other day you may say the same thing and I feel judged and lash out at you.
We all have very different communication styles based on our culture, upbringing, past experience in relationships and personality. Simply saying we need to talk more doesn't cut it. It's a minefield we are wandering through and one can hope that chemistry and sensitivity are with us to manage going through it.

 

Sometimes the ability to enjoy comfortable silences is key. Ever been with someone kind of nervous (or been that way yourself) who just keeps talking? It's exhausting.

But yes, the ability to communicate is THE key.