What physical flaws/characteristics do dislike in a partner?

Is there something that when you see in a potential partner, puts you right off them? I'm not talking about bad attitude or bad breath, but purely physical stuff - such as hairy legs on a woman or hairy arse on a man.

Personally I dislike very hairy backs on men (and on women too!) but I've not seen many bm with that problem. I'm also not a fan of nasal hair.

 

I didn't really go for hairy men but my ex was very, and it didn't bother me at all. I don't really like blond hair/blue eyes on a man, and they definitely have to be tall, anything shorter than me (about 5ft 10) looks simply ridiculous, I have had flings with short men in the past but i always feel silly next to them.

 

Physical: I dont have anything, beside maybe too skinny or obesity, unhealthy bodies,

I dont mind hairy legs or underarms, guess I dated many germans and hippies in my time and dont mind a nature girl

 

OK, so you don't mind hairy legs and arms on your women, but is that just in private? For example, if you were taking a lady out to a posh do and she wore a dress that revealed her armpit and leg hairs for the world to see, then how would you feel about it?

 

I’m turned off by thin lips and the unibrow. I dislike hairy backs too. However, I sometimes like people’s imperfections or what others may call flaws. I like a person’s uniqueness, like a large or crooked nose, a birthmark or scar. I often find beauty in the obscure, lurking in the shadows, wabi sabi.

 

Iffey:usually the hippies women and lefties that i used to date and who had hairy bodies are not into the posh events which I attend. they found them elitist or too fantasy and against their politics. But, if she was comfortable with her body in places like that, I would have no problem with it. lots of women from lower social-economic classes and heavy set women too feel out of place often at posh events. that doesnt bother me though, as long as they fill comfortable in their skin.

I try to not look at the outside really, but she should be clean, healthy living and positive about life

 

if i could see someone had a hairy back, i wouldn't go over at all. other than that I'm easily pleased i suppose!

characteristic-wise i don't like lack of affection.

 

You've described accurately how I feel at those type of things, never so comfortable as I am doing ordinary things, or particularly outdoorsy things like walking up a mountain!

 

yes, me too. I am not really into too many posh parties, except the odd fundraiser for non profit orgs and the environment, or political campaign parties. I like country dances, going to film fests, farmers markets, summer music festivals, art museums and gallery openings, and going to the fun local ethnic restaurant.

but i am happy going on a snowy sleigh ride through the woods, hiking in the mountains and camping in the forests, kayaking on the rocky coast, trout and salmon fishing, going to the dog trials, and sheep/wool festivals, reggae and latin/carribean/african/gullah/scottish/chinese cultural festivals. going to the beach for surfing, birding, or going skiing, coffeehouses and going for tea, sport matches and sport, travelling, trekking and horse racing

so she doesnt have to be a fashion girl or into posh events, i like them down to earth really. martha stewart type

 

Women that are taller than me. I just can't see myself looking into her eyes, reaching up to put my arms around her neck, and tip-toeing to kiss her. Throw in muscular ones too.