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hello there, very glad to have come across this forum. i am happily single but actively involved in swinging and dating in the I-4/beachline corridor of central florida. throughout the years, white men are holding less and less interest for me. most of my dating and swinging nowadays are with black men. i find they know how to make me feel sexy, and they know they are MEN and know how to treat a woman like a WOMAN. i'm old fashioned in that way. i want the man to lead the dance. seems like most white men i date want to be submissive to the female. and most black men i date have self-confidence. that's a HUGE turn on to me. not judging, and not saying what's right or what's wrong...just saying my old patterns are not my thing anymore.
so anyway, i hope to find like minded friends here and not feel like a freak for being this way! in this area, sometimes the civil war doesn't seem to have ended, especially in the rural places, and i still get raised eyebrows and heads turned when i walk into a public place with a black man. i don't care. i know what works for me and i'm very happy with that. those onlookers just don't know what they're missing!
sammieSC2
so anyway, i hope to find like minded friends here and not feel like a freak for being this way! in this area, sometimes the civil war doesn't seem to have ended, especially in the rural places, and i still get raised eyebrows and heads turned when i walk into a public place with a black man. i don't care. i know what works for me and i'm very happy with that. those onlookers just don't know what they're missing!
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